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Liberalwife
47 / female
north, England, UK
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Constructive Sexual Criticism
When is the best time to give your partner constructive sexual criticism?
A. Before Sex
B. During Sex
C. After Sex
D. Never
P.S. If you are leaning towards, a...b..AND c..please consult Dr. Juilis for further guidance.
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| September 21, 2007, 03:49 |
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lonerwolf
72 / male
small town (South Jersey), New Jersey, US
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Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
Hey LW you forgot (E) When you to damn drunk to give a hoot.
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| September 21, 2007, 03:55 |
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Liberalwife
47 / female
north, England, UK
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Re: Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
QUOTE (lonerwolf @ September 21, 2007, 03:55)Hey LW you forgot (E) When you to damn drunk to give a hoot.
 Hmmm... brewers droop can be a bit of a 'let down' you know. 
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| September 21, 2007, 04:29 |
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Re: Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
QUOTE (lonerwolf @ September 21, 2007, 03:55)Hey LW you forgot (E) When you to damn drunk to give a hoot.
Or if you decide you never want that person to have sex with you again. 
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| September 21, 2007, 12:34 |
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Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
While there in the pub with all their mates, watching football on the big screen!!!! 
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| September 21, 2007, 13:44 |
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cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
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Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
Why criticise? why not teach and enjoy
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| September 21, 2007, 15:44 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
QUOTE (hotbubblegum @ September 21, 2007, 13:44)
 You wouldn't , would you?????????????
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| September 21, 2007, 18:14 |
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ShadowSpirit69
69 / male
Southern Oklahoma, Oklahoma, US
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Re: Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
QUOTE (cjroxy @ September 21, 2007, 15:44)Why criticise? why not teach and enjoy
I am with you on that one, everyone has their own "quirks" and "feeling them out" can make it that much more fun.
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| September 22, 2007, 04:06 |
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Re: Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
QUOTE (cjroxy @ September 21, 2007, 15:44)Why criticise? why not teach and enjoy
Aah! The art of experimentation!!! 
 
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| September 22, 2007, 05:14 |
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lonerwolf
72 / male
small town (South Jersey), New Jersey, US
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Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
I agree with some of what everyone said. But I think most of all if you are with a person who really cares and you care for them , then anytime that is private or intimate to the both of you is a good time to talk. Each person is different and each situation is different, but truth, honesty and loving is what it is all about.
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| September 22, 2007, 07:10 |
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Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
QUOTE (Liberalwife @ September 21, 2007, 03:49)When is the best time to give your partner constructive sexual criticism?
A. Before Sex
B. During Sex
C. After Sex
D. Never
P.S. If you are leaning towards, a...b..AND c..please consult Dr. Juilis for further guidance.
Why Lib, thank you for your confidence...
I would say subtle guidance or "teaching" someone what you like and if they don't get the hint, I think HBG had it just perfect, move on to telling them at the pub in front of all their mates...
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| September 22, 2007, 08:22 |
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cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
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Re: Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
QUOTE (lonerwolf @ September 22, 2007, 07:10)I agree with some of what everyone said. But I think most of all if you are with a person who really cares and you care for them , then anytime that is private or intimate to the both of you is a good time to talk. Each person is different and each situation is different, but truth, honesty and loving is what it is all about.
Totally agree with you there honey. But you dont need to talk to teach!!! if you get my meaning...By using all of your body you can get your message across loud and clear.
Especially, with truth, honesty and loving!!!.
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| September 22, 2007, 09:55 |
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Re: Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
QUOTE (Juilianna @ September 22, 2007, 08:22) QUOTE (Liberalwife @ September 21, 2007, 03:49)When is the best time to give your partner constructive sexual criticism?
A. Before Sex
B. During Sex
C. After Sex
D. Never
P.S. If you are leaning towards, a...b..AND c..please consult Dr. Juilis for further guidance.
Why Lib, thank you for your confidence...
I would say subtle guidance or "teaching" someone what you like and if they don't get the hint, I think HBG had it just perfect, move on to telling them at the pub in front of all their mates...
Thanks juils, I don't think i could be that heartless, or could I??!!!
 laugh: 
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| September 22, 2007, 11:54 |
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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
QUOTE (cjroxy @ September 21, 2007, 15:44)Why criticise? why not teach and enjoy
My very sentiments, most of the fun is in the practice and learning
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| September 22, 2007, 12:27 |
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Re: Constructive Sexual Criticism
Usually it starts with ouch... then proceeds with maybe a lil giggle. About all that needs to be said?
LOL.
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| September 22, 2007, 22:55 |
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