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Define "NSA" No Strings Attached
What does it imply to you when you see someone else use this term and what do you mean when you use it?
Does it mean "I only want to see you when I call you" or is it a mutual fuckbuddy two way street, and they can call on you when they have their need to?
What is the perfect "NSA" set up, in your own opinion and in your own words?
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| May 16, 2007, 18:07 |
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flatbed
59 / male
elgin, Illinois, US
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Re: Define "NSA" No Strings Attached
just sex , no emotional feelings. just had a relationship with a woman that ended because one night i told her how i felt. when they say NSA its NSA. enjoy what you got if its
NSA.
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| May 17, 2007, 04:40 |
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Liberalwife
47 / female
north, England, UK
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Re: Define "NSA" No Strings Attached
The perfect NSA would be when two people can't commit, simply because they already are.
I see NSA in single people, as another way of saying,
"I am happy to f*ck you, but don't actually want to get to know you". As long as the people are comfortable with this arrangement from the outset, then there should be no problems.
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| May 17, 2007, 05:28 |
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Re: Define "NSA" No Strings Attached
If i see NSA i assume they are happy to sleep with you but there is no kind of relationship wanted.
It's ok if both people are strong enough to keep the situation the same, not so good if one falls for the other. 
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| May 17, 2007, 12:00 |
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Re: Define "NSA" No Strings Attached
I do wonder....NSA sounds so simple, uncomplicated, casual..but then is it really?
I would think that it's very difficult to find and maintain a " just sex " relationship with any one person.
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| May 17, 2007, 13:50 |
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40something
57 / female
In the Sun, Arizona, US
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Re: Define "NSA" No Strings Attached
I would think that NSA is for people who don't live in the same world - they can live in the same city, (although it would be easier to do it when they don't), but if they don't see each other often, don't bump into each other in their day to day life, then you can say, NSA lets just have tonight.
No matter how often you say NSA, if it goes on for any length of time you will find yourself with bonds - even if it is just you like the way they have sex . You start to count on being with that person when you want to have sex .
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| May 17, 2007, 22:52 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Define "NSA" No Strings Attached
I feel that it is more the casual encounter , rather than an on going sexual relationship . Not even the " friends with benefits " would fit the NSA definition. I would think that it is too easy to get emotionally involved if more than a casual thing.
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| May 18, 2007, 00:59 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Define "NSA" No Strings Attached
Hooker's without a money exchange... 
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| May 18, 2007, 13:32 |
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Re: Define "NSA" No Strings Attached
Ohhhhhhhh...that's what that means. Thought it meant no ropes or other fun things...
 
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