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cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
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Big Dicks
Could someone please explain something to me.
Why do some males think that by telling a female how large his dick is or showing her a picture of his large dick, that she will instantly want him?
Maybe I'm stupid or something, but comments such as, "my dick is 10 inches", isnt really the most encouring sentance for a first private message you receive from someone!!
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| October 13, 2007, 18:17 |
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dave2big
81 / male
somewhere, Nebraska, US
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Re: Big Dicks
I really believe that you are another victim of the society evil known as " my big dick " syndrome ! nearly all the porn i have ever watched has guys with , of course, VERY big dicks . well, come on, dont laugh, have you EVER watched a porn movie starring a guy with a 2 or 3 inch dick ? NOOOO ! i am not blessed/cursed with a big dick , but hey, i actually LIKE my dick-size !it never gets in the way unless i want it to.....lol  
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| October 13, 2007, 18:42 |
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Re: Big Dicks
I find that those statements about how long IT is are very encouraging!! Encourages me to turn around and run the other way. Nothing worse than spending time with someone who spends more time talking to their "wittle penis" than enjoying all life has to offer. But then isn't it the same with women? Especially those who bought those boobs from the hot air balloon factory? Maybe that's why big boobs and big dicks never hook up , too much competition when it comes to talking about body parts!! 
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| October 13, 2007, 20:56 |
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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: Big Dicks
CJrOXY , not trying to be rude but give me a profilre pic like yours over someone flashing her big boobs or legs spread showing her pussy any day. I think , again my opinion only, it is so much more sexy and intriquing. Someone like you I would want to get to know the others while they may be interesting, threres no interest in knowing them as a person. I was in a pub tonight watching baseball and 3 hot gals cane in, the one who was the most clthed , I found to be the most attractive. She had a hot body but by far the one I would want to talk to and go home with. So, by my typing , you can tell I was in a pub and the fact i'm typing this I didn't go home with her LOL
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| October 13, 2007, 23:50 |
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Mooant
41 / male
New Britain, Connecticut, US
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Re: Big Dicks
That's why you don't see a pic of my dick anymore. No one really cares about how big it is. Besides, if you don't know what you're doing, it doesn't matter how big it is. Think of it as owning the world's best sports car and not even having a driver's license. If you can't do anything with it, then there's no point in bragging about it.
Now that's been said, You wouldn't believe how big...
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| October 14, 2007, 00:58 |
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Re: Big Dicks
I totally agree, 50% of the messages i get from someone always include a picture of his dick,  i would be more impressed by a witty first line or something interesting about the person.
Yes i know someone will step in and say, its a "naughty" site, but good conversation will get you the girl, not a " big dick " photo  
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| October 14, 2007, 05:17 |
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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: Big Dicks
QUOTE (cjroxy @ October 13, 2007, 18:17)Could someone please explain something to me.
Why do some males think that by telling a female how large his dick is or showing her a picture of his large dick, that she will instantly want him?
Maybe I'm stupid or something, but comments such as, "my dick is 10 inches", isnt really the most encouring sentance for a first private message you receive from someone!!
The morning after and I'm not hung over LOL
It's because society tells us it's importent to be big.
Why all the rich plastic surgeons ?
Why are the TV promos for penis enlarging still on the air and making money. Personally, I think those adds are a sad more than sick commentary on wher our society is.
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| October 14, 2007, 06:53 |
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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: Big Dicks
PS The only penis enlarging I would want is a sexy intelligent interesting woman next to me   and for you roxy
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| October 14, 2007, 06:57 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Big Dicks
All I know is that when I drop my pants, the field mice laugh as they are bigger than I am.
But that's fine, I make up for it in other ways.
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| October 14, 2007, 11:19 |
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Re: Big Dicks
I think...the internet has led men to believe that they can be totally defined by thier cocks...that "picking up" women is so much easier in the cyber world.
I have never been approached publicly, in the "real world" by a pantless or naked man who's only words to me were "I have a big dick "
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| October 14, 2007, 14:51 |
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Re: Big Dicks
its because men are visually stimulated... women arent so much. so they go with what works for them and not realising "she" doesnt work that way.
and combine that with the "bigger is always better" mentallity these days, tv, gossip..(i've never heard a single woman ridiculing a guy for a huge pecker before but on the other hand i cant say the same for needle dicks"  anyhow... i've recently learned this is a baited topic and no one will really even pay attention to anything said herein except PENIS.. and SIZE.
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| October 14, 2007, 16:44 |
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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Big Dicks
QUOTE (Chazzy @ October 14, 2007, 14:51)I think...the internet has led men to believe that they can be totally defined by thier cocks...that "picking up" women is so much easier in the cyber world.
I have never been approached publicly, in the "real world" by a pantless or naked man who's only words to me were "I have a big dick "
lmao, hey maybe the pics aren't really theirs. Can't fake in the real world. It is what it is in the real world. Personally I believe that an awfull lot of profile pics are fake. but then again who cares it's their problem
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| October 14, 2007, 22:23 |
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flatbed
59 / male
elgin, Illinois, US
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Re: Big Dicks
its not the size, its if you know how to use it, and please a lady. 
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| October 15, 2007, 06:43 |
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cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
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Re: Big Dicks
Thank you all for your responses, They all have their own valid points.
BCB - I appreciate men are visually aroused, but is that by the look of their own dick? cos thats all they're looking at? lol
But its not just the pics. The pms we receive only say "Do you like big dicks " or "I have a ten inch dick", surely its down to the complete ignorance of these individuals who do not how to arouse a woman and therefore mutual fun and frivolity is missed.
How do we educate these cavemen? do we have to write manuals? or draw diagrams?
Explain in one word syllables how to have fun and flirt a little and enjoying the tease?
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| October 15, 2007, 06:50 |
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Re: Re: Big Dicks
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ October 14, 2007, 16:44)its because men are visually stimulated... women arent so much. so they go with what works for them and not realising "she" doesnt work that way.
and combine that with the "bigger is always better" mentallity these days, tv, gossip..(i've never heard a single woman ridiculing a guy for a huge pecker before but on the other hand i cant say the same for needle dicks" anyhow... i've recently learned this is a baited topic and no one will really even pay attention to anything said herein except PENIS.. and SIZE.
You see BCB, you are a rare find, you understand real attraction starts in a woman's brain. Your sense of humor and mysterious/elusiveness is what women around here find attractive. Women by nature don't want a sure thing and most men do because it is easier than starting with mind sex. We've had this discussion man times, for a woman sex starts with the brain then goes to the physical aspect. We all like raw sexual attraction but if you want to interest a woman start not with a "ten inch dick" but lead in with good conversation and a sense of humor and you will get into her pants alot faster.
Chances of that "ten inch dick" wanting to satisfy our needs physically aren't the best anyway, self gratification is likely what they are looking for, not a mutually fulfilling experience.
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| October 15, 2007, 07:13 |
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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: Big Dicks
w oah, you're good Doc
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| October 15, 2007, 07:49 |
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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Big Dicks
QUOTE (cjroxy @ October 15, 2007, 06:50)Thank you all for your responses, They all have their own valid points.
BCB - I appreciate men are visually aroused, but is that by the look of their own dick? cos thats all they're looking at? lol
But its not just the pics. The pms we receive only say "Do you like big dicks " or "I have a ten inch dick", surely its down to the complete ignorance of these individuals who do not how to arouse a woman and therefore mutual fun and frivolity is missed.
How do we educate these cavemen? do we have to write manuals? or draw diagrams?
Explain in one word syllables how to have fun and flirt a little and enjoying the tease?
Most likely diagrams and manuals won't do any good, you could start with kindergarten in order for them to learn to read. I'll bet all of these guys would be slam bam thank you maam. They really haven't got a clue, ignoring them is probably the best bet.Their brains are dead !!!!!
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| October 15, 2007, 07:56 |
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QUOTE (pookhabear @ October 14, 2007, 22:23) QUOTE (Chazzy @ October 14, 2007, 14:51)I think...the internet has led men to believe that they can be totally defined by thier cocks...that "picking up" women is so much easier in the cyber world.
I have never been approached publicly, in the "real world" by a pantless or naked man who's only words to me were "I have a big dick "
lmao, hey maybe the pics aren't really theirs. Can't fake in the real world. It is what it is in the real world. Personally I believe that an awfull lot of profile pics are fake. but then again who cares it's their problem
That reminds me, once on here I saw 4 other guys trying to use a another member's dic pic as their own main photo!
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| October 15, 2007, 08:33 |
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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: Big Dicks
LOL, I saw 2 girls with same pics and they didn't belong to either of them. The pic was of a lesser known model. Can't remember the models name but they were definitely not their pics
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| October 15, 2007, 09:59 |
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Re: Big Dicks
Ya know I've been giving a lot of thought to this question over the past few days..lol and I think that it's just a case of low self esteem or the need to arouse some sense of excitement for when they are planning a big "event" so to speak. So maybe I should burst the bubble a bit by putting the thought in those "little" minds..men brag about certain conquests but women (?) maybe we aren't all as dumb as they would like to think..we talk to each other. Some may be into games but not all of us.
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| October 15, 2007, 10:43 |
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Re: Big Dicks
I do think that us women need to have some tolerance for the "too horny for their own good" men here...
Just by joining an adult personals site, I know it's reasonable to expect men to behave very sexually towards me.
Like BCB said, men are very visual creatures, and here we all are on an adult personals site, with sexy photos. Some women have very sexy nicknames, explicit photos and text, some women have a more erotic or soft core approach. We flirt and talk openly in a public forum about all things adult and sexual.
We (women) just have to accept at least a little bit of our responsiblity in all this that we will see our share of men who assume we just want to see their dicks.
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| October 15, 2007, 10:52 |
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Re: Big Dicks
We (women) just have to accept at least a little bit of our responsiblity in all this that we will see our share of men who assume we just want to see their dicks
 Chazzy ya know I rarely agree with you but this time you're correct..I was much to harsh and to make amends this is an opportunity for all those guys to line up, drop the drawers and show us their stuff!!!
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| October 15, 2007, 11:09 |
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Re: Big Dicks
Even though men are primarily and instinctively visual creatures, the maturity level varies to the point where a 50 year old man will act like a 16 year old boy because he's ruled by the little head, instead of the big one. I made the decision not to post any photos of my privates based on the knowledge of my big head that MOST women, even on an adult site don't want the image hanging out there(pun intended )for them to unwittingly see. I'm of that thinking also from a man's perspective, I don't want to see a set of labia staring at me in the face unless I want them there. I don't care what your privates look like I want to see what's going on in your mind, that connection is more powerfully sexual than anything physical can be.
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| October 15, 2007, 14:41 |
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cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
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Re: Re: Big Dicks
QUOTE (moriops @ October 15, 2007, 14:41)Even though men are primarily and instinctively visual creatures, the maturity level varies to the point where a 50 year old man will act like a 16 year old boy because he's ruled by the little head, instead of the big one. I made the decision not to post any photos of my privates based on the knowledge of my big head that MOST women, even on an adult site don't want the image hanging out there(pun intended )for them to unwittingly see. I'm of that thinking also from a man's perspective, I don't want to see a set of labia staring at me in the face unless I want them there. I don't care what your privates look like I want to see what's going on in your mind, that connection is more powerfully sexual than anything physical can be.
As some of us know by now, imagination is the most powerful stimulant a human being can have, by unleashing this monster you can be anywhere with anyone doing anything. Unless, which these gentlemen have proved beyond any doubt your imagination has died.. there is hope for those of us who are left to use this special god given talent and enjoy life and have superb fun!!
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| October 15, 2007, 17:30 |
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Camo86
38 / male
FWB, Florida, US
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Re: Big Dicks
I find that most "cyber pimps" use that timeless pickup line just to make themselves feel more appealing regardless of the actual size. Society dictates that a man must have a pretty decent package to score with the ladies, so most just turn around and open up online conversations with that dumb line. A lot of them don't have the fuzz on their peaches to approach an actual lady, so the internet is the easiest and fastest route to score. Too bad that trash usually backfires and I get to see fun dummies flamed to high hell!
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| October 15, 2007, 21:26 |
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QUOTE (Camo86 @ October 15, 2007, 21:26)...so the internet is the easiest and fastest route to score. Too bad that trash usually backfires and I get to see fun dummies flamed to high hell!
Oh yes, so many times I've seen a man so frustrated cuz no one will reply to his invitations and messages...I've tried to work with some of them, telling them that it's gonna take more than an online photo album of their dick, and a message of "You're hot, I'm horny, let's chat" to get a response. I've tried telling them that on a site, men so outnumber women and they've got to use a little more effort, that they will get nowhere just being another dick in a sea of dicks.
Some men just don't have the patience or understanding for this. Maybe they just have the ridiculus notion that women on an adult personals site as just a bunch of indiscrimante horny dick hungry women.
Actually, allot of sites will advertise themselves that way...we've all seen 'em....ads like "Real housewives wanna fuck you tonite"....
Some men are just deperately horny, desperately stubborn and stuck in the quicksand of desperation...
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| October 16, 2007, 07:46 |
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Re: Big Dicks
Oh hell...ya know...I don't want to give the wrong impression that the women (here) don't like dick, sure we do, we like men, naked men and their dicks...but we (most of us anyway) have a need to like the man before we like his dick.
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| October 16, 2007, 09:05 |
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QUOTE (Chazzy @ October 16, 2007, 09:05)Oh hell...ya know...I don't want to give the wrong impression that the women (here) don't like dick, sure we do, we like men, naked men and their dicks...but we (most of us anyway) have a need to like the man before we like his dick.
You're right Chazzy...I like to get to know the person first and then if we hit it off it makes it so much more fun. We all have days when the cyber sex is not first and foremost, sometimes just chat will get us going.
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| October 16, 2007, 12:28 |
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