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rogerdoger12
66 / male
Knoxville, Tennessee, US
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How can I talk my wife into...
Ok, We tried something new this week. I masterbated with my wife and she watched. Seemed to get excited (was really wet) and let me play with her as I stroked it. She even stroked for a bit....
Question- Want to have her masterbate for me and she wont. How can I get her to do this? I really think she would enjoy it. She says she does when she's alone but can't in front of me.
All suggestions will be tried... HELP
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| January 8, 2007, 17:42 |
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lizonya
64 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: How can I talk my wife into...
how long have you two been married? i would keep asking her nicely and also try different ways to play w/each other.
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| January 8, 2007, 18:26 |
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Re: How can I talk my wife into...
She has to really know that you approve of it and want her to do it for you, it is always the element of embarrassment because masturbation is one of the most private things a person does, its sorta like being gay and coming out of the closet so to speak, I would suggest that when you are having sex do not take here to climax let her get all fired up then stop or really slow the pace while at the same time gently hold her hand and slowly move it to that area and slowly massage the back of her hand while you are kneeling between her legs with your cock moving in and out inside of her, plus befor you try this you should masturbate frequently in front of her so she gets use to the new found enjoyment.
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| January 8, 2007, 19:28 |
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lizonya
64 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: How can I talk my wife into...
great advise hothands. spoken like one who truly knows 
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| January 8, 2007, 19:35 |
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Re: Re: How can I talk my wife into...
QUOTE (lizonya @ January 8, 2007, 19:35)great advise hothands. spoken like one who truly knows
I will meet you in Tennesee, we can show him fisrt hand 
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| January 8, 2007, 19:38 |
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Re: How can I talk my wife into...
My recommendation from a woman's perspective would be to lay next to her in bed admiring her body, try kissing her on the knee and move up the high, then move back down the leg until you are working your way up her inner thigh. Ask her to show you her favorite place to touch, ask her if you can touch it and when she lets you tell her it was much more beautiful when she was touching it, perhaps by helping her you can make her feel more comfortable with what she is doing. Eventually she will come around... 
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| January 8, 2007, 21:08 |
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Re: Re: How can I talk my wife into...
QUOTE (Juilianna @ January 8, 2007, 21:08)My recommendation from a woman's perspective would be to lay next to her in bed admiring her body, try kissing her on the knee and move up the high, then move back down the leg until you are working your way up her inner thigh. Ask her to show you her favorite place to touch, ask her if you can touch it and when she lets you tell her it was much more beautiful when she was touching it, perhaps by helping her you can make her feel more comfortable with what she is doing. Eventually she will come around...
A little slower, please, I'm taking notes. . . .
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| January 8, 2007, 23:35 |
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rogerdoger12
66 / male
Knoxville, Tennessee, US
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Re: Re: How can I talk my wife into...
QUOTE (lizonya @ January 8, 2007, 18:26)how long have you two been married? i would keep asking her nicely and also try different ways to play w/each other.
We have been married 11 years. Will give your suggestion a try. Thanks for advise
Roger
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| January 9, 2007, 05:29 |
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rogerdoger12
66 / male
Knoxville, Tennessee, US
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Re: Re: How can I talk my wife into...
QUOTE (Juilianna @ January 8, 2007, 21:08)My recommendation from a woman's perspective would be to lay next to her in bed admiring her body, try kissing her on the knee and move up the high, then move back down the leg until you are working your way up her inner thigh. Ask her to show you her favorite place to touch, ask her if you can touch it and when she lets you tell her it was much more beautiful when she was touching it, perhaps by helping her you can make her feel more comfortable with what she is doing. Eventually she will come around...
This sounds really good, I'll let u know what cums out of this...
Thanks
Roger
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| January 9, 2007, 05:31 |
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Re: How can I talk my wife into...
dont forget to take pictures, for revue purposes only 
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| January 9, 2007, 07:53 |
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lizonya
64 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: How can I talk my wife into...
and you must post a video for us to rate...  10/10/10 ~ good luck.
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| January 9, 2007, 14:46 |
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hotfarmboy
36 / male
devon, England, UK
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Re: How can I talk my wife into...
I wont give you advise coz itll be shit... So im just gonna wish you luck lol hope the others advice goes well!
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| January 9, 2007, 17:23 |
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Re: How can I talk my wife into...
Do you have a webcam, or video recorder cam, or even a digital cam (or poloroid) that can take still shots?
Maybe if she kinda ventured into this whole masturbating for you without you actually being in the room...maybe she could make you a short vid clip with a cam, or take some solo pleasuring still shots for you. Maybe she would feel more comfortable starting out with a media where she can be in control and review what you will be seeing from her, without you actually being there watching her...and when she's done this, and realizes how hot you think it is, she'll loosen up to you being right there with her.
Of course, I can only speak for myself, but....just watching allot of hardcore porn while getting one helluva alcohol buzz...usually will loosen me up to try just about anything....
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