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Do you sometimes hide your true personality
Taking for granted that we here, all all sexually orientated to some degree. When a person you know (not the preacher of course) but in general at the office or the store, mall, hair salon,,etc. is talking with you, just small talk, and a sexy joke comes to play, or anything relating to even the smallest just cute friendly remarks that do not mean a thing but just to get a laugh,,,,,do you share in with a few sexy remarks of funny jokes of your own, even if you do not find the person sexually attractive?
Or do you try to curb the conversation to the baseball score, or weather report if you do not find that person sexually attractive and reserve your flirty sexy side for only those that you do consider attractive or a possible partner.
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June 7, 2007, 14:41 |
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
I don't engage in inappropriate converstations in appropriate places or people...
When I'm with friends, I'm very much a potty mouth with a risque sense of humor...very much!
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June 7, 2007, 14:46 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
The only time I will hold back, is when I'm at my parents, or in a public place. If we are in the confines of home, bar, car, its almost anything goes.
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June 7, 2007, 15:52 |
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Re: Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
QUOTE (Chazzy @ June 7, 2007, 14:46)I don't engage in inappropriate converstations in appropriate places or people...
When I'm with friends, I'm very much a potty mouth with a risque sense of humor...very much!
Sooo,,,I guess what you are saying is that you Do hide your true personality???? or are you saying you have different personalities for different occasions?
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June 7, 2007, 16:09 |
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Re: Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
QUOTE (funlovingpair @ June 7, 2007, 15:52)The only time I will hold back, is when I'm at my parents, or in a public place. If we are in the confines of home, bar, car, its almost anything goes.
I am the same way, I do not try to hide anything, if and when sex comes up, I always entertain the thought and even add to it, even if I do Not find the other people sexually attractive to me. I figure it is all in fun, so I go with it
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June 7, 2007, 16:19 |
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Re: Re: Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
QUOTE (hothands @ June 7, 2007, 16:09) QUOTE (Chazzy @ June 7, 2007, 14:46)I don't engage in inappropriate converstations in appropriate places or people...
When I'm with friends, I'm very much a potty mouth with a risque sense of humor...very much!
Sooo,,,I guess what you are saying is that you Do hide your true personality???? or are you saying you have different personalities for different occasions?
No need to "guess" at what I'm saying....
It is my true personality to try to behave appropriately for the place, occasion, and company....
I can fit in at the bowling alley one nite, and enjoy myself at the country club another nite.
I know how to be warm, friendly but still professional when it's required and respectful to do so, and kick it up and get stupid and silly at a party, or hangin' with friends.
And that is indeed my TRUE personality.
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June 7, 2007, 17:17 |
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
I can normally come bck with some rude remarks if someone else starts the conversation, bt otherwise, I am nrmally pretty conservative.....
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June 7, 2007, 21:18 |
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REALshedevil
66 / female Richmond, Missouri, US
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
I wouldn't say that I hide my true personality. I do have times when I'm more reserved and professional. I enjoy talking with people, whether it be in a professional setting or a relaxed friends setting. In my line of work I have to deal personally with my customer. We have a good business relationship and a good friendship relationship. Just when I'm at work I try to stay professional. But that isn't saying we don't have fun at work. To be quite truthful, all of the staff at my work are pretty crazy and we are all like family.
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June 7, 2007, 21:24 |
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KINKYINTHEFALLS
56 / male wild and wonderful, West Virginia, US
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
Yes I'm shy
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June 7, 2007, 21:26 |
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
One doesn't have to have multiple personalities to exist in society, we just have to shift gears to the appropriate behavior depending on the situation.
At work in a professional setting I'm extremely conservative...walking through the halls at the office I'm playful and fun with coworkers...behind my desk I'm hard at work. I've gone from hair up at a work reception (kind of like the librarian) to drinking and wild with my friends an hour later. I can build the house from ground up or tear it down. Another words, when my friends and I are being raunchy and wild there are no holds barred. It is knowing when and where to act appropriately that separates the adults from children and teenagers.
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June 7, 2007, 21:32 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
QUOTE (Chazzy @ June 7, 2007, 17:17) QUOTE (hothands @ June 7, 2007, 16:09) QUOTE (Chazzy @ June 7, 2007, 14:46)I don't engage in inappropriate converstations in appropriate places or people...
When I'm with friends, I'm very much a potty mouth with a risque sense of humor...very much!
Sooo,,,I guess what you are saying is that you Do hide your true personality???? or are you saying you have different personalities for different occasions?
No need to "guess" at what I'm saying....
It is my true personality to try to behave appropriately for the place, occasion, and company....
I can fit in at the bowling alley one nite, and enjoy myself at the country club another nite.
I know how to be warm, friendly but still professional when it's required and respectful to do so, and kick it up and get stupid and silly at a party, or hangin' with friends.
And that is indeed my TRUE personality.
For some reason I cannot believe how badly the subject matter got so misconstrued,,,,It does not really matter I was just trying to get something interesting going besides Paris, But I guess I failed, sorry Chazzy, I just thought maybe you could use some help with a different view of topics,,,
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June 7, 2007, 22:48 |
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
I hear ya, I think allot of us responded in kinda the same way....that is saying we try to gauge our personality appropriately for occasion, place and people.
I enjoyed the topic...and if you don't want to talk about Paris, don't...it just so happens that some of us do and there is nothing wrong with that.
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June 7, 2007, 23:04 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
I don't think that we can ever change our personalities. Other wise we would not be who we are. What we are changing, is the way we conduct ourselves in different situations. I don't think that anyone would want to be intentionally rude, crude, and obnoxious. If that was the case we would be, or should I say, we should be, a very lonely person. I think its more out of respect for the situation that we are in, that we conduct ourselves in the correct manor. If the behavior is getting out of hand, usually someone will be vigilant enough to point that out. So really we don't change our personalities, but we will conduct ourselves appropriately for each situation.
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June 8, 2007, 00:19 |
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
yup. until you get to know me...come chat with me sometime...and you might just meet the real me...
chat lobby is where he tends to show up most of the time.
he very rarely makes any other public appearances...
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June 8, 2007, 00:42 |
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AmberZed
56 / female South of that..., Georgia, US
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
Oh, i've definitely got different personalities for "public" and "private" - and even for "online public" and "online private". Which one do you think YOU know???
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June 8, 2007, 00:52 |
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Re: Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
QUOTE (Chazzy @ June 7, 2007, 23:04)I hear ya, I think allot of us responded in kinda the same way....that is saying we try to gauge our personality appropriately for occasion, place and people.
I think without reading the Topic they have followed the lead of the first response, which is WAY
Oh well,,,it was fun to read the input and see the influence that the first responder usually has over each thread.
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June 8, 2007, 01:42 |
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
Don't hide my personality just hide some parts of my life no one need know except the ones involved
take care
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pepper
56 / female daytona, Florida, US
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QUOTE (tiger5350 @ June 8, 2007, 07:23)Don't hide my personality just hide some parts of my life no one need know except the ones involved
take care
Exactly.
My friends know my true personality, no one outside that circle will ever know. People are too quick to judge someone on just their looks, so around strangers, I can be very reserved. Just the opposite of my normal personality. I don't consider it hiding who I am, just...editing it for content, Lmao!
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Re: Re: Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
QUOTE (pepper @ June 8, 2007, 08:10) QUOTE (tiger5350 @ June 8, 2007, 07:23)Don't hide my personality just hide some parts of my life no one need know except the ones involved
take care
Exactly.
My friends know my true personality, no one outside that circle will ever know. People are too quick to judge someone on just their looks, so around strangers, I can be very reserved. Just the opposite of my normal personality. I don't consider it hiding who I am, just...editing it for content, Lmao!
Hi Pepper but did you even read the Topic info? The Topic heading is just like in every other thread "AN EYE CATCHER" none of you are reading the information of the Topic originator starting with Chazzy who somehow swayed the whole meaning of the tread,,, This is sooooo funny,,,it is almost like in school when every one lines up and the first person whispers a secret in the second persons ear, by the time it gets to the end of the line, we went from Hollywood to DollyWood,,, you guys crack me up,,
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June 8, 2007, 08:38 |
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pepper
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
QUOTE (hothands @ June 7, 2007, 14:41)Taking for granted that we here, all all sexually orientated to some degree. When a person you know (not the preacher of course) but in general at the office or the store, mall, hair salon,,etc. is talking with you, just small talk, and a sexy joke comes to play, or anything relating to even the smallest just cute friendly remarks that do not mean a thing but just to get a laugh,,,,,do you share in with a few sexy remarks of funny jokes of your own, even if you do not find the person sexually attractive?
Or do you try to curb the conversation to the baseball score, or weather report if you do not find that person sexually attractive and reserve your flirty sexy side for only those that you do consider attractive or a possible partner.
no.
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
Okay HH...sorry you don't like the replies you get...I for one will never again take the chance of offending you and I will certainly refrain from ever posting in your threads again.
Geez....sorry....
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June 8, 2007, 13:17 |
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Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
Let me sincerely apologize to every one for messing up this thread, it was not my intention, I was just merely trying to reply to a question.
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June 8, 2007, 16:30 |
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Re: Re: Do you sometimes hide your true personality
QUOTE (AmberZed @ June 8, 2007, 00:52)Oh, i've definitely got different personalities for "public" and "private" - and even for "online public" and "online private". Which one do you think YOU know??? that depends...
which one do you wanna show me???
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