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Divorce is final.......
Our friends' divorce was finalized in court on Monday morning. The hearing lasted all of 10 minutes and afterward.......the couple went to lunch together and then went on a motorcycle ride. Wow, do they hate each other or what?
Through all the divorce proceedings, the division of assets and the respective families voicing their opinions about this one and that one, they never jumped on each other to anyone other than my wife and I. What we heard from them was basically, he said-she said, kinda lame ass sh*t, nothing easily associated with good reasons to divorce after 31 years. The wife told me a few times that up 'til last year, their sex life was of sex manual quality!   Then all of a sudden, it was slam-bam quickies! He told me the same thing but then he said that he grew tired of all the time and effort and just wanted to get it over with as quick as possible. He had a lot of pent up resentment that factored in this. That was definitely a strong factor in his slam-bam finishes. 
Of course there were other factors involved but I thought the sex thing would be the most interesting for the WN forum fans. 
I'm sure they'll get back together.  Neither one is tearing it up in the dating game. As a matter of fact, neither has gone on a "date" since the divorce began. Their respective condos are 500 feet apart!!!!! Talk about hating the site of each other!!! 
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| May 9, 2007, 07:39 |
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That is sad, 31 years together and the only thing they can put their divorce down to is their sex lives. Sex is great, but i am a strong believer in there's more to a relationship. I have two friends who have an amazing sex live, they are up for anything, (She tells me!!!) But as for conversation and respect from him, there isn't any. So what kind of relationship is left once the sex goes????
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| May 9, 2007, 11:16 |
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First off HOT, the divorce was instigated by the wife. She said he didn't treat her as she thought she deserved such as fawning all over her all the time and telling her how beautiful she was all the time. Of course, the lack of quality sex is another one of her reasons.
He complained that she often pointed out his faults and showed disrespect to his family. Not exactly grounds for a divorce, is it? It's funny though, they don't hate each other.
Maybe they just want to be single for awhile! Well now they are........ 
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| May 9, 2007, 11:37 |
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That's a shame for him, but it may make her realise whats she missing and when they get back together she might even appreciate him more, and have excellent sex as an added bonus!!! 
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| May 9, 2007, 14:43 |
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Well that is a shame, I have been married for 21 years, and if she wanted to divorce me, she had every right to in the first 18-19 years we were together, because I was not a very good husband. I recently have realized that I missed out on so much, and that I really Love my wife more than I could have ever imagined. I have started doing things more towards her liking, and I too enjoy them very much. And now when some of these things are not happening, I too miss them. I will continue to try and improve on what I can control, and pray that she will do the same.......
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| May 9, 2007, 22:32 |
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Good on ya TB  
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| May 10, 2007, 11:34 |
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I'm going to an EARTH WIND and FIRE concert with MICHELLE on the 25th of this month so we will be discussing ways to get she and her ex back together.  Of course, we will be imbibing a few or more MAI TAI's, so she may be more agreeable to my ideas. I'll try like hell to make her see it my way.......
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