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dave2big
81 / male
somewhere, Nebraska, US
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naughty notes
well, here i go, it seems as though all i do here is complain. sure dont mean to criticize anybody in particular though. as a free member, i have fewer areas that i can explore . i have sent LOTS of the naughty notes about wanting to chat, but mostly get notes back saying " i am a free member, so i cant contact you". doesnt everbody know that the chat rooms are free too ??i am sure i am not everyones cup of tea, but am i asking too much to at least be told that " sorry, you are not what i am looking for at this time"? anyway, does anyone else have thoughts about this? am i being a whiner, or are other folks having the same troubles hooking up? thanks for whatever input i receive.......
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| October 9, 2006, 12:13 |
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Re: naughty notes
Some may just be shy when it comes to popping into the chatroom for the first time, or when they don't see anyone familiar in the "chatting now" box.
Understandable...it's just like entering a room full of strangers, and you're not sure why they have assembled and gathered there.
The forums can be a good bridge for just that. The more people see you in the forums, read your activity, the more they are going to feel like they know you already, and kinda know if there are any common grounds or common interest they are comforatable with.
All anyone can do, is keep at it... some people need a little more encouragement and yep, some it won't matter how much encouragement they get, they have their own comfort level...
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| October 9, 2006, 12:29 |
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