There was a topic about wheres the women...Well wheres all the men?Nothing against you guys already here...But I think we need more! Maybe my age?

so does this mean all ue regular guys are are just chopped liver ,HMMMM

so does this mean all ue regular guys are are just chopped liver ,HMMMM

  QUOTE (hardrock1955 @ August 24, 2004, 08:27)
Unfortunately, yes.

  QUOTE (Tease @ August 24, 2004, 00:28)
Did it ever occur to you that us OLD guys have feelings too? Never heard of "Aged to perfection"? Do you really think that older and wiser men have nothing to offer over younger ones? OUCH, that one hurt.

  QUOTE (Tease @ August 24, 2004, 00:28)
Did it ever occur to you that us OLD guys have feelings too? Never heard of "Aged to perfection"? Do you really think that older and wiser men have nothing to offer over younger ones? OUCH, that one hurt.

Unfortunately that's the way it is. Thick skin is not optional!

She knows she could have worded it better and it didn't reflect exactly what she wanted to express, and she regrets that, and did ask that I convey her apology. She said "she feels shitty" about the whole thing,and I am right now, trying to get her to come back on. But she doesn't appear to be online at all,

She knows she could have worded it better and it didn't reflect exactly what she wanted to express, and she regrets that, and did ask that I convey her apology. She said "she feels shitty" about the whole thing,and I am right now, trying to get her to come back on. But she doesn't appear to be online at all,

  QUOTE (Chazzy @ August 24, 2004, 18:19)


i know this isnt what most will want to hear but its my opinion just like all yours... take it for face value.

age DOES and ALWAYS will play a role in who we are attracted to.... doesn't mean people outside that age group are automatically denied, of course i'd prefer a girl my age... who ever says other wise is kidding themselves, thats just nature. still don't stop me from having a little fun with the girls younger or older. Tease you got nothing to be sorry for and you worded things fine... you just stated an opinion on what you like. Like you guys who felt "hurt" but how can you get upset by someones opinion? best wishes to all!!

Like you guys who felt "hurt" but how can you get upset by someones opinion? best wishes to all!!

I need to make it especially clear that I over reacted to what Tease said. Like I said before, Its all my fault. I really don't think Tease said anything that was all that wrong or insulting. Thats why I've been taking opportunities to appologize to her.

I can be an idiot sometimes. I guess I'm just a member of the club!

  QUOTE (backfromaustintx @ August 24, 2004, 10:13)
Unfortunately that's the way it is. Thick skin is not optional!

It is interesting that most and I say most of the guys that a regulars here in the forum are over 40 but many of the members are much younger. I wonder why that is?

I think its because they're too busy doing it to be talking about it here! Heh.

There's a lot more to lovemaking than intercourse. Most of us older guys really understand that.
As for age appropriatness, I'm more attracted to maturity and intellect and wisom and conversation than mere age.

  QUOTE (backfromaustintx @ August 24, 2004, 21:49)
Well said! Quality not quanity!

She knows she could have worded it better and it didn't reflect exactly what she wanted to express, and she regrets that, and did ask that I convey her apology. She said "she feels shitty" about the whole thing,and I am right now, trying to get her to come back on. But she doesn't appear to be online at all,

  QUOTE (sunbuff10 @ August 24, 2004, 22:02)

Its not always age though...I have heard several of yu men say things about yuonger women and kept my mouth shut...Because everyone is entitled to their own opinion...Some young guys do know how to treat a woman in and out of bed...just like some older guys dont...everything is not about age...its about who you are compatible with...

Just a general comment about being older.
Call me unusual if you will, but I'm really not that insecure about my age! (recent sensitivity nonwithstanding). If I were to be with a younger woman (and I have dated and even bedded as young as mid thirties within the last 2 years) it would be my weight and appearance that would prey on my mind. The more beautiful in a classical sense she is the more out of place I'd feel.
Also, I have mentioned here before that because I'm diabetic I have trouble saluting at the appropriate times - BUT I've never failed to please a woman in bed. There's a lot more to lovemaking than intercourse. Most of us older guys really understand that.
As for age appropriatness, I'm more attracted to maturity and intellect and wisom and conversation than mere age.
Thats not to say that I don't completely understand what Tease was trying to say - I do and she has a right to be interested in anyone she so desires.

  QUOTE (backfromaustintx @ August 24, 2004, 21:49)


BFA, you beat me to it! You're absolutely right. And yes, everyone has their opinions. That's what makes us each an individual!

I guess it's a bit different for me. My mom was 11 years older than my dad. I'm the youngest of a large family. A lot of my interests are before my time. Music for instance. I'm always being questioned about that. I was just born in the wrong decade I guess. I happen to prefer older men . They are more mature and I can carry on a conversation with them about a lot of things. Although, I have met someone here who is younger and is an acception to the rule

Then again, is has a lot to do with the individual themselves. I'm usually the pup of the group I'm with but when people get to know me they ask if I'm really only 31. lol

Anyhow, I'm not thinking straight today so take from this what you will..... lol

  QUOTE (MoonHowler @ August 25, 2004, 07:05)


This is one time I'm happy to be an older guy!

  QUOTE (Tease @ August 24, 2004, 22:15)
I agree! I'm only comparing where "I" was 15 or 20 years ago to today.

it aint a persons birth date that makes them old, being old is to some extent a choice.... i try hard to treat eveyone as my peer and it works well for me, from 3 year old kids to 90 year olds.

it aint a persons birth date that makes them old, being old is to some extent a choice.... i try hard to treat eveyone as my peer and it works well for me, from 3 year old kids to 90 year olds.

Ya curious hes very smooth...I knew that awhile ago....Maqybe I should edit too huh bcb? Then I could post like you! All the right words...My problem is the words do come from the heart and I dont always think before I say them or type them...

Sun I never saw your earlier post or I would have responded. I didn't mean to make you feel like shit. I was just kiddin'. All better?

As for the rest I can relate to MoonHowler. My dad was 25 years older than my mom. So I was raised w/ a different set of values and just all around different things than most people my age. Grew up listening to the Dixie Cups. Ever heard of them?

I have dated men older and younger than me but I always prefer the company of men slightly older than me. Just more mature all around. (no offense intended) As for the dating older men , I saw my mother widowed at 46 yrs old so I won't get romanticly involved w/ an older man . Although I have been hit on by 3 men who were well into they're 70's. I admired they're spunk and the fact that they approached a woman in her early 20's(at the time)

Sun I never saw your earlier post or I would have responded. I didn't mean to make you feel like shit. I was just kiddin'. All better?

As for the rest I can relate to MoonHowler. My dad was 25 years older than my mom. So I was raised w/ a different set of values and just all around different things than most people my age. Grew up listening to the Dixie Cups. Ever heard of them?

I have dated men older and younger than me but I always prefer the company of men slightly older than me. Just more mature all around. (no offense intended) As for the dating older men , I saw my mother widowed at 46 yrs old so I won't get romanticly involved w/ an older man . Although I have been hit on by 3 men who were well into they're 70's. I admired they're spunk and the fact that they approached a woman in her early 20's(at the time)

  QUOTE (curiousgirl @ August 25, 2004, 18:49)


*Breaks out in a verse*

Spring is here, the sky is blue, whoooaaaa, birds all sing as - if they knew..... today's the dayyyyy, we'll say "I doooooo" and we'll never be lonely anymore..... because we're..........