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showtime58
66 / male
covington, Washington, US
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hi
hello
i am having problems with my girl
she dont like sex or something like that
we have sex maybe 1 every 2 or 3 weeks
and i dont know how to tell her i want more
and i want it from others
so please tell me how do i go about telling her
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| August 13, 2007, 14:17 |
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Re: hi
I think you should sit down one evening and just talk to her, you need to give her the opportunity to tell you how she feels, there might be a reason she doesn't want sex more.
You could devastate her if you decided to cheat on her, as a woman i would want my husband/partner to talk to me about what he wants/feels.
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| August 13, 2007, 15:04 |
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cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
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Re: hi
All I can say is that hubby and I began a conversation a few months ago and it opened so many doors. Being completely honest with each other, even on subjects which make you feel uncomfortable can be a wonderful liberating feeling.
Now after 25years together we have reached complete honesty, liberty and freedom, as we agreed only with each other present in any situation.
So be honest. Can you honestly live unhappy for the rest of your life or emotional scar both of you by having an affair?
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| August 15, 2007, 15:22 |
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Re: hi
Ya'all have allot to work on dear, how long have you and your girl been together?
I don't think your problem is "how" you can tell her, but it's "why" you have a problem telling her.
I sure couldn't advise that you dump it all out on her at once about needing more sex AND wanting it from others...baby steps!
Most times, with couples the lack of sex is a symptom of problems, not the actual problem. Expand your focus, you both need to be comfortable talking about anything with each other.
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| August 15, 2007, 15:31 |
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Re: hi
why don't you take the lead and try to get more sex out of her? if she balks at it just smile and romance her and keep plugging away with her and tell her you would like more sex and all along try to undress her as you talk...
she'll do one of two things..1. she'll just look at you and think you're a sex crazed man 2. she might try to see if she gies you a little more you'll be happy.
my wife married me about a year back from 2nd tour in Nam.
she was and still is very beautiful and loved sex. me i was just happy to have a round eyed that liked sex. along about the 4th year of marriage she asked me "Don't you ever get tired of sex"? my response to her was "not when you're making love to the most beautiful woman in the world".
of course i got it 3 times a day back then and at night i'd go 6 to 7 times except once when i hit 10 straight times in a row. sweat was running off both of us and we had moved the bed across the room..no lie..laughed like crazy when we both had an orgasism and realized what we had done.
So what i'm saying is don't give up keep trying and smiling and tell her how she is the most beautiful woman in the world, of course it helps if you really feel that way as they can tell by your voice somehow...
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