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MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
I can say that a sexually graphic message from someone I've never interacted with before is a little difficult to reply to right off...and if the man sending the message has nothing in his profile, no photo, a bunch of "prefer not to say", and nothing more in his text ad but "wanna fuck"..."NSA"...etc... it's just nearly impossible for me to reply!
I also do not reply to the same kind of profile and message when you just say "my (yahooID, email address)...hit me up, message me..
Wome here get tons of messages just like that, and nothing about it will make you stand out from the rest, or be interesting enough to reply to!
What about the rest of the ladies here, what DO you reply to, and what DON'T you reply to in messages and in the chatroom?
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| May 16, 2007, 14:55 |
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Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
I agree with Chazzy, about what i won't reply to. Also i get asked if i want to cam, and it states clearly on my profile, that i don't do that. This shows me they haven't taken notice of who i am.
I like someone to show they have a sense of humour in their messages. I understand what the site is all about, but a girl still likes to be spoken to in a certain way.
Be yourself and make it fun and funny when you first approach someone, and you should be on your way.
Good luck and have fun.
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| May 16, 2007, 15:05 |
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Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
One other thing, i personally can tell alot from the first message i get from someone, and this determines whether i will reply or not, so don't be to crude or abrupt when sending your first message.
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| May 16, 2007, 15:08 |
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Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
Some of ya may have heard the ole saying that gets passed down from Grandma to Mom to daughter...
"Be a lady in the parlor and a whore in the bedroom"
For most of us women, you need to get into our parlor..FIRST!
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| May 16, 2007, 15:28 |
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Re: Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
QUOTE (Chazzy @ May 16, 2007, 15:28)Some of ya may have heard the ole saying that gets passed down from Grandma to Mom to daughter...
"Be a lady in the parlor and a whore in the bedroom"
For most of us women, you need to get into our parlor..FIRST!
Very well put 
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| May 16, 2007, 15:33 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
So that's why I can't get a woman to talk to me. I'm using the wrong the door.  
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| May 16, 2007, 17:17 |
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Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
By the way...we're not pissin' and dissin' on ya, doodes....just trying to be helpful!!!
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| May 16, 2007, 18:08 |
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REALshedevil
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Richmond, Missouri, US
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Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
We can definitely tell by the first message if someone has read our profile or not. Like the other ladies have said, we have taken the time to fill out our profile, how bout when you send a message you make sure that we know as much about you as we share with you.  
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| May 16, 2007, 22:13 |
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slowpoke2
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aberdeen, Scotland, UK
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Re: Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
QUOTE (REALshedevil @ May 16, 2007, 22:13)
i have tried that(well not all the time), still they don't reply 
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| May 16, 2007, 23:14 |
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Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
Well dammit, slowpoke! It's their loss...cuz you are a good man!
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| May 16, 2007, 23:15 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
I've always tried to be curteous to the ladies, & everyone else.Ok maybe made a few fuck ups, lol. But I never expected to hook up because of my location, so I am happy just to have friends.
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| May 16, 2007, 23:26 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
QUOTE (Chazzy @ May 16, 2007, 23:15)Well dammit, slowpoke! It's their loss...cuz you are a good man!
Slowpoke, we know that she just say's that too all the boys. 
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| May 16, 2007, 23:27 |
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Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
OH now...I'm sincere! I only say nice things to nice people...and avoid talking to the "not nice" ones!! 
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| May 16, 2007, 23:39 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
QUOTE (Chazzy @ May 16, 2007, 23:39)OH now...I'm sincere! I only say nice things to nice people...and avoid talking to the "not nice" ones!!
I had to say something, right. 
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| May 16, 2007, 23:59 |
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slowpoke2
52 / male
aberdeen, Scotland, UK
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| May 17, 2007, 00:09 |
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Liberalwife
47 / female
north, England, UK
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Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
On a first message i would advise guys not to send something like......'Hi Sexy, Wanna cyber/add me to your naughty list/have cam fun/go to the red room/send me an erotic email /go on IM/have phone sex / etc, etc.
Even more so when their profile has no pic and says
'I will tell you later' 
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| May 17, 2007, 04:25 |
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Tungmeister
69 / male
Miller Beach, Indiana, US
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Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
-on the other hand, why is it that alot of us guys would love the bold first attempt at communication from a lady? Maybe 'cause frequently our brains are lacking the blood & oxygen required to think straight, and the blood is occupying another part of our anatomy.
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| May 17, 2007, 09:21 |
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Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
For me, it's the "ice breaker" types of messages that I reply to first. They are just easy to reply to and some are very difficult NOT to reply to.
These messages just have a spontaneous flow to them, it's almost like someone striking up a conversation with you in the check out line of the local market. It would be rude not to reply!
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| May 17, 2007, 13:19 |
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Re: MEN!! How to get our (women) attention.
Hey Chazzy, thanks for the insight.
PTR
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