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Liberalwife
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north, England, UK
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Sex on First date...Yes or no?
What ever your choice is, it is the right choice for you. Sexual attraction happens if we want it to or not. Everybody has their own opinion in this topic, just as I do and you do. If you decide to wait for that right person to come along and share nights of sex and romance with, so be it! If you are one for sex on the first date, then be careful,but have fun and hope the experience be as every bit of exciting as you hope!
Personally, I have never had sex on the first date. Sometimes I am happy with that, and other times, looking back, i wish i had!! 
The sexual attraction that is felt for someone is a thing that can not be held back but the actions can be. I guess the question should read, "Do we act on feelings of sexual desires on someone we just met when the sexual attraction is obviously there?". 
Over to you guys.. . . 
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| April 11, 2007, 09:00 |
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Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
I have to agree with you Libs and say, everyone is different and have different ways of living their lives. I have friends that have always slept with guys on the first date, then the next night move on to someone else. That's their choice, as long as they are careful, they aren't hurting anyone.
I am a strong believer in living your life with no regrets, however i have never had a one night stand , or slept with anyone on the first date, but i would never say i wouldn't as i don't know what's round the corner, but hang on a minute, i'm just going to look, well you never know!!!!! 
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| April 11, 2007, 09:07 |
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Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
Sex on the first date? SEX?....oh yeh, I remember!!
Nah, I never considered it. I was too busy hoping the girl would not run away from me. 
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| April 11, 2007, 09:15 |
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Liberalwife
47 / female
north, England, UK
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Re: Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
QUOTE (hotbubblegum @ April 11, 2007, 09:07)I have to agree with you Libs and say, everyone is different and have different ways of living their lives. I have friends that have always slept with guys on the first date, then the next night move on to someone else. That's their choice, as long as they are careful, they aren't hurting anyone.
I am a strong believer in living your life with no regrets, however i have never had a one night stand , or slept with anyone on the first date, but i would never say i wouldn't as i don't know what's round the corner, but hang on a minute, i'm just going to look, well you never know!!!!!
Oh Hell, yeah!,,,,,never doesn't always mean NEVER!!
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| April 11, 2007, 09:36 |
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Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
Well I've never done that. Sex on first date. fool around yes but no sex. If u like someone it can wait a while, and if it doesnt work out, thank God for internet.
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| April 11, 2007, 10:14 |
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Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
Never had - honestly! Although I sure wished I had over my course of events.
The second date - yes!
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| April 11, 2007, 11:56 |
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Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
Gotta admit, Ive done it, but only once. The date started at 8pm and didnt end till 1pm the next morning.
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| April 11, 2007, 12:12 |
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lizonya
64 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
hey, i'm a hippy-girl from the 70s and let me just say that it was done all the time. i remember a bumper sticker that read, "to all virgins: thanks for nothing!"
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| April 11, 2007, 13:18 |
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Re: Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
QUOTE (lizonya @ April 11, 2007, 13:18)hey, i'm a hippy-girl from the 70s and let me just say that it was done all the time. i remember a bumper sticker that read, "to all virgins: thanks for nothing!"
I'm with ya Lizonya...part of the same generation having " casual sex " upon making a "connection" with someone...lust at first sight..or as good as ur sight was after shots and beers while clubbing....
..yes, i was known to have sex on the first date on occasion...*shocking for my WNers to know that*..but, it wasn't so frequent as you would think..and a date was separate and distinct from meeting someone at the club and then having sex....much different..
..on bonafide dates...i seldom had sex with someone on the first date...ya wanted to leave the right impression..so...
but, if the attraction was so strong and the allure so intense and..her perfume smelling so good...and her dress so sexy, and her legs..soo....my gosh...i think i'm wavering.."flip-flopping"...Trop, *slap* wake up!! 
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| April 11, 2007, 16:20 |
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KINKYINTHEFALLS
56 / male
wild and wonderful, West Virginia, US
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Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
I'm pleadin the fifth... 
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| April 11, 2007, 20:12 |
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Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
Nope...never happened...took my husband quite some time to get into my pants...
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| April 11, 2007, 20:22 |
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Re: Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
QUOTE (Juilianna @ April 11, 2007, 20:22)Nope...never happened...took my husband quite some time to get into my pants...
J, you mean to tell me your husband lost enough weight to finally be able to fit into your pants? Wow, now that's determination!
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| April 12, 2007, 00:18 |
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Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
OH HELL YES!!!!! But that don't mean you won't get a second chance, or third, or fourth, or fifth...........
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| April 12, 2007, 04:42 |
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Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
yes i have had quite a few one night stands , and i dont regret any of them, most happened while i was in the army, i blame the uniform
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| April 12, 2007, 11:03 |
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Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
I never had sex on the first date but there were times when I wished I had. I am talking about an actual real date not one night stands . I had a few one night stands several years ago and sex was the main reason for the encounters. At my age I figure if I ever get to date again I will surely want sex on the first date because I might not get another opportunity for sometime later. I figure that I have to get it while it's available.
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| April 12, 2007, 11:40 |
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Re: Re: Sex on First date...Yes or no?
QUOTE (Juilianna @ April 11, 2007, 20:22)Nope...never happened...took my husband quite some time to get into my pants...
And why is that? Being a wee bit of a tease?
Trying to see if he had the determination to turn you?
Or just finally gave in due to his kindness and persistance?
Curious minds want to know???
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