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She's really pissed.........
My friend MICHELLE, living 500 feet away and just recently divorced, from her ex, told me yesterday that she is well aware of her best female friend's intentions on her ex. The woman in question and he have been seeing each other since January. MICHELLE is really po'd over this. She is an old fashion girl, who feels that her friend should have waited until the divorce was final before dating him. She doesn't blame her ex in any way. I gather that the woman told MICHELLE that she thought of her ex as a good friend and that was it! I think she's just pissed that her ex is moving on and she's stuck in nostalgia land. I told her to go get a man of her own. She would have absolutely no freakin' problem hooking up. She's one classy broad! Hell, if I wasn't married.........She's hoping that he'll beg her to take him back.....but only on her terms.
What do you think??????
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| May 17, 2007, 06:30 |
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Liberalwife
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Re: She's really pissed.........
I'm thinking, why would you want someone you have just been divorced from, beg to have you back? 
I was more than happy to see the back of my ex-husbands
 and get on with my life. 
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| May 17, 2007, 09:56 |
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Re: She's really pissed.........
I think friends should stay away from their friends ex's. If however they do fall for each other, a time period should go by and you should approach the friend and tell them how you feel about their ex. Most people will be happy their friend has found happiness, even though it will be tough on the one left on their own 
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| May 17, 2007, 12:06 |
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Re: She's really pissed.........
Yep, girlfriends kinda have a kind of unspoken but understood clear code of loyalty about not dating each others ex's....it's a good code for good allot of good reasons!
If her female best friend really was a best Friend, she'd know that Michelle was having difficulty getting through this and would be focused on her best friends troubles, cuz that's what best friends do!
A big "boo and hiss" to this best friend!!!!
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| May 17, 2007, 12:36 |
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Re: She's really pissed.........
Some people have the so called 'vulture' syndrome. They swoop in on people who are splitting up or having problems. Trying to take advantage of the situation when someone is at there weakest and feeling bad. They know who they are !!!
 
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| May 17, 2007, 20:14 |
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Re: She's really pissed.........
Oh yeah...bad news to get involved with one half of the couple sexually or romantically until both halves of the couple have made the marriage/relationship history!
Maybe they'll get back together, maybe they won't...but let it run its course completely!
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| May 17, 2007, 20:50 |
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Re: She's really pissed.........
I guess I don't understand - if she wants to move on then the fact that he is dating shouldn't matter. Who is she grieving over - losing her husband or losing her friend?
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| May 17, 2007, 21:51 |
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Re: Re: She's really pissed.........
QUOTE (40something @ May 17, 2007, 21:51)I guess I don't understand - if she wants to move on then the fact that he is dating shouldn't matter. Who is she grieving over - losing her husband or losing her friend?
Both......
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