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help
where do i go form here i may need your help being in to Sm it some times gets hard to meet woman i do not tell them aim in to Sm at first but when it comes to telling them to not a good move so WHO do i tell them.
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| April 4, 2007, 12:14 |
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Re: help
Most members that I have seen here that are into BDSM lifestyle, are more into the BD part, not so much the SM..The SMer's are a part of the culture that I can only barely begin to understand, but I do try to understand with as open of a mind I can have.
I think most do not understand it all, and can confuse abusive violence with BDSMer's....and abusive violence is a big turn off for people, of course...you'll just have to continue searching for people that live and understand this unique alternate life style.
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| April 4, 2007, 12:23 |
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dave2big
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somewhere, Nebraska, US
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Re: help
i (like you) prefer that lifestyle. there are lots of women,men too, that enjoy the experience of dominating or being completely dominated by members of either sex. please dont think that you are alone, lots of us.....even here.......
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| April 4, 2007, 13:07 |
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Re: help
I don't think he's talking about the more common, BD ( bondage /discipline) as much as he means the SM (sado/masochism) The SM is not nearly as prevailant and common place as the BD.
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| April 4, 2007, 15:13 |
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