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nykitten
54 / female Pawling, New York, US
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Is beauty deep?
I must say a massive thank you! For all of your compliments about my pictures, as they were all genuine....
By the way, happiness can do amazing things for your Beauty!
Now back on track, since I have been "dating" I have spoken to all kinds of people.....I have also experienced the instant attraction to someone as well as falling for someone I didn't find overly attractive,
I have noticed that the person I didn't have the "hots" for became more beautiful everyday to me....I found it incredible to truly grow and be able to find someone more beautiful through time!
I can see that even on dating sites. the minute you put up your best shot (which I would assume we all try to)
You feel like shit, and the fly's are all over you!
Although its funny, it makes it hard to weed out the genuine people!.....
Have you ever had that kind of experience?.......Because I find most people wont take the time to get to know how beautiful you can be, without even seeing them!
Sadly to say, I have been guilty of this myself
Thanks again to all of you!
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June 25, 2007, 11:21 |
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Re: Is beauty deep?
you are very welcome NYK..those are beautiful shots of you. As you say beauty isn't always on the outside. It's what is in on the inside what counts.
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June 25, 2007, 11:26 |
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dave2big
81 / male somewhere, Nebraska, US
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Re: Is beauty deep?
i truly believe that beauty IS only skin deep ! take (and you are welcome to her!) Paris Hilton, she has all the advantages,money,position, and friends,sort of... i really prefer a genuine person like you kitten ! you are extremely attractive with a gentle smile and a loving heart !above all, i believe you to be an honest,caring woman that only deserves the best ! good luck sweetie, you are the best !!!!! ps....wish i lived in New York state....lol
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June 25, 2007, 11:37 |
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Re: Is beauty deep?
I'm repeating myself...I know...but there are no good looking jerk assholes...
I'm first attracted to people platonicly, only from that point can I actually develop a physical or romantic attraction to them....it's always from the inside out...
I can see any person and say they are a physically attractive person,(ie...they are handsome, or beautiful) but to be physically attracted comes from the whole person, not the shell.
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June 25, 2007, 18:20 |
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Re: Is beauty deep?
Absolutely...for me it starts with the mind. I think especially in someone's youth that physical attraction is most important. As we grow older (and hopefully wiser) attraction isn't about how great someone looks in a pair of jeans but how they treat you with respect and kindness...
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June 25, 2007, 21:58 |
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