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cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
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appearance
Have just watched a tv show over here and it got me thinking?
Do you judge a person by what they wear? or do you wait until you've gotten to know them?
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| September 27, 2007, 16:49 |
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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: appearance
Never judge by what they wear as long as it is neat and clean. Clothes may help but don't make the person
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| September 27, 2007, 18:42 |
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Re: appearance
I don't judge people by what they wear. Personality and integrity are important to me. I hold myself to a very high standard in dressing but I don't expect the people that work for me to follow the same rules (although there is a dress code in my office). I believe in setting an example but everyone makes choices on how they wish to spend their money and what their priorities are. I agree that a neat and clean appearance is important but that is not a style or clothing issue to me.
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| September 27, 2007, 20:11 |
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Re: appearance
I judge someone on the first conversation i have with them, i'm a pretty good judge of character, and have been right so far.
I don't take much notice of what people wear, unless their naked, that tends to stand out a bit!!! 
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| September 28, 2007, 14:13 |
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Re: appearance
You may see me dressed conservatively when I'm off to visit my parents, dressed in spandex if I'm stepping out for live music and dancing, dressed in a suit if I have an appointment and even catch me in the gardening/nursery or hardware store check out line with my worn baggy overalls, dirty fingernails and messy hair in a scrunchy....all that can be concluded from all that is what I happen to be doing at that time, not who I am or what I am...
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| September 28, 2007, 19:26 |
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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: appearance
Like I said I'd hire you in a heartbeat  LOL
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| September 28, 2007, 19:28 |
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Re: appearance
Definitely personality, but if they are wearing dark mascara, leather bustier and carry a cat-o-nine tails, then maybe not!
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| September 28, 2007, 20:06 |
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Re: appearance
I'm not the best dresser,I wear T-shirts and jeans most of the time,I wish people would look past my looks and see me as who I am,A HORNY OLDER MAN !!!!! LOL  
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| September 28, 2007, 21:45 |
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mdig98t
63 / male
MG, Minnesota, US
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Re: appearance
It depends upon the situation like working in a warehouse vs public.Plus it definitely includes their personality
and actions...do they smile,say hello,try to talk to you,are they violators in the workplace,cloths to baggy or in appropriate for the situation.It would not matter if,it were a friend visiting.
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| September 29, 2007, 01:19 |
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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: appearance
i think a smile and a pleasant personality overcomes all of it. Keep it's infectious
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| September 29, 2007, 07:29 |
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Re: appearance
I usually dress to suit me comfortable and casual
I can dress nicely when the rare occasion arises
So I judge no one on what they wear
I want to know the person not their clothes
I am not into fashion trends I make my own
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| September 29, 2007, 07:46 |
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Re: appearance
it's not what's on the outside that counts....
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| September 30, 2007, 00:08 |
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Re: appearance
I have a definite distaste for the young guys in their ghetto wear (long baggy t-shirts with baggy jeans). It looks shitty and f**king stupid.
I realize that most of the guys wearing these rags are decent people. I just have a thing about pre-judging them. I would not hire one of them dressed in their ghetto attire.....no f**king way! First impressions are v-e-r-y important to me.
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| September 30, 2007, 17:26 |
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Re: appearance
I do, so badly...want that fad of wearing huge jeans around the thighs instead of the waist or hips to just stop!!!
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| October 1, 2007, 09:01 |
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BigWhiteGirl
41 / couple
Aiken, South Carolina, US
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Re: appearance
We're Jeans and T shirts all the way, so we have no place to judge. 
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| October 1, 2007, 09:31 |
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