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kelespot
52 / female
orange beach, Alabama, US
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Wife sharing .
Hello All ,
My husband and i have been married for 15 years . All is good in our lives 
However he has a heavy fetish of me being with other men . Mainly , Me giving head to another man as he is watching . At this point other than cam, trading pics and me cybering etc.. We have not included anyone else in this fetish of his . I am all for this . I'm sooo into it .
My only concern is that if we fill this fetish in real it My change the way we play . Our marriage is strong that is not a worry . I would love to fulfill this for him . With the right understanding man  3some .gif">
With all being said; I would love some feed back on this .
In short : Doing what he wishes ( me blowing another man for him to see ) Increase our sex life or do more damage that what it may be worth ?
After reading forms . I feel there are some very insightful ppl here .
Thanks Kele 
b.t.w This is not a request for takers at this time . Looking for feed back for now. 
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| December 9, 2006, 20:54 |
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charlieterry69
73 / couple
Gainesville, Texas, US
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Re: Wife sharing .
If as you say your marriage is strong, it will stand this, and very likely will make it stronger. On top of that, he will get a lot more enjoyment out of watching you than you realize. And you get the intense pleasure of pleasuring another man. Good Luck!!! 
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| December 10, 2006, 17:33 |
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yepper12
74 / male
Jeffersonville, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Wife sharing .
Best of luck I realy do not know if I could handle that type of thing but it works for a lot of people.
 
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| December 10, 2006, 22:33 |
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Re: Wife sharing .
QUOTE (kelespot @ December 9, 2006, 20:54)Hello All ,
My husband and i have been married for 15 years . All is good in our lives
However he has a heavy fetish of me being with other men . Mainly , Me giving head to another man as he is watching . At this point other than cam, trading pics and me cybering etc.. We have not included anyone else in this fetish of his . I am all for this . I'm sooo into it .
My only concern is that if we fill this fetish in real it My change the way we play . Our marriage is strong that is not a worry . I would love to fulfill this for him . With the right understanding man 3some .gif">
With all being said; I would love some feed back on this .
In short : Doing what he wishes ( me blowing another man for him to see ) Increase our sex life or do more damage that what it may be worth ?
After reading forms . I feel there are some very insightful ppl here .
Thanks Kele
b.t.w This is not a request for takers at this time . Looking for feed back for now.
I think you two have the right idea, and Iam sure that it will increase you love for each other as well as your pleasure, the only thing that I question is only going for the blow job I think you should go all the way for the full enjoyment.
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| December 12, 2006, 15:32 |
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Re: Wife sharing .
There's only a few things that need to be mentioned to anyone considering bringing a third person or more into their bedroom...one you've covered already, and that is 3-somes swinging , etc...or only for couples in a strong and stable relationship...so we won't go into that anymore.
Second...Do allot of talking, discuss scenarios and what ifs, decide on set rules (and stick to those rules!) leave nothing undecided or not talked about and lastly...a partner in the relationship should never give more attention to the persons outside the relationship than they do their own partner during "play"
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| December 12, 2006, 16:07 |
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Liberalwife
47 / female
north, England, UK
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Re: Wife sharing .
Speaking from experience,,id say ..Go for it,,nothing ventured nothing gained,,  
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| December 12, 2006, 18:41 |
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KINKYINTHEFALLS
57 / male
wild and wonderful, West Virginia, US
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Re: Re: Wife sharing .
QUOTE (Liberalwife @ December 12, 2006, 18:41)
I second this adding that I would recommend following chazzy's advice as well 
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| December 12, 2006, 20:55 |
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Re: Wife sharing .
Although I did tried this with a girlfriend of many years, it really worked out well.
I was pretty nervous & worried at the same time, but it was her fantasy. The more I thought of it, the easier I felt.
This resutled in a story I wrote and posted in the User Submitted section of Erotic Stories.
It is titled "Cowboy Bar Pickup."
REad it and see. Of course what happened with us was more than just one guy.
Enjoy!
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| December 16, 2006, 03:02 |
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Re: Wife sharing .
sure seems like Chazzy's advice is "right on"...kele you seem very comfortable with your sexuality and the relationship with your hubby..so that is way good!!
go for it and let us know how it goes...
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| December 18, 2006, 09:18 |
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MelodyBeth
49 / female
sadiveille, Kentucky, US
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Re: Wife sharing .
My husband shares me and has for a few years. It has made our relationship better, and our lovemaking is much hotter now too.
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| March 25, 2007, 06:15 |
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gfuntimes
59 / male
milwaukee, Wisconsin, US
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Re: Re: Wife sharing .
QUOTE (hothands @ December 12, 2006, 15:32) QUOTE (kelespot @ December 9, 2006, 20:54)Hello All ,
My husband and i have been married for 15 years . All is good in our lives
However he has a heavy fetish of me being with other men . Mainly , Me giving head to another man as he is watching . At this point other than cam, trading pics and me cybering etc.. We have not included anyone else in this fetish of his . I am all for this . I'm sooo into it .
My only concern is that if we fill this fetish in real it My change the way we play . Our marriage is strong that is not a worry . I would love to fulfill this for him . With the right understanding man 3some .gif">
With all being said; I would love some feed back on this .
In short : Doing what he wishes ( me blowing another man for him to see ) Increase our sex life or do more damage that what it may be worth ?
After reading forms . I feel there are some very insightful ppl here .
Thanks Kele
b.t.w This is not a request for takers at this time . Looking for feed back for now. I think you two have the right idea, and Iam sure that it will increase you love for each other as well as your pleasure, the only thing that I question is only going for the blow job I think you should go all the way for the full enjoyment.
you will be fine, don't worry so much
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| April 14, 2007, 03:31 |
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Pervstr8hubby
54 / couple
Navarre, Florida, US
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Re: Wife sharing .
I'm actively encouraging my wife to expand her experiences with other men.
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| April 26, 2007, 13:47 |
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heNher
58 / couple
blurock, Ohio, US
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Re: Wife sharing .
QUOTE (kelespot @ December 9, 2006, 20:54)Hello All ,
My husband and i have been married for 15 years . All is good in our lives
However he has a heavy fetish of me being with other men . Mainly , Me giving head to another man as he is watching . At this point other than cam, trading pics and me cybering etc.. We have not included anyone else in this fetish of his . I am all for this . I'm sooo into it .
My only concern is that if we fill this fetish in real it My change the way we play . Our marriage is strong that is not a worry . I would love to fulfill this for him . With the right understanding man 3some .gif">
With all being said; I would love some feed back on this .
In short : Doing what he wishes ( me blowing another man for him to see ) Increase our sex life or do more damage that what it may be worth ?
After reading forms . I feel there are some very insightful ppl here .
Thanks Kele
b.t.w This is not a request for takers at this time . Looking for feed back for now.
we love you
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| April 28, 2007, 08:53 |
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rudedogg99
50 / male
pittsburg, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Wife sharing .
I have the same fetish with my wife. We'ev tried the wife sharing thing and the main thing is communication. One difficult part is finding the right person. To avoid problems keep it a together thing which means if you talk to the other guy just the two of you after you do it make sure your husband knows you talk to him and what was said. It would be no different if you had another woman there and he talked to her behind your back. Even if its innocent chat jealousy can build fast. But be upfront after the fact and dont hide anything and have a blast.
P.S. My wife says she gets so turned on knowing Im turned on watching her. Hopefully you have the same expierence!
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| May 9, 2007, 11:04 |
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joe833
77 / male
sault ste marie, Ontario, Canada
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Re: Wife sharing .
I've been married a few times and shared with two wives. It was absolutely fantastic! I've been present and also waited at home. I think I prefer her telling me all about it later. I miss those times so much now. wish I could turn the clock back. Good luck on your own decisions.
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| October 11, 2007, 20:41 |
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alvinc
72 / male
conroe, Texas, US
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Re: Wife sharing .
My wife and I have tried this and it was great. We have been married for 14 years so it din't do anything except make us stronger in feelings for each other. We have had 3 somes both ways 2/m 2/f. The thing I would talk to hubby about is the jealeousy part. Make sure he is really wanting this to happen in real time. And of course only you know if he is being honest about fullfilling this fetish. When both of you are certain then get the ball rolling. You will enjoy it for long time to come
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| October 14, 2007, 03:06 |
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Camo86
38 / male
FWB, Florida, US
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Re: Wife sharing .
I'm not too sure on this topic, but in my opinion I say go ahead and experiment. I'm pretty close to quite a few members in here and I'd definitely like to hear your opinions on the subject as well. If the marriage is strong and stable, you both are willing to experiment , and the participating member is ready for a wild time....ENJOY every minute of it. I wouldn't think that adding an extra body in the bedroom would ruin anything just as long as it was all taken in context and certain rules and/or "safe" words were established.
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| October 15, 2007, 21:48 |
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