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What happens next
You start as friends, worked kinda....
You move onto giving a real relationship a try, fails miserably.....
End up friends with benefits , except the friends thing only marginally worked to start with...
then the benefits disappear...
is it exit stage left??
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| October 1, 2006, 13:20 |
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Re: What happens next
I dont think you have to leave a friendship for whatever reason. It's good to know more people in life and given, you might not get to see them often as maybe would like, but you certainly don't have to call it quits is just my theory. Especially if you been through all that and you're both still getting along and have some sort of understanding of whats going on?? Hope it works for you.
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| October 1, 2006, 13:37 |
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RebelRoka67
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Wagga Wagga, New South Wales, Australia
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Re: What happens next
Sorry bc. but I dissagree.
I feel if the friendship started fine, then progressed to f with b but the friendship wasnt as tight as b4, the friebdship is only gunna get worse.
I say; stay as friends jus to c how it pans out, n if there seems to be tension......ditch the friendship .
Having said that, I spose it depends on how the friendship is failing too
Good luck mate 
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| October 1, 2006, 13:57 |
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Re: What happens next
just not that many common interests beyond x-rated
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| October 1, 2006, 14:12 |
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lizonya
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lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: What happens next
it's over! 
btw - great new pic bc 
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| October 1, 2006, 19:02 |
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could i please have this one deleted. 
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| October 2, 2006, 00:18 |
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Re: What happens next
Why?
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| October 2, 2006, 00:19 |
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Re: What happens next
If you are looking for a lasting relationship - some common interests outside the bedroom tend to help - and you REALLY need a strong friendship to hold it all together!!
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| October 2, 2006, 00:21 |
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Re: Re: What happens next
QUOTE (CKTC @ October 2, 2006, 00:21)If you are looking for a lasting relationship - some common interests outside the bedroom tend to help - and you REALLY need a strong friendship to hold it all together!!
I agree...Besides the bedroom, what do you have? Are you happy and excited to be with this person or was it just a Physical thing? Do you care about her dreams and passions?
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| October 2, 2006, 00:24 |
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Tungmeister
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Miller Beach, Indiana, US
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Re: What happens next
The book of your life is made up of chapters. As it's author, you can write any of the characters out of the story at any time (except yourself) and begin a new chapter with new characters who will help you take your story in a whole new direction. There's no reason that the new chapter won't be much more exciting and fulfilling than the one(s) previously, especially if you've learned something from them. The best part of most books is the last chapter. That's where everything falls into place, comes satisfyingly together and makes sense.
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| October 2, 2006, 01:15 |
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Re: What happens next
Sometimes it is, and sometimes it isn't, I have been in those shoes, where a year later or longer they are calling me wanting to return into my life, and not just one or two. It's happened to me on several occasions where you think you will never hear from them again and you do. There are those where after this amount of time, you become just very good friends with them better than your initial relationship with them, and then there are others that you wish never made contact with you again. There is no solid answer to this.
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ October 1, 2006, 13:20)You start as friends, worked kinda....
You move onto giving a real relationship a try, fails miserably.....
End up friends with benefits , except the friends thing only marginally worked to start with...
then the benefits disappear...
is it exit stage left??
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| October 3, 2006, 08:25 |
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Re: What happens next
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in
all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant .
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