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THE BEST "HOW TO" INFO ON ANAL SEX
This article (authored by a gay man) contains some of the best information and advice about anal sex and prostrate stimulation that you will ever come across. Although the article is written for men,much applies to anyone wanting to try anal sex for the first time, and those who already enjoy it.
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What ?
It's a male only gland about the size and shape of a walnut. The main function, despite the fun of stimulating it, is reproduction. The sperm producing testicles send that baby juice through vas deferens (the tubes when clipped = vasectomy) to the prostate, where it mixes with fluid from the prostate and seminal vesicles. When a man ejaculates this fluid contains about 5% sperm and 95% seminal/prostate fluid.
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Where?
The gland is located in the man's pubic bone is surrounded by the pelvic muscles and will respond to pressure applied through the rectum
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Why?
Because of the sensitivity and it's active role in sex and reproduction, stimulation of the Prostate Gland can frequently bring immeasurable sexual pleasure to many men when properly stimulated or manipulated. It's one of those sexual play times that can be done individually, or with a partner (my preference). But, like any form of anal play, it might not be for everyone. Many men have very different feelings about anal play, some think of it as being dirty or shameful, others may think it's threat to their masculinity (receiving penetration). Even if the man doesn't have these kinds of feelings, there are some who just don't enjoy the sensation at all,
My experience has been, if the guy is willing to do it, and it's done properly, he will at least enjoy some pleasure from the manipulation. In many cases (mine for example), it can lead to some of the most powerful orgasms that a man can experience. I've even had friends who most recently said, "I never ever thought that putting something in my butt could ever feel good but I have to say the guys that don't try it are really missing out."
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How?
Before you start crammin' things up there (ouch) be sure you have a good idea with it's located or it'll end up being like driving without lights in the Holland Tunnel <wink> The object of the pleasure is to push and move the wall of the rectum against that prostate gland ... not punch it ... but move the probe (fingers, toy, or penis for male2male sessions) so that it moves the wall against the prostate - - the more that touches the gland, the more stimulation and the more pleasure. Trust me, you'll know when you've found it. The key to it all is to go slowly and use lots of lube (this is no time to be miserly about the cost!).
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| October 24, 2004, 04:29 |
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Re: THE BEST "HOW TO" INFO ON ANAL SEX
Here are some not all inclusive suggestions and methods to follow:
Before you start, make sure you've emptied yourself and clean-out a bit. It will make the entire experience much more enjoyable and you'll be more inclined to try it again. A simple quick warm water douche (not to be confused with an enema) should do the trick. The point is to make it all more enjoyable to all your senses, including touch and smell.
Also, take a look at your finger nails, trim them if necessary, file them down a little so they're smooth on the edges. The anus is a sensitive cavern that can tear and scrape easily. It's not as durable for penetration as the vagina. So, at first you may want to use a latex glove on your hand (you can get them in drug stores or even grocery stores). What that does is makes the penetrating object smoother. If you're using a dildo, I also recommend using a condom on the dildo to make it smoother ... and easier for penetration. If you're using latex products (e.g., glove or condom) then be sure to use water based lubricants.
Get yourself really horned up. If you're having sex with a partner, get really into it ... but don't let yourself cum! If you're going to try it by yourself, put on some porn, sit back and get yourself really worked up. Jack off but don't come ... and start to explore your perineum ('taint area - 'taint your balls and 'taint your ass - that spot between them both). Massage it, push on it ... and slowly work your way back to your anus. If you get close to ejaculating stop...start again.
Now begin to work your finger onto the anus ... just massage it and play with it .. add just a little lube. Once you feel comfortable to go further, start generously applying lube to the finger and gently begin pushing and massaging the sphincter muscle . Don't go for depth here yet ... concentrate on relaxing that sphincter muscle. The secret to reducing the pain of intrusion: as you push in... push down from inside (as if you're going to the toilet) ... and bingo you're in in a flash with no pain! Let yourself get used to the invader ... go slow!!! Continue doing the same process with a second and third finger (if possible). Continue to concentrate on relaxing the sphincter muscle and adjusting to the fingers, gently moving in ever widening circles and penetrating a little deeper.
Okay, we're in now ... let's go find the A(hhh)-spot! Still with your fingers try using your middle finger to go a little deeper ...(remember the picture and remember where you want to go in relation to your body position). If you are performing this on a partner and he is on his back using your middle finger, curl the top of it up in a "come hither" motion as you move in and out. You'll be able to feel the prostate through the front part of the rectal wall. With the pad of your finger begin to press along that wall. Don't be afraid to push on the wall of your rectum a little - - that's the whole idea. When you hit it, the first time, you'll know it immediately - - and in many cases you'll actually see semen emerge from the penis. You can continue to massage the prostate like this and add either oral sex or masturbation while massaging and stimulating the Prostate gland to ejaculation. For the more adventurous, this is the point where you can concentrate on moving to a toy. Keep in mind, it might take two or three separate occasions of doing all of this until you feel comfortable doing. Don't rush it, go slow - -the whole point is to enjoy it all completely.
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| October 24, 2004, 04:29 |
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2hornythreesome
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melbourne, Victoria, Australia
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Re: THE BEST "HOW TO" INFO ON ANAL SEX
thanks babe you are a wealth of information will give it a go and fill you in later with how we went 
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