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Addicted to Love?
Can you be content and happy with a just a purely physical sex life? If you're enjoy healthy sex, do you sometimes miss that ole heart fluttering, butterflies in your tummy romance of being "in love"?
Are there times when just the sex is all it takes to completely satisfy you?
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| February 14, 2007, 17:44 |
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Re: Addicted to Love?
just sex never has and i seriously doubt it ever will satisfy me. havent felt butterflies for far too long.
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| February 14, 2007, 17:47 |
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Not a topic I've had much luck with lately, but I'm with BCB I need both more often then just sex .
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| February 14, 2007, 17:57 |
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I think they have changed the term Buterflies to Tachecardia, heart beats more than 100 BPM. I have not had Butterfies in so long, God I would love to have that now, even without the sex, it is such a great feeling to just be in love with your heart and soul, but it seems like it very seldom happens anymore that two people have the same degree of feelings for each other without the sex.
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| February 14, 2007, 20:49 |
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funlovingpair
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Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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You have to have both to be complete. I mean the sex is a necessary physical need. But its the psychological factor that is much greater. That is what drives our rational for the sense of needing completeness. I believe that most people feel incomplete without that partner. What makes it all the more special, is when that partner is a best friend, rather than just a spouse. You can always get a new spouse, but is especially hard to get that one best friend that you can/will confide in, with everything. We talk with those certain co-workers or neighbor, but there is always somethings that we just can't tell them. But with that one special best friend, we can share our most inner deepest feelings.
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| February 14, 2007, 22:40 |
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Think it depends on what you are looking for, if just sex is what you both want at the time,then why not. However it is nice to have that special relationship to go with it. Feeling excited because you know you are going to see them, that feeling you get when you know that you will finally get them in to bed!!!  
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| February 15, 2007, 05:06 |
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Liberalwife
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| February 15, 2007, 05:22 |
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| February 15, 2007, 11:12 |
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Liberalwife
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north, England, UK
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| February 15, 2007, 11:28 |
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Re: Addicted to Love?
I love sex and desire the feeling of love also. My girl friend and I have been chatting now for over a year and we both feel so much love for each other and we both desire each other sexually. We both are looking forward to the day when we meet so we can actually find out if this love is for real and to see if the sex that we talk about will be as good and loving as we describe with each other. We are both somewhat scared though because we would be very dissapointed if sparks don't fly. We often wonder if we should keep our love affair a long distance one. We also desire to know for sure, if the internet love will become true love and the only way to find that out is for us to meet and spend time together. We are taking things slowly right now since she just recovered from a very bad auto accident from which she was almost died.
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| February 15, 2007, 12:01 |
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Re: Addicted to Love?
I hope she will be fully recovered very soon. I am sure sparks will fly and your meeting will be everything you have both dreamed of and imagined 
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| February 15, 2007, 12:32 |
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We both feel so lonely for each other when we can't chat and while she was hospitalized we both were dying of withdrawl. We can only chat on weekends so I look forward to every Saturday and Sunday to see her online.
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| February 15, 2007, 12:37 |
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You will soon be together and you can look back on these times and just smile as you hold her
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| February 15, 2007, 12:39 |
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I sure hope so.
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| February 15, 2007, 13:51 |
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Both marriages were for the loving, feeling, fluttery heart and connection thing.
The first, we were NOT compatible at all when it came time to "between the sheets!"
The second is not as bad, but still. 
I must say though, I do appreciate the simple pleasures such as touching, holding "snuggling if you wish" and being close to a woman without a lot of 'love' contact.
But over the years I yearn for that 'get wild & funky' attitude I had back in college and between the two marriages. 
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| February 16, 2007, 13:39 |
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I have had the " Just SEX " and although it isn't bad - it isn't the wonderful incredible lovemaking. That amazing can't breathe, hands all over, sweaty, must have him lovemaking!
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| February 17, 2007, 17:56 |
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QUOTE (ptr61dhn @ February 16, 2007, 13:39) Both marriages were for the loving, feeling, fluttery heart and connection thing.
The first, we were NOT compatible at all when it came time to "between the sheets!"
The second is not as bad, but still.
I must say though, I do appreciate the simple pleasures such as touching, holding "snuggling if you wish" and being close to a woman without a lot of 'love' contact.
But over the years I yearn for that 'get wild & funky' attitude I had back in college and between the two marriages.
Am I crazy that I want that IN my marriage? Seriously, I have friends that shut their husbands down in the bedroom and then they wonder why their men are out there looking for something more. I've always been the aggressive one and cannot get enough sex but my husband still looked elsewhere. So, even though I'm crazy in bed I still wasn't enough...go figure...
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| February 19, 2007, 02:19 |
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pepper
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QUOTE (Juilianna @ February 19, 2007, 02:19) QUOTE (ptr61dhn @ February 16, 2007, 13:39) Both marriages were for the loving, feeling, fluttery heart and connection thing.
The first, we were NOT compatible at all when it came time to "between the sheets!"
The second is not as bad, but still.
I must say though, I do appreciate the simple pleasures such as touching, holding "snuggling if you wish" and being close to a woman without a lot of 'love' contact.
But over the years I yearn for that 'get wild & funky' attitude I had back in college and between the two marriages.
Am I crazy that I want that IN my marriage? Seriously, I have friends that shut their husbands down in the bedroom and then they wonder why their men are out there looking for something more. I've always been the aggressive one and cannot get enough sex but my husband still looked elsewhere. So, even though I'm crazy in bed I still wasn't enough...go figure...
You are not crazy to want that in your marriage, Juils, not at all. I think the one with the screw loose was your husband!
  
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| February 19, 2007, 07:54 |
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QUOTE (pepper @ February 19, 2007, 07:54) QUOTE (Juilianna @ February 19, 2007, 02:19) QUOTE (ptr61dhn @ February 16, 2007, 13:39) Both marriages were for the loving, feeling, fluttery heart and connection thing.
The first, we were NOT compatible at all when it came time to "between the sheets!"
The second is not as bad, but still.
I must say though, I do appreciate the simple pleasures such as touching, holding "snuggling if you wish" and being close to a woman without a lot of 'love' contact.
But over the years I yearn for that 'get wild & funky' attitude I had back in college and between the two marriages.
Am I crazy that I want that IN my marriage? Seriously, I have friends that shut their husbands down in the bedroom and then they wonder why their men are out there looking for something more. I've always been the aggressive one and cannot get enough sex but my husband still looked elsewhere. So, even though I'm crazy in bed I still wasn't enough...go figure...
You are not crazy to want that in your marriage, Juils, not at all. I think the one with the screw loose was your husband!
speaking of a "loose screw"...i thought i'd chimne in!!
Liberal nailed it earlier in my opinion...(mmmm..interesting thought..nailing Liberal)
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