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dave2big
81 / male
somewhere, Nebraska, US
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missing them ?
has anybody(except for me) ever had a sex partner , a lover, or just a member of the opposite sex that got away? it was several years ago, and the breakup was all my fault(we argued because i had been drinking)and i have regretted it since. we did make up and remain friends still, but we never got together in a sexual way again. she eventually married another guy and moved away. i have not, nor will i ever get over this woman.am i the only person that feels this way about a lost love?
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| February 7, 2007, 10:02 |
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Re: missing them ?
There have been many that "got away" Many of these because I moved and just lost touch with them.
Concerning the drinking? I usually found it anusiing that when you meet a woman in a bar, start dating, then she complains about your drinking. What did she expect? You did meet in a bar. 
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| February 7, 2007, 12:00 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: missing them ?
Once in a great while, I will think of what things might like today if I would have stayed with an old girlfriend. But I never dwell on it, as I know what I have now is far better than I could have imagined. I won't give up MA for anything. 
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| February 7, 2007, 12:21 |
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dave2big
81 / male
somewhere, Nebraska, US
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Re: Re: missing them ?
QUOTE (JCSOS @ February 7, 2007, 12:00)There have been many that "got away" Many of these because I moved and just lost touch with them.
Concerning the drinking? I usually found it anusiing that when you meet a woman in a bar, start dating, then she complains about your drinking. What did she expect? You did meet in a bar.
the drinking thing would be true if that was how we met, but she came into my business and we were introduced by a mutual married friend. she was truly the first and only woman i had ever loved so completely. guess thats why i feel so lost without her.......
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| February 7, 2007, 12:22 |
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Re: Re: Re: missing them ?
QUOTE (dave2big @ February 7, 2007, 12:22) QUOTE (JCSOS @ February 7, 2007, 12:00)There have been many that "got away" Many of these because I moved and just lost touch with them.
Concerning the drinking? I usually found it anusiing that when you meet a woman in a bar, start dating, then she complains about your drinking. What did she expect? You did meet in a bar. the drinking thing would be true if that was how we met, but she came into my business and we were introduced by a mutual married friend. she was truly the first and only woman i had ever loved so completely. guess thats why i feel so lost without her.......
Ok, it was jsut a comment on my part. Nothing implied. OK?
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| February 7, 2007, 12:42 |
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lot2luv41965
59 / female
west of Atlanta, Georgia, US
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Re: missing them ?
Definitely.
Mine join the Army after college and was getting assigned to Germany.
We were engaged and I decided not to go and broke it off.
Even today, I strongly regret it. 
At least over the years I've found him and we've been in touch the last few years.But my heart still break because we both are in convenience marriages with kids.
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| February 7, 2007, 12:42 |
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Re: missing them ?
You really cant lie about this, because I think everyone has been with somebody, that they think about what it would have been like if they would had stayed. Even I have thought about one or two in the past, but I did realize rather quickly that I have the BEST that I could have ever imagined. What a wonderful wife I have, and the sex is gotta be the best. Damn you gotta love it when you are married to a nympho .
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| February 9, 2007, 21:18 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: missing them ?
I have to say there is no one I think about. I meet Pa when I was 15. and been with him since then.   Mine never got away 
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| February 9, 2007, 21:29 |
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yesiam
58 / male
Hillsdale, Michigan, US
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Re: missing them ?
I lost the love of my life many years ago, I was young and foolish and put the Army ahead of everything. And I always thought that I couldn't give to her everything she needed. BUT, I have been so lucky that I have her back in my life again and nothing will ever come between us again.
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| February 9, 2007, 22:02 |
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40something
57 / female
In the Sun, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: missing them ?
QUOTE (yesiam @ February 9, 2007, 22:02)I lost the love of my life many years ago, I was young and foolish and put the Army ahead of everything. And I always thought that I couldn't give to her everything she needed. BUT, I have been so lucky that I have her back in my life again and nothing will ever come between us again.
It takes time and growth to help you realize what you need in your life. There is a lot of heartbreak and joy. I wouldn't change my children for anything - and I am in a wonderful place careerwise. The only thing missing is the man I have loved for over 20 years - there isn't anything better than being in love with your best friend.
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| February 9, 2007, 22:26 |
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Re: missing them ?
I'm not a "what if" kind of person. There was a specific reason I'm no longer with the people I dated when I was younger, I believe each relationship ran its course with every person that I cared for or "loved." No regrets for not being with any of them, the ones I have thought of from time to time have to be those there were missed opportunities with. I wouldn't change my life from this point, I like who I am and my children are amazing so I'm very thankful for how my life has turned out.
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| February 10, 2007, 08:58 |
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lizonya
64 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: missing them ?
i'm w/juils on this one. well said.
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| February 10, 2007, 14:05 |
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Re: missing them ?
Well said Juils, i also agree,
I don't regret any past relationships and i don't miss any, 
I have a few new friends i'd like to be closer to though!!! 
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| February 10, 2007, 15:21 |
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Re: missing them ?
Those I might miss are so vivid in my memory that I relish them rather than regret or pine for them. The one that I miss is the one yet to come...she will be remarkable I am sure.
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| February 13, 2007, 09:04 |
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Re: Re: missing them ?
QUOTE (hotbubblegum @ February 10, 2007, 15:21)Well said Juils, i also agree,
I don't regret any past relationships and i don't miss any,
I have a few new friends i'd like to be closer to though!!!
Can I be your frined? 
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| February 13, 2007, 12:35 |
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