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rawk35
56 / couple
valley, Oregon, US
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what's the difference?
what"s the difference between being a loser and losing? being a good lover or being a great lover? winning or a winner? surviving or a survivor? cmon ppls whats your take. we want to know!
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| July 11, 2007, 22:23 |
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Re: what's the difference?
Optimism and enthusiasm,
A loser will continually set himself up for failure, or at least view everything in a negative way, only focus on the negative bits and fail to appreciate the positive bits.
A loser thinks and says "why me?" way more often than others do.
Enthusiasm is to me, the most important quality in a lover, they feel it...they express it!
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| July 11, 2007, 22:50 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: what's the difference?
About a half a glass of water... 
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| July 12, 2007, 03:59 |
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flatbed
59 / male
elgin, Illinois, US
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Re: what's the difference?
a loser will give up but a person losing might not. a person who is losing should not give up. i know this because im not nothing to write home about. im not giving up finding someone. sorry this subject hit a soft spot.  
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| July 12, 2007, 07:29 |
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REALshedevil
66 / female
Richmond, Missouri, US
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Re: what's the difference?
I totally believe it has to do with your attitude. If you have the attitude that you can't do something then you aren't going to try. How many of us have had something put in front of us to do and before we even try to do it we say there is no way we can accomplish it? Yes, there are times when things that are set before us can't be done by us, maybe someone else will accomplish it. But I really believe that if we at least try, then we are winners. 
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| July 12, 2007, 07:44 |
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