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Making yourself available
What techniques do you use when you see someone that you want to have sex with you,,,are you overly friendly and smile at them striking a conversation? do you casually bump into them, do you get real close when talking to them and just tell them? do you flash some cleavage or panties from a sitting position? I have had women while talking to me let their breast touch my arm, has anyone ever don that to a man? I do not know it that is by accident or not and was wondering if you women could help me out with that one in particular?
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| January 9, 2007, 19:56 |
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lizonya
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lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: Making yourself available
oh, hey...when there is chemistry the body parts cannot help but to brush up against the one we want to be with. it's like an electric charge. chemistry baby! i went to a concert with someone i was attracted to and everytime, while dancing, my body would graze him it was magical. and i sensed he felt it too because his body would mysteriously bump into me or graze a boob or leg here and there.
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| January 9, 2007, 21:40 |
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slowpoke2
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aberdeen, Scotland, UK
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Re: Re: Making yourself available
QUOTE (lizonya @ January 9, 2007, 21:40)oh, hey...when there is chemistry the body parts cannot help but to brush up against the one we want to be with. it's like an electric charge. chemistry baby! i went to a concert with someone i was attracted to and every time, while dancing, my body would graze him it was magical. and i sensed he felt it too because his body would mysteriously bump into me or graze a boob or leg here and there.
you can graze or bump into me anytime honey 
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| January 9, 2007, 21:43 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Making yourself available
Yea, I was thinking I could do some grazing of my own....  
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| January 9, 2007, 21:57 |
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Re: Making yourself available
I'm horrible...it's probably not possible for a person to tell if I'm interested in them or not, just from the way I behave towards them...I pretty much just love the crap outta everyone I meet, and know and behave the same way towards a platonic friend as I do with someone I just maybe harboring erotic thoughts, wants and fantasies about.
But hey, if it's the right time, place and person....I don't allow any room for mixed signals, or misscommunications...what I say, where I touch, etc...leaves no doubt. I'll be straightforward about it.
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| January 11, 2007, 03:14 |
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Re: Making yourself available
I buy them a Latte! 
mostly i like to strike up conversation, depending on the forum or venue...then it's pretty easy to stimulate their mind with questions and thoughts on something sexual...and non-sexual too.
i once picked up a woman while she was watching her son's little league baseball game...
it'll vary depending on the initial approach...and the context of where and how we met...like today for example.
I had another one of my "networking" industry functions for lunch...lotsa women...you'd be surprised at how clutching a hug can be...there are some serious takers in that group.
i digress, what was the question.... 
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| January 11, 2007, 15:57 |
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Re: Re: Making yourself available
QUOTE (TropiFun @ January 11, 2007, 15:57)I buy them a Latte!
mostly i like to strike up conversation, depending on the forum or venue...then it's pretty easy to stimulate their mind with questions and thoughts on something sexual...and non-sexual too.
i once picked up a woman while she was watching her son's little league baseball game...
it'll vary depending on the initial approach...and the context of where and how we met...like today for example.
I had another one of my "networking" industry functions for lunch...lotsa women...you'd be surprised at how clutching a hug can be...there are some serious takers in that group.
i digress, what was the question....
Let me see if I have this right????? There are:
1. The polite but meaningless(phony)HUG
2. The family get together HUG
3. The Your cool I like you HUG
4. And the I wanna fuck you Clutching HUG
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| January 13, 2007, 17:36 |
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smitty6044
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A whoop and a hollar from Dallas, Texas, US
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Re: Making yourself available
HH:
I'll opt for #3 and #4 anytime. I think men do similar things but more aggressively....a squeeze here and there and then progressively bolder moves if there is a noticeable response. This is the real "fun of the game". My favorite is a little "nibbly" soft kiss when she's not really expecting it. Sometimes it's like pouring gasoline on a flickering flame.
Any comments ladies?   
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| January 13, 2007, 20:08 |
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Re: Making yourself available
Smitty - that just got me hot! 
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| January 13, 2007, 23:32 |
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Re: Re: Re: Making yourself available
QUOTE (hothands @ January 13, 2007, 17:36) QUOTE (TropiFun @ January 11, 2007, 15:57)
Let me see if I have this right????? There are:
1. The polite but meaningless(phony)HUG
2. The family get together HUG
3. The Your cool I like you HUG
4. And the I wanna fuck you Clutching HUG
I am soooo in trouble...I hug everyone tight...I hope I haven't clutched someone the wrong way!!!
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| January 14, 2007, 00:15 |
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Re: Re: Making yourself available
QUOTE (Chazzy @ January 11, 2007, 03:14)I'm horrible...it's probably not possible for a person to tell if I'm interested in them or not, just from the way I behave towards them...I pretty much just love the crap outta everyone I meet, and know and behave the same way towards a platonic friend as I do with someone I just maybe harboring erotic thoughts, wants and fantasies about.
But hey, if it's the right time, place and person....I don't allow any room for mixed signals, or misscommunications...what I say, where I touch, etc...leaves no doubt. I'll be straightforward about it.
Chazzy...I'm the same way, I'm just overly friendly, makes me wonder how many men think I want to screw their brains out!!!
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| January 14, 2007, 00:16 |
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Re: Making yourself available
Well i usually take the strange approach of looking in their eyes, feeling a pounding in my chest, and saying right to their face...sex? are you up for it ?
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| January 14, 2007, 11:12 |
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Re: Making yourself available
i probably missed out on my chances with lots of ladies, i have a hard time judging when they are really wanting me for sex or if they are just trying to be freindly, so i usually shy away  unless they specify what they really want...
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| January 14, 2007, 13:08 |
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Re: Re: Re: Making yourself available
QUOTE (hothands @ January 13, 2007, 17:36) QUOTE (TropiFun @ January 11, 2007, 15:57)I buy them a Latte!
mostly i like to strike up conversation, depending on the forum or venue...then it's pretty easy to stimulate their mind with questions and thoughts on something sexual...and non-sexual too.
i once picked up a woman while she was watching her son's little league baseball game...
it'll vary depending on the initial approach...and the context of where and how we met...like today for example.
I had another one of my "networking" industry functions for lunch...lotsa women...you'd be surprised at how clutching a hug can be...there are some serious takers in that group.
i digress, what was the question....
Let me see if I have this right????? There are:
1. The polite but meaningless(phony)HUG
2. The family get together HUG
3. The Your cool I like you HUG
4. And the I wanna fuck you Clutching HUG
good summation of hugs, HotHands..
more of those hugs that day were the #4s....clutching hugs that they press your body into theirs as they hug you and hold the hug...for like say, 20 seconds...that's a long hug...and when the hand on your back drops lower above the ass but not on it, that would be inappropriate...and press you into her body...hmmm....mmmmmm
nothing like "networking"...!!
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| January 15, 2007, 10:12 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Making yourself available
QUOTE (TropiFun @ January 15, 2007, 10:12) QUOTE (hothands @ January 13, 2007, 17:36) QUOTE (TropiFun @ January 11, 2007, 15:57)I buy them a Latte!
mostly i like to strike up conversation, depending on the forum or venue...then it's pretty easy to stimulate their mind with questions and thoughts on something sexual...and non-sexual too.
i once picked up a woman while she was watching her son's little league baseball game...
it'll vary depending on the initial approach...and the context of where and how we met...like today for example.
I had another one of my "networking" industry functions for lunch...lotsa women...you'd be surprised at how clutching a hug can be...there are some serious takers in that group.
i digress, what was the question....
Let me see if I have this right????? There are:
1. The polite but meaningless(phony)HUG
2. The family get together HUG
3. The Your cool I like you HUG
4. And the I wanna fuck you Clutching HUG
good summation of hugs, HotHands..
more of those hugs that day were the #4s....clutching hugs that they press your body into theirs as they hug you and hold the hug...for like say, 20 seconds...that's a long hug...and when the hand on your back drops lower above the ass but not on it, that would be inappropriate...and press you into her body...hmmm....mmmmmm
nothing like "networking"...!!
Yeah,,,especially when there husband is standing nearby watching I have been there before 
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