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Mixed signals...
So...men....if a woman smiles at you, briefly makes eye contact, asks you to check your watch for the correct time, or just makes some general chit chat with you in a waiting line or lobby...do you automatically see this as a flirtation, a come-on, or a "first move"?
Women....is just being friendly to a stranger just what it is, just a part of your friendly nature, or do you only make first contact with someone you are "hot for"?
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| October 17, 2006, 14:37 |
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Re: Mixed signals...
why does she have to make eye contact and smile at me just to ask what time it is? of course I would take that as only a mini flirt because they usually want something, information, directions, change etc. Or maybe they are wondering why your not gawking at them first? In any case thats what makes the world go-round and it is certainly fine by me, I do not wait for a woman to start talking if she makes eye contact with me I will say Good morning and start the conversation first,maybe thats why I never get to far???
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| October 17, 2006, 15:31 |
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Re: Mixed signals...
What if a woman just walks up and politely with a smile, asks if you would mind checking your watch and give her the time? Do you assume she wants to make a flirt connect with you, or do you assume she just needs to know the time?
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| October 17, 2006, 15:50 |
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Re: Re: Mixed signals...
QUOTE (Chazzy @ October 17, 2006, 15:50)What if a woman just walks up and politely with a smile, asks if you would mind checking your watch and give her the time? Do you assume she wants to make a flirt connect with you, or do you assume she just needs to know the time?
Common Chazzy,,,At my age I know they just want the time,,, once at home depot a hot woman in her thirties asked me what time it was and I told her I did not have a watch, but I know this nice starbucks coffee shop not to far from here,,,,? I'll buy ya a coffee and we can see what time it is. she said no thanks I just need to pick my kids up after school, but thanks anyway, so I pulled out my cell phone and showed her the time,,she laughed and said You guys are all the same.
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| October 17, 2006, 16:16 |
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Re: Mixed signals...
Hey Chazzy, I'm wondering if you might be so kind as to tell me what time it is?
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| October 17, 2006, 16:46 |
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Tungmeister
69 / male
Miller Beach, Indiana, US
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Re: Mixed signals...
I never assume anything. Pretty much have to hit me over the head anymore. Would prefer just to have a lady come out with something a little more obvious. Not necessarily flat out "wanna f**k?" But something more than just making me wonder if I should test the waters a little further or not. Used to be more adventurous and romantic - now don't really want to play the games.
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| October 17, 2006, 16:54 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: Mixed signals...
If she ask for the time, the safe thing to do is keep hold of your wallet & back up to a wall, lol Normally I just assume they're just being friendly, making conversation. For me to notice they're flirting with me, they need to be a little more blunt than asking for the time.
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| October 17, 2006, 17:26 |
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Re: Mixed signals...
only way i notice is if her first come on is a plank to my head with the words "i want you" painted on it. otherwise i just write it off as her being personable.
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| October 17, 2006, 19:07 |
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Re: Re: Mixed signals...
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ October 17, 2006, 19:07)only way i notice is if her first come on is a plank to my head with the words "i want you" painted on it. otherwise i just write it off as her being personable.
Thats probably cus you are getting to much Pussy already and are not realy looking, searching or hoping.
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| October 17, 2006, 19:10 |
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QUOTE (hothands @ October 17, 2006, 19:10) QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ October 17, 2006, 19:07)only way i notice is if her first come on is a plank to my head with the words "i want you" painted on it. otherwise i just write it off as her being personable.
Thats probably cus you are getting to much Pussy already and are not realy looking, searching or hoping.
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| October 17, 2006, 19:13 |
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Re: Mixed signals...
Seee! I knew it!
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| October 17, 2006, 19:30 |
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pepper
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daytona, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Mixed signals...
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ October 17, 2006, 19:07)only way i notice is if her first come on is a plank to my head with the words "i want you" painted on it. otherwise i just write it off as her being personable.
ah, well, guess I need a bigger board... 
HH, I'l take ya up on the cup of coffee anytime anyplace!
  
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| October 18, 2006, 05:28 |
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KINKYINTHEFALLS
56 / male
wild and wonderful, West Virginia, US
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QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ October 17, 2006, 19:07)only way i notice is if her first come on is a plank to my head with the words "i want you" painted on it. otherwise i just write it off as her being personable.
Yeah I'm the same way I just wish they'd stop with the second one that says "Thanks for a great evening" on their way out.
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| October 18, 2006, 13:18 |
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QUOTE (pepper @ October 18, 2006, 05:28)
Thank you Pepper you are such a hottie, I got one hand on my suit case and plane ticket to Daytona and the other hand has the car keys and front door knob,,,,the only thing stopping me is that when I got back home she would know something was up by the smile on my face and the big bulge in my pants(reminiscing about you Pepper  3some .gif"> ) Gawd Pepper,,why do you have to live so far away????
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| October 18, 2006, 14:01 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Mixed signals...
This whole time thingy is really confusing to me?... I once had a woman ask me for the time, and when I told her, she said it was almost time for me to throw her down on the ground and fuck the living shit out of her. When I got up from my stool, she ran away. I figured she was just making a statement, and not being flirtaious, but maybe I was wrong?... 
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| October 18, 2006, 14:27 |
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QUOTE (GentleGiant388 @ October 18, 2006, 14:27)This whole time thingy is really confusing to me?... I once had a woman ask me for the time, and when I told her, she said it was almost time for me to throw her down on the ground and fuck the living shit out of her. When I got up from my stool, she ran away. I figured she was just making a statement, and not being flirtaious, but maybe I was wrong?...
Well..my....that would be very confusing...about as mixed up as any signal can get!
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