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Fifty Mistakes Men Make When Having Sex (part 6)
43 Playing with her anus before she's excited enough to appreciate it
When you're masturbating her clitoris, and you have a finger inside her vagina, you may find that she responds well to a little anal play. If you have the position right, you can use your little finger to tickle gently at her anus as your forefinger plays with her G-spot. This may well add to her excitement - especially if she's on the verge of orgasm. If you try this before she's really excited and has stopped caring what's happening to her, you might just turn her off completely, so it might not be a bad idea to check it out with her in advance.
44 Deafening her by shouting in her ear when you come
An easy mistake to make, especially if you like to have sex in the man on top position lying close to your partner, and you like to let the world know when you come. Unfortunately she won't let you do it a second time, so bury your face in the pillow or something if you're prone to uncontrollable vocal ejaculations as well as physical ones.
45 Talking dirty without checking if she likes it
Generally a little consensual dirty talk between adults adds to the excitement. The first time your partner tells you to f*** her hot wet c*** you'll see what I mean. If that hasn't happened yet, and you'd like it to, encourage her to talk dirty to you when you're making love, and see what pops out of her mouth. You might be surprised. Remember legend has it that the quiet ones are often the most surprising in bed!
46 Lying on top of her without supporting your weight on your arms
Always remember: a gentleman takes his weight on his arms. Or elbows, or knees, or something.
47 Ejaculating on her without asking permission
Coming between her breasts or on her vulva or bottom can be incredibly exciting, but it's nice to ask her first. She may see it less a mark of your ejaculatory prowess or manhood than a mess to clear up.
48 Not controlling your ejaculation
Like we said before, a good lover makes the effort to make sure his partner is satisfied before he is.
49 Not spending some time with her in your arms after sex
A man who gets up after he's done the business and sets about his daily routine is probably top of most women's sexual dislikes. For her, this is a special time when a woman feels very close to her partner. She takes much longer to come down from sex than a man does, she wants to know she's loved and special, and she wants to feel adored by the man to whom she has just given her most precious asset. The very least you can do is to spend a half hour or so cuddling her while you relax after making love, even if you're not going to spend the night with her.
50 Not cleaning up after sex
And since sex inevitably involves a certain amount of fluids, keep the tissues handy for afterwards. If you feel like being chivalrous, offer her a warm towel to clean herself, especially if you aren't using condoms.
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| September 30, 2007, 08:43 |
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pookhabear
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Re: Fifty Mistakes Men Make When Having Sex (part 6)
Great love it
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| September 30, 2007, 08:49 |
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Re: Fifty Mistakes Men Make When Having Sex (part 6)
Thank you Chazzy and pookhabear
Both posts were great and maybe what both men and women need to read
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| September 30, 2007, 13:26 |
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Re: Fifty Mistakes Men Make When Having Sex (part 6)
(sigh)....sadly...my husbands list is much longer than this one...
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| October 1, 2007, 09:22 |
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BigWhiteGirl
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Aiken, South Carolina, US
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Re: Re: Fifty Mistakes Men Make When Having Sex (part 6)
QUOTE (Chazzy @ October 1, 2007, 09:22)(sigh)....sadly...my husbands list is much longer than this one...
LOL!
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| October 1, 2007, 09:32 |
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pookhabear
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port st lucie, Florida, US
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