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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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How do you feel?
OK, since my separation I have been lucky enough have found someone who treats me with the up most respect....(100% different than my marriage).....The last few years of my marriage, I started to hate to have sex and it became more of a chore than something to look forward to.....Now that I have a boyfriend that I truly adore, my sex life has just exploded.....I have done things that I would never have even thought of doing, not to mention a few things I always said I wouldn't do!  .....I have found since I have been with him that I just LOVE to get fucked....(ohh geeez, just saying makes me feel slutty!)....Anyway, we have been talking about bringing in another man, and he has allowed me to truly open up with how I feel about sex....He actually demands that I open up, which has made our sex life even more incredible!...I find when we talk if we take the "rules" out of what society says is proper, I have realized that I love to fuck so much that if it was OK (not to mention safe) I would fuck all kinds of men....
Now my question is, am I the only one who feels that way, or do most people feel the same but just don't want to admit it because of what people will think of you?...
By no means am I saying I would go fuck everyone I meet, BUT, it would be nice to be able to fuck someone just because you are curious or just plain turned on or want a big cock that night....And I'm not talking about cheating, just the fact that if you were in a place in life that you could do it, would you love to be able to?......
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| February 16, 2007, 21:53 |
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Re: How do you feel?
I am in a place where I should be able to do it finally. I even have the libido which offers me the hope of success and pleasure yet I am constantly either too busy or distracted by other issues that force me to concentrate elsewhere.
But it is getting to be crisis time...I need to have some unmitigated, wet, animalistic, exstatic hard fucking...who knows, if I get laid people may stop asking me if I was raised with wolves.
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| February 16, 2007, 23:50 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: How do you feel?
Way to go Kitten. I think everyone here has seen the change in your posts. Your post scream with happiness, and enthusiasm. I, for one, am very happy for you. It's really nice to see you spreading your wings, and flying high on life.
  
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| February 17, 2007, 10:38 |
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Re: How do you feel?
I have to say yes only cause it has happen safely I might add one does want to live to tell the tale a lot of years
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| February 17, 2007, 12:25 |
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Re: How do you feel?
Oh yes....I use to adore sex, had a very strong sex drive , but my husband has pretty much sucked the life out of the marriage..so the bottom has fallen out of the sex part as well.
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| February 17, 2007, 16:22 |
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40something
57 / female
In the Sun, Arizona, US
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Re: How do you feel?
NY is in the perfect place. To have someone you trust to share all those intimate ideas with and still keep the fun and respect! Way to go woman! 
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| February 17, 2007, 17:43 |
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Re: How do you feel?
Have to say, it's easy to go off sex when it's all one sided, and never spontaneous. I spent the last few years of my marriage hating it and hoping he wouldn't ask. I have always been the adventurous one who is up for anything, but he managed to stop that!!!  But i can now make up for all that lost time 
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| February 18, 2007, 04:37 |
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piscesdream
47 / couple
cincinnati, Ohio, US
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Re: How do you feel?
I feel the same way, I really enjoy sex , its my fiance who doesnt want it that much; drives me nuts. I think since I'm about 30, I'm hitting my peak and its like I got to have it 
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| February 18, 2007, 06:51 |
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Re: How do you feel?
Just be careful what you wish for...you just may get it, and once out, you can't stuff the genie back in the lamp.
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| February 18, 2007, 11:04 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: How do you feel?
Even after 23 yrs, we have as much sex as we can get, given that our schedules are opposite. Sometimes one of us will just walk into the bedroom, and the other will sneak in behind them only to toss the other on the bed and its on. Other times its more planned. But one thing never changes, we always make sure that the other is well taken care of.
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| February 18, 2007, 12:12 |
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