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My Ethics for a trapped and betrayed spouse, What are yours?
If someone that you know well enough to believe in, shows you that they love you, let them into your heart with open arms. It is far more nourishing to the heart, the mind and soul to be truly loved by a stranger, than to be set aside by the one who is suppose to love and nourish you.
Marriage is a contract between two people. Infidelity and abandonment are no different than putting your spouse aside for work, play or other personal vices: TV, hobbies, drugs, gambling etc. and are surely a breach of contract.
Sometimes contracts are not so easy to rectify, and the resolve could take many years. Do not become a slut , whore, gigolo or a heathen. But do be too moral or you will miss out on much that life has to offer you.
And do not under any circumstances allow yourself to become stagnant to life, keep your heart and body healthy and young, for your heart, mind and body are gifts from God given to you to enjoy, to Cherish, and to share with ones who truly love you.
Remember, It is better to have and to share yourself with someone who loves YOU, than to share your self with someone you once admired, who now but puts you aside UN-nourished and makes love to you only at their convenience.
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| September 15, 2006, 21:27 |
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Re: My Ethics for a trapped and betrayed spouse, What are yours?
well this might be off topic but someone once told me that a man must marry first for love and the 2nd time for money...
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| September 16, 2006, 11:45 |
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Re: My Ethics for a trapped and betrayed spouse, What are yours?
I heard it a little different
first time is for sex, second for money, third for love.
Im working on my third, but I cant find anyone that we both mutually appeal to each other, and all the things you never thought of seen to work against each other, jobs, where you live, children, inlaws, retirement factors Oh and gravity seems to play a big factor for some after the age of fifty,,
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| September 16, 2006, 11:56 |
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PleasantNight
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Boston, Massachusetts, US
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Re: My Ethics for a trapped and betrayed spouse, What are yours?
You guys have a different book than I read. Mine was marry for money and cheat for sex.
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| September 16, 2006, 12:03 |
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Re: My Ethics for a trapped and betrayed spouse, What are yours?
well Pleasant, that would also work i guess 
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| September 16, 2006, 12:06 |
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Re: Re: My Ethics for a trapped and betrayed spouse, What are yours?
QUOTE (PleasantNight @ September 16, 2006, 12:03)You guys have a different book than I read. Mine was marry for money and cheat for sex.
for some reason I believe you mean that, but I would be glad to be either of your recipients
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| September 17, 2006, 02:45 |
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NRG4U
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Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: My Ethics for a trapped and betrayed spouse, What are yours?
Since I'm single & sadly looks as though it's gonna stay that way for a while yet, I have no room to set any rules
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| September 17, 2006, 16:10 |
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Re: Re: My Ethics for a trapped and betrayed spouse, What are yours?
QUOTE (NRG4U @ September 17, 2006, 16:10)Since I'm single & sadly looks as though it's gonna stay that way for a while yet, I have no room to set any rules
Not realy a set of rules, just what I was thinking about one day and a woman connected to it,,,sometimes I just talk too much I guess,,,
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| September 17, 2006, 16:15 |
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