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thorfun
60 / male
everett, Washington, US
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slave training
n e one else interested in sex slave training? Not into pain, but a good sub is a wonderful treasure. 
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| July 13, 2007, 02:24 |
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dave2big
81 / male
somewhere, Nebraska, US
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Re: slave training
i have been a free member here for quite awhile, and i have the same interest, unfortunately, none of the ladies have stepped forward to volunteer. hang in there, maybe we will both get lucky someday !!!!
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| July 13, 2007, 09:25 |
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Re: slave training
Slave training is far more "indepth" than people might think.
There's so much more to slave training, then someone just does what they are told, and the relationship between Master and slave is a little more complex, Masters can use and have such a fascinating variety of training methods..
I would love to hear more from Masters about their slave training methods and techniques...
...and a little more indepth talk about it could bring about more interest from others that just may be curious enough to wanna try it!
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| July 14, 2007, 09:24 |
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REALshedevil
66 / female
Richmond, Missouri, US
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Re: Re: slave training
QUOTE (Chazzy @ July 14, 2007, 09:24)Slave training is far more "indepth" than people might think.
There's so much more to slave training, then someone just does what they are told, and the relationship between Master and slave is a little more complex, Masters can use and have such a fascinating variety of training methods..
I would love to hear more from Masters about their slave training methods and techniques...
...and a little more indepth talk about it could bring about more interest from others that just may be curious enough to wanna try it!
Very good suggestion Chazzy! Come on Masters, tell us.  
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| July 14, 2007, 12:21 |
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thorfun
60 / male
everett, Washington, US
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Re: slave training
Nice to see some intrest. I think everyone thinks the master has all the power, when in fact the power really lies with the slave. She has to consent to submit. With out her consent then it's just abuse. Having said that... there is not a better way to enjoy each other. It can be very exciting to explore each others limits. Sometimes you can even suprise yourself with the things that you are willing to try. Love to read all of your comments and thoughts
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| July 14, 2007, 17:28 |
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REALshedevil
66 / female
Richmond, Missouri, US
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Re: Re: slave training
QUOTE (thorfun @ July 14, 2007, 17:28)Nice to see some intrest. I think everyone thinks the master has all the power, when in fact the power really lies with the slave. She has to consent to submit. With out her consent then it's just abuse. Having said that... there is not a better way to enjoy each other. It can be very exciting to explore each others limits. Sometimes you can even suprise yourself with the things that you are willing to try. Love to read all of your comments and thoughts
I have heard that it is totally awesome to find out your limits. 
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| July 14, 2007, 17:35 |
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thorfun
60 / male
everett, Washington, US
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Re: slave training
Indeed  Great way to keep things interesting. Sometimes a person just needs a little nudge in a new direction. 
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| July 14, 2007, 18:19 |
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cobaltheat
55 / male
Leicester, England, UK
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Re: slave training
Well guys, you all go and have fun.
Fraid it's not my cup of tea, but enjoy yourselves.
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| July 14, 2007, 18:41 |
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Re: Re: slave training
QUOTE (thorfun @ July 14, 2007, 17:28)Nice to see some intrest. I think everyone thinks the master has all the power, when in fact the power really lies with the slave. She has to consent to submit. With out her consent then it's just abuse. Having said that... there is not a better way to enjoy each other. It can be very exciting to explore each others limits. Sometimes you can even suprise yourself with the things that you are willing to try. Love to read all of your comments and thoughts
Yep, you are so right that many think it's all about the Master having control, but it is the slave/slave trainee that is empowered.
And some do have a problem with separating "abuse" and "bdsm"...
Master/slave relationships can be great excitement for novices, and for those that live even deeper into the BDSM culture, it's an amazing symbiotic relationship of ultimate trust.
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| July 16, 2007, 17:51 |
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thorfun
60 / male
everett, Washington, US
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Re: slave training
So true Chazzy. Trust is very important.
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| July 17, 2007, 11:03 |
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DarkHunter
41 / male
Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
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Re: slave training
I am new here and was glad to see a discussion on this topic. someone mentioned discussing specific methods. my method is to use a blend of reward and punishment that allows my slave to gain reward after a punishment by correcting the mistake. I have found her to be more willing to push her self and follow the rules when using this method. her safe words are always listened to and in that way trust is kept. I hope that someone finds this interesting.
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| July 23, 2007, 12:38 |
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Re: slave training
Feel free to indulge us with details of your methods!
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| July 23, 2007, 21:22 |
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DarkHunter
41 / male
Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
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Re: slave training
thank you for the encouragement chazzy.
one point to expand on is within the realm of what kind of awards to give. there are times when my slave makes a request for the reward to be something selfish and just for her, while at other times she will ask me to push one of her limits so that she may please me further. I have found that paying close attention to her most recent actions helps make choosing what to give her a little easier due to being better able to read what her body wants. be it learning to hold an orgasm off for longer periods or walking around with some new apparatus. I hope i am not getting too detailed and that others continue to like what i have to say.
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| July 24, 2007, 01:34 |
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Re: Re: slave training
QUOTE (DarkHunter @ July 24, 2007, 01:34).... I hope i am not getting too detailed and that others continue to like what i have to say.
Hey, it's a "Fetish Forum" don't worry about it, people should expect this forum to have a little more edge to it than "General Discussion"....
Please, continue to post, start some new topics....I think it's great to have some serious fetish types around to liven up this particular forum!
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| July 25, 2007, 00:55 |
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DarkHunter
41 / male
Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
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Re: slave training
has anyone here found themselves owning a slave who is so devoted to you that they consider being made to push a limit an unrivaled birthday gift?
Mine recently asked that of me and I found it extremely telling of how far she has progressed.
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| August 4, 2007, 03:21 |
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REALshedevil
66 / female
Richmond, Missouri, US
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Re: Re: slave training
QUOTE (DarkHunter @ July 23, 2007, 12:38)I am new here and was glad to see a discussion on this topic. someone mentioned discussing specific methods. my method is to use a blend of reward and punishment that allows my slave to gain reward after a punishment by correcting the mistake. I have found her to be more willing to push her self and follow the rules when using this method. her safe words are always listened to and in that way trust is kept. I hope that someone finds this interesting.
I do believe you just said the most important thing when it comes to this and that is trust. That is definitely first and foremost in this.
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| August 4, 2007, 08:47 |
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stayhard43756
65 / male
stockport, Ohio, US
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Re: slave training
QUOTE (thorfun @ July 13, 2007, 02:24)n e one else interested in sex slave training? Not into pain, but a good sub is a wonderful treasure.
I am train me
stay
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| August 5, 2007, 13:53 |
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sissyboycindy
59 / male
Tulsa, Oklahoma, US
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Re: slave training
I want to have a dominant person train me to do as ordered when ever and where ever ordered and more,but havent found anyone who will do it for more than a short time.
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