|
| AUTHOR |
MESSAGE |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Give your thoughts on 3-somes
We all see allot of profiles here, profiles of couples seeking a third person. I'm looking for all kinds of opinions here, I'm certain they will give allot of these couples some insight on the whole subject and idea of bringing a third person into their sex life.
Would you ever consider being the third person with a couple or have you ever joined a couple in bed?
I'm not talking about three single people partying it up, I'm talking about joining an established couple married or in a stable relationship.
What guidelines would you insist on, what conditions, circumstances?
...and if you have already done the three-some thing with a couple, was it a bad experience, or something you did but wouldn't do again...or is it something you like to do regularly, or at least once in awhile?
Or.. is it just a favorite fantasy, but you probably would not pursue making it real?
Offer anything you have on the subject, how do you find and approach a single person to join you...or as a single person what is an effective way to approach you, etc...
|
| November 8, 2006, 10:51 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
Any couples currently seeking a third person...wanna talk about your sucesses or failures? Tell the members what you did right to fullfill your search, or ask the members what you're doing wrong if you haven't had any luck yet?
|
| November 8, 2006, 11:01 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
I have been curious about trying a 3'some preferably FMF. It is one of my fantasies.
|
| November 8, 2006, 11:45 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
QUOTE (skrr6689 @ November 8, 2006, 11:45)I have been curious about trying a 3'some preferably FMF. It is one of my fantasies.
The problem is, if it's a couple, you won't be able to have a FMF. MFM would be a bit intimidating to me, but never say never.
|
| November 8, 2006, 11:50 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
i agree it would be unlikely i would have m-f-m would rather have it f-m-f the only way probablt if it was lesbien no insult 2 them
|
| November 8, 2006, 12:25 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
I might try MFM. It will depend on the guy of course but I will not want to try any bi-sexual stuff with him. I am strictly heterosexual.
|
| November 8, 2006, 12:45 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
I like um...and we'll take the 5th....
M Lev...   
|
| November 8, 2006, 14:19 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
QUOTE (Leviathan4u @ November 8, 2006, 14:19)I like um...and we'll take the 5th....
M Lev...
What happened to the fourth? 
|
| November 8, 2006, 14:24 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
QUOTE (kinkykev @ November 8, 2006, 14:24) QUOTE (Leviathan4u @ November 8, 2006, 14:19)I like um...and we'll take the 5th....
M Lev...
What happened to the fourth?
I'm too old to take on a 4th now...
M Lev... 
|
| November 8, 2006, 14:26 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Re: Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
QUOTE (Leviathan4u @ November 8, 2006, 14:26) QUOTE (kinkykev @ November 8, 2006, 14:24) QUOTE (Leviathan4u @ November 8, 2006, 14:19)I like um...and we'll take the 5th....
M Lev...
What happened to the fourth?
I'm too old to take on a 4th now...
M Lev...
I know how you feel. 
|
| November 8, 2006, 14:27 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
QUOTE (kinkykev @ November 8, 2006, 14:27) QUOTE (Leviathan4u @ November 8, 2006, 14:26) QUOTE (kinkykev @ November 8, 2006, 14:24) QUOTE (Leviathan4u @ November 8, 2006, 14:19)I like um...and we'll take the 5th....
M Lev...
What happened to the fourth?
I'm too old to take on a 4th now...
M Lev...
I know how you feel.
I feel comfort in the fact that i'm only 26-so I can take the fourth or fifth depending on how spunky i'm feeling that day.
|
| November 8, 2006, 14:43 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
QUOTE (4deyez @ November 8, 2006, 14:43) QUOTE (kinkykev @ November 8, 2006, 14:27) QUOTE (Leviathan4u @ November 8, 2006, 14:26) QUOTE (kinkykev @ November 8, 2006, 14:24) QUOTE (Leviathan4u @ November 8, 2006, 14:19)I like um...and we'll take the 5th....
M Lev...
What happened to the fourth?
I'm too old to take on a 4th now...
M Lev...
I know how you feel.
I feel comfort in the fact that i'm only 26-so I can take the fourth or fifth depending on how spunky i'm feeling that day.
Don't rub it in, your be old and decrepit, like this one day.
|
| November 8, 2006, 14:51 |
|
funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
Ma and I have tried the FMF once. It was our first time, and the third was, key word WAS, a good friend of ours. It was a little awkward, as no one know how the other would react. But its our opinion the third had other hopes, like I would leave MA and hook up with her. That wasn't going to happen. However, now we still looking for that third for us. Ma is much more comfortable with the fact that I wouldn't give more attention, or want a relationship with the other women alone. What we did find, was that MA was actually surprised that she was turned on by the fact she was with another woman. And that's good.
The boundaries are and would be very clear. We would only have the relationship as a couple, NO EXCEPTIONS. All thou I have given MA the OK to have a relationship with another woman without me, and I'm OK with that. As far as MFM thing, I've thought about it, but would never have a sexual relation with another male, period. My thought on the MFM, is that the woman can get the same feeling of satisfaction with a female, as a male, and I wouldn't have the feeling/thoughts of being inadequate, since I don't feel that my tools are what they should be, and its hard to get a bruised ego when the other tools aren't hanging around. An then there's the issue of pregnancy and possible STD's, as we don't have to use contraceptives, since I'm surgically fixed. 
I know that MA has tried to contact other women for a FMF, but so far nothing, and I do mean nothing. 
I think the first thing that would have to happen before any thing else, is that we have to meet the third first. To see if personalities and attitudes would mix well, and not like oil and water.
As it stands right now, if the FMF does happen, then it does and all would be good, but if it doesn't happen, then so be it and all would be good. Ma and I have a good solid relationship, and the sex between us is often and good. 
|
| November 8, 2006, 14:56 |
|
pepper
56 / female
daytona, Florida, US
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
Warren and I have done both FMF and MFM, now, MFM does NOT have to mean the two men have relations of any sort. In threesomes , it is actually what I prefer, MFM, although...there are couples around here are always welcome for a FMFM....you know who you are!
Now, back to the subject...when we decided we wanted to add a third, we set some rules hard and fast, no deviation whatsoever. When we play it is strictly as a couple, no seeing the other person alone, whether it is male or female (in other words, if it is a male, I do not see him by myself and vice versa if it is a female, for Warren.)
Expectations are set at the outset. Both of us must like the person, if I don't, then it's a no go and same for Warren, no questions asked, if we meet and it doesn't feel right, then there is no going on, part friends. It is also clear that we are not looking for someone to add because of anything we as a couple lack, but because we love sex , period. I like MFM, because I love the feeling of four hands, lips and 2 cocks playing with me  3some .gif"> . Warren has no bisexual tendencies, so it is strictly for me to touch and play with the other man.
I do like FMF, but in all honesty, like the attention from MFM, better so we do tend to do that more often. And it's not something we do every day, week or even month, just once in a while.
by setting our rules and being sure the other party understands them, we have never had a problem, just a helluva lot of FUN!
  
|
| November 8, 2006, 17:14 |
|
GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
A question to the floor... Most guys prefer threesomes to be FMF. Of the ones that don't, prefer not to have contact with the other male. Now, the ones that prefer FMF relationships, have said there is something to another woman giving their signifigant other pleasure. Is there a curiousity in women to see there signifigant other pleasured by another man?
A case in point... I don't remember if it was on this site or the one I came from, but I was propositioned into a threesome . She told me that I could whatever I wanted to her as long as he could give me a happy ending. It began to stir up something in me that I never considered. We as men see nothing wrong with to females getting it on, but most of us are appaulled by ourselves and another guy. Maybe I've been advancing sexually or I'm turning into a free thinker, but I've come to the point where, I see nothing wrong with that. Something to think about... 
|
| November 8, 2006, 19:27 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
I'd really like to hear from single bi females with some of their thoughts on what would attract them to share a romp with a (married) couple??
|
| November 10, 2006, 11:37 |
|
eatkitty
66 / male
minneapolis, Minnesota, US
|
Re: Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
QUOTE (pepper @ November 8, 2006, 17:14)Warren and I have done both FMF and MFM, now, MFM does NOT have to mean the two men have relations of any sort. In threesomes , it is actually what I prefer, MFM, although...there are couples around here are always welcome for a FMFM....you know who you are!
Now, back to the subject...when we decided we wanted to add a third, we set some rules hard and fast, no deviation whatsoever. When we play it is strictly as a couple, no seeing the other person alone, whether it is male or female (in other words, if it is a male, I do not see him by myself and vice versa if it is a female, for Warren.)
Expectations are set at the outset. Both of us must like the person, if I don't, then it's a no go and same for Warren, no questions asked, if we meet and it doesn't feel right, then there is no going on, part friends. It is also clear that we are not looking for someone to add because of anything we as a couple lack, but because we love sex , period. I like MFM, because I love the feeling of four hands, lips and 2 cocks playing with me 3some .gif"> . Warren has no bisexual tendencies, so it is strictly for me to touch and play with the other man.
I do like FMF, but in all honesty, like the attention from MFM, better so we do tend to do that more often. And it's not something we do every day, week or even month, just once in a while.
by setting our rules and being sure the other party understands them, we have never had a problem, just a helluva lot of FUN!
I agree, think 2M's and 1 F is best, she gets to be treated specially. Have done both and enjoy either, but, prefer MFM
3some .gif">
|
| February 17, 2007, 01:15 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
I am from Indiana and can't wait to find a couple or any adults to experience my first 3some with, either mfm, fmf, mmf , maybe even mmm, I am open to exploring new things but having a hard time finding anyone near me in
Indiana.
|
| February 17, 2007, 12:40 |
|
40something
57 / female
In the Sun, Arizona, US
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
I think 3-somes are something that requires a lot of thought if you plan to be a couple afterwards.
|
| February 17, 2007, 18:04 |
|
NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
But I'm a onesome, so I'm pretty safe, can't break up with myself....lol
|
| February 17, 2007, 18:10 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
Never done a 3some but i always say never say never 
Can imagine whether it's mfm or fmf it would be a hot encounter to have.
|
| February 18, 2007, 04:40 |
|
piscesdream
47 / couple
cincinnati, Ohio, US
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
its always been my fantasy to be w/ 2 guys at once, but so far my fiance isnt going for it; and I dont mean that he would do anything w/ another guy. maybe if I just give it some time, it will eventually be a reality. I would only want to do it once, and wouldnt see the guy by myself. just the thought of 2 two guys at once doing stuff to me turns me on soooo much.
|
| February 18, 2007, 06:44 |
|
funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
|
Re: Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
QUOTE (NRG4U @ February 17, 2007, 18:10)But I'm a onesome, so I'm pretty safe, can't break up with myself....lol
Are you sure
|
| February 19, 2007, 13:23 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
I think it works out better with two males and one female, two women could burn one guy out pretty quick, males can bragg all you want, but when the girls are just gettin warmed up and your breathless from to much booze, ciggarets and just in general just out of shape from that of high school, you will not be the life of the party any more 
|
| February 19, 2007, 17:00 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
QUOTE (hothands @ February 19, 2007, 17:00)I think it works out better with two males and one female, two women could burn one guy out pretty quick, males can bragg all you want, but when the girls are just gettin warmed up and your breathless from to much booze, ciggarets and just in general just out of shape from that of high school, you will not be the life of the party any more
oh noo, noo, nooo!!
i want my pussy and want to eat it too!!
2 females and me...i'll let 'em warm up first..with one another if need be...as Forrest Grump once said, "life is like a box....or two"..so take both "boxes" and eat em too!! 
|
| February 20, 2007, 09:53 |
|
funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
|
Re: Re: Re: Give your thoughts on 3-somes
QUOTE (TropiFun @ February 20, 2007, 09:53) QUOTE (hothands @ February 19, 2007, 17:00)I think it works out better with two males and one female, two women could burn one guy out pretty quick, males can bragg all you want, but when the girls are just gettin warmed up and your breathless from to much booze, ciggarets and just in general just out of shape from that of high school, you will not be the life of the party any more
oh noo, noo, nooo!!
i want my pussy and want to eat it too!!
2 females and me...i'll let 'em warm up first..with one another if need be...as Forrest Grump once said, "life is like a box....or two"..so take both "boxes" and eat em too!!
My thoughts exactly......
|
| February 20, 2007, 12:38 |
|
|
