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Round 2
Have you ever gotten back together with someone after breaking up with them...or is it pretty much just over for you after a break up?
If you have given a relationship a second shot, did it work out for you, or did you just find yourself dealing with the same problems again?
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| April 13, 2007, 13:05 |
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Re: Round 2
My theory on people who realize similar problems occur with a new partner that occurred with the first is that, chances are what attracted you to the first partner is the same that attracts you to the second. It migh be his or her personality, mode of dress, looks, common interests, family situation (kids), sexual habits, maybe an explosive temper, ect!
More than likely, you will keep going back to that same type of person and the problems that will ensue, time and again. 
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| April 13, 2007, 13:49 |
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When i split with my husband, i did give him another chance, just to be 100% sure we both couldn't change and make it work. I wanted to be sure for myself, so at least i knew i had given all i could.
I couldn't get rid of the uneasy feeling i always had and if he had an attitude about anything, i would really over react, so i knew what to do.
I've been happy with it being just me and my boys since. 
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| April 13, 2007, 14:28 |
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Back in high school I gave my cheating boyfriend a second chance, he was older than I was and very persuasive, I did very much regret it because BINGO, he cheated again.
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| April 13, 2007, 20:55 |
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rawk35
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To you and the boys!  
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| April 13, 2007, 20:58 |
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Re: Re: Round 2
QUOTE (hotbubblegum @ April 13, 2007, 14:28)...just to be 100% sure we both couldn't change and make it work....
I'm like you there,HBG I just gotta (as they say...)beat a dead horse....I just won't give up till all options are exhausted, it's only when I'm certain I've done everything I can that I can follow through with the splitting up...so there's no going back for a second time around.
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