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WHO TO TURN TO
Who or what do you rely on when things go wrong?
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September 29, 2006, 12:23 |
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Re: WHO TO TURN TO
A friend!!!
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September 29, 2006, 14:32 |
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GG317
60 / male Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Being that my middle name is, "Murphy's Law"...Nobody. The buck stops here...
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September 29, 2006, 18:35 |
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nykitten
54 / female Pawling, New York, US
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I am fortunate to have a few really good friends that I have and always will turn to.......
Other than that, I rely mainly on myself!......I have learned that lesson just recently, and strongly believe that what won't kill you, will only make you stronger!....
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September 29, 2006, 18:46 |
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My BEST friend.. BUD WEISER... !!!
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September 29, 2006, 18:48 |
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my key rack. never come across anything yet that a leisurely cruise or just plain tearing it up cant sort out. that's why i own more motors than pairs of pants. LMAO
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September 29, 2006, 18:52 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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I have Pa he is always there when needed.
Ma
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September 29, 2006, 20:15 |
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NRG4U
63 / male Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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When I wound up in a burn center after getting caught in a tractor explosion, hoping the doctors there, could somehow get some skin back on me, without making me look like some scarred up freak that would make anyone who saw me lose their lunch, & being at the very lowest point in my life, when I could have used some support, That was when my ex wife chose to end our marriage, thinking that I would be scarred, & hideous looking, thus causing our friends to stop coming over or inviting us for a get together . That taught me to NEVER count on anyone. If someone chooses to stop & offer their help or support, I'm thankful for it. But I will never count on it again, cuz when it doesn't show it leaves you with hurt, dissappointment. A lasting impression non the less.
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September 29, 2006, 20:37 |
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I lean on me! I have close close friends who are more than willing to listen to me and I am so grateful for that, they offer their help day or night....but...I very rarely ever take advantage of those generous offers. They too have lives and families and I feel guilty accepting those offers. And as for nyk's old saying..."if it don't kill ya...it'll make you stronger" I can truly say it almost did...so maybe I'm stronger than I thought.
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September 29, 2006, 23:58 |
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GOD!!!
M Lev..
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September 30, 2006, 00:04 |
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Re: Re: WHO TO TURN TO
QUOTE (Leviathan4u @ September 30, 2006, 00:04)GOD!!!
M Lev..
With the life style you lead? Please!
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September 30, 2006, 00:12 |
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lizonya
64 / couple lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: WHO TO TURN TO
family, friends and faith...
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September 30, 2006, 13:52 |
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My turnind days are over,,,Face the ones who hurt you. Acknowledge and defeet the things that upset you. Love and Cherish all the ones who are dear to you.
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September 30, 2006, 15:07 |
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Re: WHO TO TURN TO
I'm never sure who to turn to, but my real friends know when I need somebody and they're there , that's when you find out who they are
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September 30, 2006, 18:54 |
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Tungmeister
69 / male Miller Beach, Indiana, US
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Asking anyone for help leaves a bad taste in my mouth, would make me feel like I failed somehow. I look inward and examine where I'm at and what my options are. Somehow I find an answer and a way through whatever it is. It's great to have friends, family and moral support, but it boils down to being self reliant as the only one you really know completely is yourself. That way, if you fail, you only have yourself to blame and then give yourself a good swift kick in the ass and move on!
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September 30, 2006, 19:25 |
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sometimes when I'm really down I turn to Benjamin Franklin, otherwise its usually Andrew Jackson or Ulyssis S. Grant
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September 30, 2006, 20:10 |
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40something
57 / female In the Sun, Arizona, US
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I turn to my best friend, he has been my best friend for over 20 years, and wow! now he is the man I love, amazing how it works out that way.
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September 30, 2006, 20:25 |
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The ones I know that will tell me the truth whether I want to hear it or not. *sometimes I already know the answers deep down, but at times just need to hear it from someone else*
Also, my son, because whether he understands the situation or not, he always tells me it'll be okay and wants to do something to make me smile again. (Which doesn't take much for him to do)
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September 30, 2006, 22:47 |
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RebelRoka67
57 / male Wagga Wagga, New South Wales, Australia
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QUOTE (4deyez @ September 29, 2006, 12:23)Who or what do you rely on when things go wrong?
Well all me local friends r either married n have family worries or tsome have simply left town for whatever reason, so I rely on meself n kill ALOT of time on the net.
So I dont have worries really
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September 30, 2006, 23:23 |
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