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Centerfold world vs real world
Are the photo edited, artistically directed centerfold photos more of a turn on for guys than the daily images of real women in the real world?
I know there are some women that see their men lingering over professional porno images of perfect women with pro styled hair, nails and make up, (yes..it IS common practice to airbrush these photos!)and it bothers them not because they are jealous, they are bothered because it affects their self esteem and they feel they will never look good enough, or perfect enough to compete with these glossy, posed beauties.
Has porno and/or centerfolds ever cause problems with you, or in your house, relationship?
Do men really prefer the unrealistic image these photo layouts can portray, or is seeing a woman who is sensual, confident and real a bigger turn on?
Do any women ever find these images as a trigger for them to focus even more on their own little flaws and imperfections?
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| May 17, 2007, 15:06 |
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slowpoke2
52 / male
aberdeen, Scotland, UK
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Re: Centerfold world vs real world
i like woman just as they are, i am happy with the girl next door, if i had a choice of picking a supermodel or just a woman walking down the street, i know who i would pick
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| May 17, 2007, 15:17 |
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Re: Centerfold world vs real world
When it comes to male or female models, I can honestly say they are spectacular to look at, but there's something far more attractive about any person who's focus is on the world around them, and not so much directed back into themselves.
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| May 17, 2007, 15:27 |
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smitty6044
80 / male
A whoop and a hollar from Dallas, Texas, US
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Re: Centerfold world vs real world
My worst dating experience ever was with a beautiful cheerleader that every male in school wanted to go out with and fantasies that could have gotten them arrested. She was the most outrageous fake ever! Beautiful and desirable on the outside but absolutely nothing of substance inside. She was obsessed with her appearance and truly unattractive after only a few minutes in the same room with her. I'm not perfect myself so when I did a reality check and started dating "average" looking girls (bad label I know) I found physical appearance almost unimportant. I was fortunately brought to my senses at an early age and this has served me well throughout my life. I love all the ladies: size, shape, age, breast size or stretch marks really don't matter at all. Quit comparing yourselves to something that doesn't even exist. WE love you for WHO you are.....and if you have the hots for us and drag us off to bed every chance you get, so much the better!
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| May 17, 2007, 15:47 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: Centerfold world vs real world
I like a real woman, not a painted one, I know they worry about the little stretch marks, but that don't bother me.We all have our imperfections, but thats what sets us apart.
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| May 17, 2007, 20:16 |
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Re: Centerfold world vs real world
Im shallow. I like em both!
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| May 18, 2007, 06:49 |
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Re: Centerfold world vs real world
I think it is only human to look at something or someone that is beautiful...OK, here it comes...a shoe analogy...I don't like just one pair of shoes, I like really high heel shoes and I love my really comfy Reebok flip flops for around the house. We don't limit who or what we are attracted to for different reasons, it is about how it all makes you feel. Seeing an attractive person makes you strut your stuff a little, you suck in your tummy a little, stand up a little straighter, etc. A person who you find attractive through personality makes you smile and laugh and you can develop a friendship with them first. I say look all you want at they eye candy but when looking for a partner , pick the person with substance that can captivate your mind and your heart, not just your eyes.
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| May 18, 2007, 07:30 |
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Re: Centerfold world vs real world
I have no problem with the pictures of woman, if they've got it, show it off!!!! It is a shame they have to airbrush some pictures, but then that just proves, they aren't so perfect!!!!! 
Little flaws make us individual and special in our own way  (So i must be very very special)
I will also comment on a nice body.  
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| May 18, 2007, 12:01 |
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Liberalwife
47 / female
north, England, UK
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Re: Centerfold world vs real world
I think they look great, and if i had it, i'd be up there flaunting it with the rest of 'em! 
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| May 18, 2007, 12:15 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Centerfold world vs real world
I guess its OK for those models who have the, so called perfect body, to be in the centerfolds of the magazines. Yea they are nice to look at, but everyone knows how easy it is to cut and paste and put different body parts in a photo. I would rather have a relationship with a real lady, and save the centerfold girls for the dream's.
PS.. HBG, with what I've seen so far, you have no flaw's, yet you are still special, in my book. 
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| May 18, 2007, 12:35 |
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Re: Re: Centerfold world vs real world
QUOTE (funlovingpair @ May 18, 2007, 12:35)I guess its OK for those models who have the, so called perfect body, to be in the centerfolds of the magazines. Yea they are nice to look at, but everyone knows how easy it is to cut and paste and put different body parts in a photo. I would rather have a relationship with a real lady, and save the centerfold girls for the dream's.
PS.. HBG, with what I've seen so far, you have no flaw's, yet you are still special, in my book.
Thanks hun,  i'm good at covering them up!!!!
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| May 18, 2007, 13:46 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Centerfold world vs real world
All I know is..."You can't put your arms around a centerfold!" 
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| May 18, 2007, 15:48 |
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Re: Re: Centerfold world vs real world
QUOTE (Liberalwife @ May 18, 2007, 12:15)
Hey Lib, you have what it takes.
And so do many of the WN women who post. It's the personality!!!
I found that out the hard way.
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| May 19, 2007, 01:56 |
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Re: Re: Re: Centerfold world vs real world
QUOTE (ptr61dhn @ May 19, 2007, 01:56) QUOTE (Liberalwife @ May 18, 2007, 12:15)
Hey Lib, you have what it takes.
And so do many of the WN women who post. It's the personality!!!
I found that out the hard way.
 Most of us find it out the hard way...
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