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LOVE???
Hello all.....so can U all tell me....how do U know that U R "IN LOVE" and that its not "just love?"....sizzzz kisses Slutprincess 
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| September 25, 2006, 20:35 |
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Re: LOVE???
Hell.. At 50 I'm still asking the same ?... and I've been married twice, so I guess I don't know... !!! But it seems to be for me, that I just feel good about everything all the time... !!! probably don't help much, but that's all I got... sorry... !!!   
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| September 25, 2006, 20:48 |
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Re: LOVE???
to love yourself first then you can love another 
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| September 25, 2006, 20:51 |
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40something
57 / female
In the Sun, Arizona, US
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Re: LOVE???
"In Love" has a lot of pieces together.
1. You are happy with the other person, but you aren't blind to their faults
2. You want to make them happy more than you want them to make you happy
3 You take the time to listen even when they have made the mistake of hurting you instead of just hurting back because you know they didn't mean it
4. You don't want to just go out and spend the night together, you want to wake up together
5. You want to sit quietly together and not just talk about your day
6. They are the one person you turn to --- when your day was fantastic, or when your day was awful.
7. You want to share your success and your failures with them.
In short they are the one that completes you.
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| September 25, 2006, 21:14 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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When they don't walk out the door after a explosion leaves you in a burn center, cuz she thinks you're gonna look like a scarred up freak
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| September 25, 2006, 21:20 |
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Love is never having to say your sorry
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| September 26, 2006, 09:14 |
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QUOTE (DEye @ September 26, 2006, 09:14)Love is never having to say your sorry
Didnt you mean,,never having to say your horny?? 
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| September 26, 2006, 12:00 |
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Love is never jealous. Love helps bring two people together as one despite your differences. Love never fails. People give up on love and sometimes think the grass is greener on the other side.
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| September 26, 2006, 12:15 |
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Hey 40 something - 
Of course for me and wife #2, it started out like that and now her openness has retrograded.
SP - I love that profile!!!!
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| September 27, 2006, 00:24 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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As 40 something said they are the person that completes you. It is a feeling you just can put into words. you are happy, content, and so many other things. you don't have to go anywhere do anything just being together is enough.
Ma
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| September 28, 2006, 15:57 |
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lizonya
64 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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been married & divorced 3 times. can't trust my own judgement at this point. however, when it seems like devine intervention of sorts i would have to say it'slove. after my 3rd divorce, i swore off on any idea of a relationship. until i got a phone call from my old high school sweety that i hadn't heard from in 28 years. he never forgot about me and never married. after courting on the phone for 3 months, we fell "in love" and it was real and deep. when we got together everything just clicked like magic. now that's what i call sparks!
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| September 28, 2006, 19:24 |
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QUOTE (hothands @ September 26, 2006, 12:00) QUOTE (DEye @ September 26, 2006, 09:14)Love is never having to say your sorry
Didnt you mean,,never having to say your horny??
same difference??? and just to be on topic for a change... um... i dont really believe in "IN LOVE". just "IN LUST" with a very good friend, the lust part will always fade I think.
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| September 28, 2006, 21:14 |
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pepper
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daytona, Florida, US
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QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ September 28, 2006, 21:14) QUOTE (hothands @ September 26, 2006, 12:00) QUOTE (DEye @ September 26, 2006, 09:14)Love is never having to say your sorry
Didnt you mean,,never having to say your horny??
same difference??? and just to be on topic for a change... um... i dont really believe in "IN LOVE". just "IN LUST" with a very good friend, the lust part will always fade I think.
Hasn't yet!
and no, it is not same difference. When you meet 'em, boyo, you'll KNOW! 
  
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| September 28, 2006, 22:10 |
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Wouldn't know what to do with it if it happened. I'd probably run.
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| September 28, 2006, 23:04 |
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Okay, might be putting myself in a big hole now saying this, but I got the thinking and just wanted to point it out.
First off, (no offense to those that says this) Love to people mean different things. One may say, I love my home, another will say, I love my job, I love my car, I love my life, etc etc etc. Then I got the thinking theres some on here that will often say something along the line of "you'll know it's 'love' instantly" when you bump into it like love at first sight, etc. Some of that may have happened to you and some haven't yet. For those that it hasn't happened to, hopes for it. (yeah, who wouldnt want to be in love or wants to love, etc??) But then you gotta remember, it doesnt work the same for everyone. Some (even stories I been told) has known each other since maybe elementary and didn't 'love' them till 20-30 years down the road. You could know someone for awhile and not know it until its gone maybe and sometimes you can do something about it and sometimes you can't. Then again, back to it being 'love at first sight'... basically, it doesn't happen to everyone. Look at Sharon and Ozzy Osbourne. Goodness sakes, he tried to kill her way back when!! and they're still together with 3 great children and have gone through a lot of obstacles. Some people may have it all lovey dovey, and some people have it rough.
Just wanted to basically point out that some of the people in life will go through things differently because if it all happened the same, what kind of world are we living in? Everybody would've had someone to 'be with' already if it happened to everyone with love at first sight. Where's the excitement in that?
Sure, I wouldnt mind somehow bumping into some handsome feller who could sweep me off my feet but that's too easy to think of. Anyways, it has nothing to do with me, or anyone else on here, just simply thinking that people on here thinks and tells you that you'll know it instantly when... no, some wont, and that's okay.
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| September 29, 2006, 07:48 |
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pepper
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daytona, Florida, US
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QUOTE (bikerchick69 @ September 29, 2006, 07:48)Okay, might be putting myself in a big hole now saying this, but I got the thinking and just wanted to point it out.
First off, (no offense to those that says this) Love to people mean different things. One may say, I love my home, another will say, I love my job, I love my car, I love my life, etc etc etc. Then I got the thinking theres some on here that will often say something along the line of "you'll know it's 'love' instantly" when you bump into it like love at first sight, etc. Some of that may have happened to you and some haven't yet. For those that it hasn't happened to, hopes for it. (yeah, who wouldnt want to be in love or wants to love, etc??) But then you gotta remember, it doesnt work the same for everyone. Some (even stories I been told) has known each other since maybe elementary and didn't 'love' them till 20-30 years down the road. You could know someone for awhile and not know it until its gone maybe and sometimes you can do something about it and sometimes you can't. Then again, back to it being 'love at first sight'... basically, it doesn't happen to everyone. Look at Sharon and Ozzy Osbourne. Goodness sakes, he tried to kill her way back when!! and they're still together with 3 great children and have gone through a lot of obstacles. Some people may have it all lovey dovey, and some people have it rough.
Just wanted to basically point out that some of the people in life will go through things differently because if it all happened the same, what kind of world are we living in? Everybody would've had someone to 'be with' already if it happened to everyone with love at first sight. Where's the excitement in that?
Sure, I wouldnt mind somehow bumping into some handsome feller who could sweep me off my feet but that's too easy to think of. Anyways, it has nothing to do with me, or anyone else on here, just simply thinking that people on here thinks and tells you that you'll know it instantly when... no, some wont, and that's okay.
EXACTLY, BC!
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| September 29, 2006, 22:20 |
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Love is being willing to open yourself and your heart for lonely nites, little conversation and much much pain. Sure there are good times but the fairy tale dreams are just that...dreams. Some are sweet and peaceful...most are nightmares.
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| September 29, 2006, 23:47 |
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lizonya
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lake elsinore, California, US
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QUOTE (lizonya @ September 28, 2006, 19:24)been married & divorced 3 times. can't trust my own judgement at this point. however, when it seems like devine intervention of sorts i would have to say it'slove. after my 3rd divorce, i swore off on any idea of a relationship. until i got a phone call from my old high school sweety that i hadn't heard from in 28 years. he never forgot about me and never married. after courting on the phone for 3 months, we fell "in love" and it was real and deep. when we got together everything just clicked like magic. now that's what i call sparks!
to "real" things up for you - it didn't have a happy ending. just as we were making plans we got sideswiped with my news of cancer. after being happily together exactly one year, to find out that i have stage 4 ovarian cancer...well, to put it mildly, put a damper on our plans. he is the real thing, because he is not only financially supportive but mentally as well. if it weren't for him i doubt i would have done as favorable as i have been. i'm fighting like hell for him. how fair would it be for god to bring us together after 28 years and give us one year of bliss only to have me die on him? not fair and i refuse to do it!
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| September 30, 2006, 00:00 |
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I'm old fashion and don't dispute all that has been said before but, we all look for that magical connection that just says that no matter what happens, I will always be attached to this person and he or she will always be there for me come hell or high water...We are hardwired that way. Finding that person is the difficulty. No rules, no standards, no criterias...You Just know!
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| September 30, 2006, 00:42 |
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"LOVE STINKS"...J.Geils..!!!! 
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| September 30, 2006, 05:22 |
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There is nothing magical about love, it is just a state of mind that exist when you find the right person. The hardest part is getting to know and except yourself, before you can find someone else, which is called the state of confussion, once you have conquered that, you will just be with a different person ,then it starts all over again,,
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| September 30, 2006, 15:28 |
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Whether it be in "In love" or "just love", the first and foremost key is communication....IF it's pertaining to an individual.
"In love" or "just love" has endless meanings depending
on the relationship one is having with the person along with their feelings and emotions; personality traits and characteristics; and what you have in common.
"Just love" takes on other forms NOT having to do with a person, whether it be an object, place or thing.
To put it in a nutshell, the insert below says it all.
Love is patient; love is kind
and envies no one.
Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude;
never selfish, not quick to take offense.
There is nothing love cannot face;
there is no limit to its faith,
its hope, and endurance.
In a word, there are three things
that last forever: faith, hope, and love;
but the greatest of them all is love.
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| September 30, 2006, 17:40 |
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You're right on that Tica, although if I read it right.. theres something I think is missing and from what I've learned through a friend is that once you get past the communication which trust would come along and for some people who doesnt 'love' at first sight, some eventually it would happen to and some it wouldn't. Overall, trust has a lot to do with it just as well as the other two.
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