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diagnosis needed
for the sake of someone too chicken to ask.... and i suppose this is directed and the women being they're the subject matter experts on this one...
pretend you're fooling around with your guy.. he goes down on you.. not a great job but not terrible either... not too long and you're bucking your hips skyward and bending the headboard bars. he's also managed to slip in a finger or two and is rubbing "that spot". after a few full body spasms and several pussy clamp downs (and some of the most amusing faces ever made).. you suddenly cant help but smile and giggle and are too sensitive to let him continue on your clit.. except he gingerly keeps up the finger plundering.. slowly.. you get back in the motion but almost immediately repeat said spasming symptoms. again he carefully continues and you acknowledge it feels awesome.. but seconds later you feel like you need to pee (seems to be from the inserted finger motion) and make him stop.
question.. is that cumming? and why the urge to pee? any personal insights?
thanks.
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| January 26, 2007, 11:43 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: diagnosis needed
I could be wrong, but it sounds like someone is ready to do that cool thing called, female ejaculation. Just let it go and see what happens, as it sounds to me like your pushing all the right buttons.
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| January 26, 2007, 11:49 |
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lizonya
64 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: diagnosis needed
sometimes it feels too good. you know, when you've pushed all the right buttons and it starts to tickle. that and your lady may have a full bladder.
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| January 26, 2007, 12:26 |
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Liberalwife
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north, England, UK
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Re: diagnosis needed
No this isn't something for incontinent OAPs, it's a common problem for girls for several reasons:
Fear: that we'll lose control when we orgasm and piss all over our lover causing them to run away screaming. Even if you don't actually need a piss, somehow you think you do.
Pressure on the bladder: Some sexual positions put more pressure on the bladder than others and can make you feel like you need to piss even if you don't.
You really do need a piss: Often our thrustings and fumblings happen after the pub/club meaning there are several pints of alcohol swimming through your system as you start to get jiggy.
Best way to deal with it: Removing the fear of giving an uninvited golden shower is easily done - go to the loo before you have sex (especially as sex on a full bladder is one cause of cystitis. In truth, you're probably in better control of your bodily functions than you think, and actually weeing on your partner (without wanting to) is unlikely to happen. If you are really worried you could also try training up your PC muscle.
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| January 26, 2007, 15:10 |
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QUOTE (Liberalwife @ January 26, 2007, 15:10)No this isn't something for incontinent OAPs, it's a common problem for girls for several reasons:
Fear: that we'll lose control when we orgasm and piss all over our lover causing them to run away screaming. Even if you don't actually need a piss, somehow you think you do.
Pressure on the bladder: Some sexual positions put more pressure on the bladder than others and can make you feel like you need to piss even if you don't.
You really do need a piss: Often our thrustings and fumblings happen after the pub/club meaning there are several pints of alcohol swimming through your system as you start to get jiggy.
Best way to deal with it: Removing the fear of giving an uninvited golden shower is easily done - go to the loo before you have sex (especially as sex on a full bladder is one cause of cystitis. In truth, you're probably in better control of your bodily functions than you think, and actually weeing on your partner (without wanting to) is unlikely to happen. If you are really worried you could also try training up your PC muscle.
good advice from the "Liberal Doctor"...makes sense to me...oh and i fully agree with funlovingpair..it definitely sounds like your pushing all the right buttons.
also, if you're really concerned your gonna piss.just do a quick bathroom exit and come back...for more
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| January 29, 2007, 08:34 |
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Re: diagnosis needed
still doesnt help on why ... you know.
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| February 3, 2007, 11:40 |
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why what? be more specific hun.
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| February 3, 2007, 12:39 |
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| February 3, 2007, 12:52 |
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Re: diagnosis needed
Pretty much what was all said in bcb's first post on this thread. Maybe toss in the whole "trying too hard" kinda thing to add that on top of it all? Is there even such a thing as that?
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| February 3, 2007, 14:02 |
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Thanks julianna. Helps out a bit to understand whats going on some more now.
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| February 3, 2007, 14:03 |
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Man4fmf
67 / male
dayton, Ohio, US
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WHY? Well when a woman is ready to squirt /ejaculate, her vagina tenses up making the male feel like she has the strongest pussy muscles ever. But what actually happens is the way a women ejaculates is to squeeze the fluid from the glands (gspot)..Thus putting pressure on the kidney area and making her feel the sensation of pissing. As said by LW, normally she doesnt piss.
This is where the man needs to be vocal. Get loud, tell her to let out. All of it, babe yes go for it ...do it...dont stop...piss it out do it now...etc etc....It works
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| February 3, 2007, 14:03 |
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Hell yeah!!! Terms are important to understand but the best thing is that it is an incredible way to just plain "GET OFF!!!" Another important tidbit is that it becomes more frequent as women "advance" in age...so, women really are like fine wines and get better with "age"...either that or their partners are more experienced and take more time to...um..."return the favor"
LOL
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| February 3, 2007, 14:21 |
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Re: diagnosis needed
or should I have termed that...
Women get "wetter" with age?
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| February 3, 2007, 14:22 |
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Man4fmf
67 / male
dayton, Ohio, US
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I think women get hornier with age! From years of suppressing the wants to fulfill the job of being a wife, mother,nurse,dietitian,money manager, Tudor etc etc...u get the idea. Then when the kids get older, and she suddenly has time for herself, these urges come back stronger than ever. Hence "their prime"
And they wont settle for nothing but satisfaction...Gotta lovem' !      
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| February 3, 2007, 14:32 |
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I've always been a "go getter" so if you can imagine...my prime has been a fine place to be!!! My friends and I have taken full advantage of the sexual revolution!!!
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| February 3, 2007, 14:35 |
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Man4fmf
67 / male
dayton, Ohio, US
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Waste Not Want Not!
Then you are making some men very tired, Or if they are pleasers...very happy! Keep it goin! Too many women waste those years and are bitter...
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| February 3, 2007, 14:46 |
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Re: diagnosis needed
Correct me if im wrong:
Not all girls (like you would see in a porn movie) scream when having orgasm, right??
That's just added on for the whole movie scene. 
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| February 11, 2007, 13:09 |
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NRG4U
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Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Thats the only talking line they can remember
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| February 11, 2007, 13:13 |
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QUOTE (bikerchick69 @ February 11, 2007, 13:09)Correct me if im wrong:
Not all girls (like you would see in a porn movie) scream when having orgasm, right??
That's just added on for the whole movie scene.
I don't scream everytime I'm having one, but, yes, I have been known for extreme audible excitement.
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| February 11, 2007, 13:28 |
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QUOTE (Juilianna @ February 11, 2007, 13:28) QUOTE (bikerchick69 @ February 11, 2007, 13:09)Correct me if im wrong:
Not all girls (like you would see in a porn movie) scream when having orgasm, right??
That's just added on for the whole movie scene.
I don't scream everytime I'm having one, but, yes, I have been known for extreme audible excitement.
I have a vision of Juilianna doing her best Meg Ryan in When Harry Met Sally....cummmazing!! 
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| February 12, 2007, 09:32 |
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lizonya
64 / couple
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oh ah ohhhh ahhhhh OOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
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| February 12, 2007, 12:25 |
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You guys are a crack-up.
And I learn so much here.Truly do!!!
Thanks to all the ladies for answering this one. Good question.
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| February 13, 2007, 17:19 |
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