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Ulterior motives?
When it comes to being sexually attracted and "smitten" with someone, how sincere are you with your sweet talk?
Do you lay it on thick cuz there's that bottom line of "gettin' in their pants" or because you really want to capture their attention and heart, and make a real impression?
Do you often have doubts when you first start seeing and/or dating someone that what they say, and how they act has sexual "ulterior motives"?
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| June 21, 2007, 19:28 |
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smitty6044
80 / male
A whoop and a hollar from Dallas, Texas, US
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Re: Ulterior motives?
I think you should always be sincere and honest in dealing with people. If you want in their pants, be honest and say so! Anytime you aren't honest in a relationship you either have to tell more lies or "fess up", so why even start? That way there is never any hesitation about "what did I say before" because that thought isn't even required. If we all were more honest and up front there would be much fewer "breakdowns" in relationships. Quality, not quantity has always been my goal.
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| June 22, 2007, 00:30 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Ulterior motives?
I tend to flirt way too much. I've been know to get into trouble every now and then. Ok, maybe everytime I talk with a nice looking lady. But I won't lie to them, either. Most of the time, it has nothing to do with "getting into their pants". 
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| June 22, 2007, 01:19 |
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Re: Ulterior motives?
i believe in being honest with each other
Don't lie
You have to remember who you told what lie to
My memory isn't that great so tell the truth
take care
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| June 22, 2007, 06:56 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Ulterior motives?
I used to use a technique I learned from women. Flirt in a passive nature in quick short bursts. That way if the other person is not in tune or is turned off, you can deny everything and make them think is was totally their screwed up signals that got you in that situation in the first place. Used to work like a charm, but it took a lot of work. Now I just don't have the time for that anymore... 
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| June 22, 2007, 10:14 |
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Re: Ulterior motives?
Sometimes, I think that during the first few dates or durning a "courtship" phase, people are being honest,just all sparked up from the chemistry of it all...and can lay it on pretty thick between the chemistry thing and the hormonal thing...
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| June 24, 2007, 17:53 |
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iceone4u
54 / male
Cincinnati, Ohio, US
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Re: Ulterior motives?
Hmmm... simply put, the "cat and mouse game" left me a long time ago. I definately will say something to get into a gals pants, and I it would be something like the following... "Let's get naked ... I want in your pants"! It seems that people are hesitant to do that for the fear that they'll be considered a pervert, which I know that I am and really don't care if they know it. This brutal honesty makes a few run.. but turns on others. Just like anything else... I'ts numbers I guess... NEXT! 
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| June 26, 2007, 05:06 |
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Liberalwife
47 / female
north, England, UK
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Re: Ulterior motives?
Depends on the guys personality, some can be upfront and saucy, but are cute enough to get away with it  ...And some deserve a slap....lol! 
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| June 26, 2007, 07:35 |
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