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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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A death in the family
My grandfather, who was 91 years old has past away today.....As I sit here with tears in my eyes, I realize that he lived a long and prosperous life.....He was so well known in his home town that they even have a day that was dedicated to him, which is May 2 "Zip Day" ...(everyone called him Zip)
I can remember walking into town with him when I was younger and there wasn't one person who didn't stop us to ask "which one are you?".....And I would have to say Craig's daughter, with a grin. .....He was the Postmaster for years, and I would always go visit him at the post office and thought I was the "shit" because he was MY grandfather, and I could just walk right into his office with pride!
He was the oldest living member of the fire department and the lions club.....He was on every board possible, including the Board of education.....He was an incredible individual and well loved and admired in his town....
He had been sick for a few years now, dementia, so it is a bit easier to know he is now at peace....I am thankful for that, and even more so that I got to say good-bye to him yesterday even though he didn't remember who I am, in my heart, I know he knew I was there......
No real point to this post but to just be able to get it off my chest.....I might be away for a few days being that his wake will be days with all the people my grandfather touched.......
My heart breaks for my grandmother, who was married to him for 69 years.....However, she sounded much better than I expected......I thank God for that as well!
Its funny, this is the first place I turned to.....I guess I can say that this place truly is a part of my family.....
I love you Poppa, rest in peace 
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| July 13, 2007, 14:35 |
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slowpoke2
52 / male
aberdeen, Scotland, UK
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Re: A death in the family
so sorry to hear that honey, i know how u must be feeling, my thoughts are with you  
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| July 13, 2007, 14:38 |
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Re: A death in the family
Sorry to hear of your loss
You are in our prayers and thoughts
take care
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| July 13, 2007, 14:45 |
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Re: A death in the family
Yes you and your family are in our prayers. Sorry to hear bout your Poppa, I lost mine last summer whom also had dementia........I know he wouldn't have wanted to spend to many years like that so I felt at easy when he passed, knowing he also had a long fulfilling life and now it is his turn to rest in peace.....
Take care.....
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| July 13, 2007, 16:27 |
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REALshedevil
66 / female
Richmond, Missouri, US
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Re: A death in the family
So sorry to hear of your loss. It is so amazing what an impact our grandparents have on our lives even as we grow older.
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| July 13, 2007, 16:55 |
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cobaltheat
55 / male
Leicester, England, UK
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Re: A death in the family
Can I also pass on my best wishes to you. I know it is probably no comfort now, but it sounds like you had some real good times with your grandfather. Over time I am sure you will come to cherish those times.
Sure we all feeling for you.
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| July 13, 2007, 17:00 |
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bear
63 / male
OHIO, Ohio, US
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Re: A death in the family
Sorry to hear of your loss. Know that you and your family will be in the prayers of many. Take care.
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| July 13, 2007, 17:31 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: A death in the family
I'm so sorry kitten, I know the feeling of loss well. I miss my own grandfather a lot. he was such a good story teller, true stories about his life & events he remembered, he was just good at telling them.. I used to love sitting there listening to him.
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| July 13, 2007, 17:47 |
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Re: A death in the family
I've very sorry to hear this. it is always very difficult when a close family member passes. I know you will move on, but always remember him in your heart.
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| July 13, 2007, 17:52 |
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Re: A death in the family
I am sorry for your lose an am praying for you and your family. I know how painful this is I lost my Dad three weeks ago.
May God hold you and your family in his hand though this time of pain and sorry.
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| July 13, 2007, 19:13 |
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rawk35
56 / couple
valley, Oregon, US
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Re: A death in the family
Damn! I hope I have the same years to enjoy! as for gramms 60+ years together, I can only hope!!!! you are fortunate for such longevity in your genes and I applaude their dedication! you should be proud kitty! chin lifted, head held high, to come from such honorable peeps! my sincere condolences.we knew you were special! we dance, In rejoice of the blessed life they had! embrace the memory, and chin up, try, no! settle for nothing less in your realm! strength and honor!!! to gramms and gramps!!! C YA SOON!!! 
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| July 13, 2007, 19:48 |
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Re: A death in the family
I'm also sorry to hear about your loss,I hope you and the rest of your family are doing okay. 
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| July 13, 2007, 23:01 |
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Re: A death in the family
Our thoughts are with you...
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| July 14, 2007, 00:08 |
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dave2big
81 / male
somewhere, Nebraska, US
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Re: A death in the family
so sorry for your loss kitten . please believe that my prayers are with you.....
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| July 14, 2007, 00:13 |
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Re: A death in the family
my heart goes out to you and your loved ones...always be thankful for the time you had together, i never got to know either of my grandfathers...they both passed on to a better place before i was born. if you need anything at all..remember
that you have family and friends here.
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| July 14, 2007, 00:47 |
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Re: A death in the family
Sorry to hear of your loss sweetie. My prayers are with you and him.
Peace be with you all.
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| July 14, 2007, 07:53 |
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ShadowSpirit69
69 / male
Southern Oklahoma, Oklahoma, US
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Re: A death in the family
Kitten, I am so sorry for your loss. Be assured that his spirit rests peacefully and he will always be with you.
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| July 14, 2007, 08:55 |
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Re: A death in the family
I'm very sorry for you loss, dear.
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| July 14, 2007, 08:56 |
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Re: A death in the family
Thinking of you hun and sending you all my love to you and your family.
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| July 14, 2007, 09:41 |
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KINKYINTHEFALLS
56 / male
wild and wonderful, West Virginia, US
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Re: A death in the family
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss sweatheart. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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| July 14, 2007, 15:57 |
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smitty6044
80 / male
A whoop and a hollar from Dallas, Texas, US
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Re: A death in the family
Kitten it is difficult now but it Will be easier as time goes by. Focus on the memories of all the good times for all of those years and all the lives he touched along the way. My condolences to you and it makes us all feel special that you included all of us in your thoughts right now. I will include "Zip" in my prayers and light a candle for him today. I have experienced a loss earlier this year and I understand your difficulties. If you would like to talk, I'm here for you any time!
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| July 15, 2007, 06:09 |
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Re: A death in the family
It is so difficult to loose those we love. I am sorry you are having to go throught this.
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| July 16, 2007, 04:00 |
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stevanos
65 / male
A place in Bendover, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: A death in the family
Terribly sorry for your loss. I never had the pleasure of meeting my grandparents (they passed away before I was born). Would love to have had the nurturing experiences that somebody goes through when they have grandparents. Our prayers are with you.
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| July 16, 2007, 09:58 |
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