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When someone wants
How do you give someone what they want if they have no fucking idea what it is themselves?
Or better yet, how do you work on a "relationship problem" when the other half only tells you it exist but doesnt explain or even hint in the right direction of what it actually is until MONTHS after the end of things?
Finally what should your reaction be if your "other half" breaks it off for some reason beyond your control and then continuously makes you feel like it was your decision, not theirs, to call it off?
no wonder i hate people in general.  
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| October 21, 2006, 02:20 |
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Re: When someone wants
   Were you dating SYBIL...!!!!
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| October 21, 2006, 07:54 |
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Re: When someone wants
um yeah...not thinking too clearly
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| October 21, 2006, 10:08 |
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Re: When someone wants
When I hit 50.. I took a good look at myself, and I realized that I have'nt done anything noteworthy... relationships, friends , career... I wasted alot of time ,doing what your doing now..my advice.. And not to be disrespectful of anyone.. MOVE THE FUCK ON... OR GET WITH WHATEVER IT IS THAT YOU WANT... Make the adjustments, sacrafices... ONLY YOU KNOW...!!!! This BUD'S for you..!!!
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| October 21, 2006, 10:21 |
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Re: When someone wants
yeah i know.. i'm starting to do the "fuck it, what about mine" thing. big change from who i've always been. but i'm planning an actual move down to missouri which is where i want to be and to completely start fresh... this spring i hope. 
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| October 21, 2006, 10:26 |
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Re: When someone wants
Your a young man ... make your adjustments now... I just moved to Texas, met a nice woman on this site, and said .. What the Hell... Did myself a solid with that decision...!!!!
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| October 21, 2006, 11:18 |
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Re: Re: When someone wants
QUOTE (rchamberlain @ October 21, 2006, 10:21)
exactly. You can't make someone happy. They have to want to be happy, then make their own decisions, sacrifices, ect, to achieve that. It is never only up to one person, but BOTH people.
I have said it before and will say it again, COMMUNICATION is key in everything, if you want something you HAVE to TALK about it.
ok, off of the soapbox
  
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| October 21, 2006, 11:34 |
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Re: Re: When someone wants
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ October 21, 2006, 10:26)yeah i know.. i'm starting to do the "fuck it, what about mine" thing. big change from who i've always been. but i'm planning an actual move down to missouri which is where i want to be and to completely start fresh... this spring i hope.
Why Missouri? family, work, thats a big move if you have no plans once you get there.
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| October 21, 2006, 14:29 |
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QUOTE (hothands @ October 21, 2006, 14:29) QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ October 21, 2006, 10:26)yeah i know.. i'm starting to do the "fuck it, what about mine" thing. big change from who i've always been. but i'm planning an actual move down to missouri which is where i want to be and to completely start fresh... this spring i hope.
Why Missouri? family, work, thats a big move if you have no plans once you get there.
there is absolutely nothing there for me. that's basically why. i love the "build up" process. once i get the good job/good money and the new car and house etc with no dept i just get extremely bored. Missouri is far enough away to be AWAY.. yet still only 6 hours from home(family). plus it seems to be a lot like here with a little better weather. 
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| October 21, 2006, 17:58 |
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Re: Re: When someone wants
QUOTE (rchamberlain @ October 21, 2006, 07:54)
lmfao
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| October 21, 2006, 18:01 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: When someone wants
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ October 21, 2006, 17:58) QUOTE (hothands @ October 21, 2006, 14:29) QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ October 21, 2006, 10:26)yeah i know.. i'm starting to do the "fuck it, what about mine" thing. big change from who i've always been. but i'm planning an actual move down to missouri which is where i want to be and to completely start fresh... this spring i hope.
Why Missouri? family, work, thats a big move if you have no plans once you get there.
there is absolutely nothing there for me. that's basically why. i love the "build up" process. once i get the good job/good money and the new car and house etc with no dept i just get extremely bored. Missouri is far enough away to be AWAY.. yet still only 6 hours from home(family). plus it seems to be a lot like here with a little better weather.
If I went to Missouri, I would want to live right next door to Chazzy,,, 
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| October 21, 2006, 22:55 |
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Re: When someone wants
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ October 21, 2006, 02:20)How do you give someone what they want if they have no fucking idea what it is themselves?
Or better yet, how do you work on a "relationship problem" when the other half only tells you it exist but doesnt explain or even hint in the right direction of what it actually is until MONTHS after the end of things?
Finally what should your reaction be if your "other half" breaks it off for some reason beyond your control and then continuously makes you feel like it was your decision, not theirs, to call it off?
no wonder i hate people in general.
rhyun still goes through this with his ex-wife. (they have been divorced for almost 6 years) when she brings up these things (saying it was his choice that they get a divorce even though SHE brought it up) he always tells her, "whatever story you tell yourself so you can sleep better at night is fine with me."
leeuh 
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