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Self Awareness
What makes you self conscience, or when do you feel the most insecure??
Does it take something like pulbic speaking, being around an overachieving person or sibling, being in front of a photographer, public bareness like at a beach, or maybe when you meet new people ?
What gives you self doubt?
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| March 11, 2007, 14:50 |
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Re: Self Awareness
Bathing suits...after having three children I don't care for them. I look fine in my work clothes, shorts, etc. but I don't like the way my body looks in a swimsuit, there is now way to hide the flaws in them, you are out there...
Public speaking and meeting new people aren't really a problem for me, I'm out there in front of others all the time. My personality is usually the thing that brings people in and it makes it easy for me to do my job...thank goodness I'm not a motivational lifeguard!!! LOL...
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| March 11, 2007, 14:58 |
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lizonya
64 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: Self Awareness
ahahahaha~ 
i would think that being completely bald with no eyelashes and eyebrows would make me self-conscious but it doesn't. i have a sort of defiance about the way i look right now. people stare but for the most part people are overly sweet and hold the doors open for me, etc...
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| March 11, 2007, 15:03 |
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Re: Self Awareness
I can see that Liz, you are a spunky woman, nothing stopping you...your beautiful soul shows even with no hair, how could it not? I love you like crazy and we've never met face to face!!!
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| March 11, 2007, 15:06 |
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lizonya
64 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: Self Awareness
love you too juils - you'll always be my ginger 
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| March 11, 2007, 15:11 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: Self Awareness
The one time that comes to mind is when I was laying in the burn center. I had no skin from the waist up, was in horrible pain. I looked so hideous, which my wife at the time so graciously pointed out to me,that I was so self conscious , I never again allowed another visitor the whole time I was there. I was mortified of how I would look the rest of my life. Got lucky though, only 2 little scars remain from that burn.
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| March 11, 2007, 15:29 |
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rawk35
56 / couple
valley, Oregon, US
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Re: Self Awareness
there is nothing i can say with the previous posts, bows respectfully and exits! 
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| March 11, 2007, 17:50 |
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Liberalwife
47 / female
north, England, UK
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QUOTE (rawk35 @ March 11, 2007, 17:50)there is nothing i can say with the previous posts, bows respectfully and exits!
Yeah, what they said! 
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| March 13, 2007, 09:50 |
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Liberalwife
47 / female
north, England, UK
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Re: Self Awareness
Mine (which i know i will never encounter again..lol)...was being a bride (first time around)..i
was mortified when my 'well meaning' ex mother-in-law surprised me with a horsedrawn carriage,,hard to be gracious getting in and out of when your dressed like a fluffy meringue!! To this day it still makes me cringe!!  
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| March 13, 2007, 09:59 |
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Re: Self Awareness
It has to be when a boss or instructor is standing over my shoulder expecting me to be able to perform my job - I can all day long - until then are peering over my shoulder. It just makes me so nervous!
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| March 13, 2007, 12:42 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Self Awareness
I'm very self consensus about the way I look. I always have too make my hair is OK, adjusting my clothes so everything is in and in order. I have to maintain a professional look while working in the public eye.
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| March 13, 2007, 18:14 |
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Re: Re: Self Awareness
QUOTE (Juilianna @ March 11, 2007, 15:06)I can see that Liz, you are a spunky woman, nothing stopping you...your beautiful soul shows even with no hair, how could it not? I love you like crazy and we've never met face to face!!!
Perfect. Couldnt have said it any better!
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