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Commitment fears
Do you, or have you had a relationship with someone who has a fear of commitment?
Does falling love, or getting serious cause your head to spin?
If you're married, did you get "cold feet" prior to the ceremony?
Does "fear of commitment" explain some weird behavior you've seen in your self or others?
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| December 5, 2006, 08:38 |
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40something
57 / female
In the Sun, Arizona, US
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Re: Commitment fears
I think that at this age it isn't a "fear of committment" as much as it is a fear of all the things that can go wrong. It isn't hard these days to committ, it is hard to committ 5 years from now, 10 years from now - forever. Committment means coming home even when you are mad at your partner, coming home and putting in your time with cleaning the house; remembering that your girlfriends are your friends not your partner, so if you have a problem at home - you go home and work on it. So much easier to say "I do" than to do it.
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| December 5, 2006, 22:21 |
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