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Love and Libido
Is monogamy easy if you find the "right" person and fall in love, or is being faithful just a difficult commitment for some?
Are there natural, undeniable forces that make a person a monogamous person? Can someone with a monster of a libido be happy as a monogamous being if they find the right partner?
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| September 13, 2006, 04:36 |
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I think I could be monogamous if I found the right woman. I had strayed a few times and my wife had not discovered. If she would have been more obliging sexually I never would have strayed. I have found some wonderful women here at WN but they are all far away from me. Several have said that they would not have sex with me because of my marriage. Is chatting with other women and doing cyber sex with them considered as being unfaithful?
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| September 13, 2006, 12:32 |
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i have found other things easier to do in life
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| September 13, 2006, 15:56 |
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thepeachotc
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san diego, California, US
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DAMN!!!!!! Love the new pics Chaz.
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| September 14, 2006, 00:38 |
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Monogamy is a really huge discussion... I think that people change in a relationship, and that change has to do with the couple's experiences as time passes. The only thing I can say for sure, is that men and women in a couple will always be tempted at some point in the relationship by someone "else". Whether they will do something or not has to do with the moral values of each person, the respect and the conception of "infidelity" in each one. That is why some think that cheating is no big deal, it's just sex , and then there are others that consider even flirting as infidelity. And there is always the other issue of couples that get married very young and have children right away... but that's a whole different story.
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| September 14, 2006, 02:55 |
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call me old fashion i reckon it is if u cyber a other being then u got all good reason to stray from u love one sure if yours have a open married life then yeah but if u dont and go be hound some one back and do it and that then it wrong
cyber mucking around lead to the real thing in real life so that's why ppl stray and cheat
on there other half
hey that's me and my 5 cents worth
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| September 14, 2006, 03:06 |
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okay time for my 2 cents worth.... (i apologize in advance for any misspellings etc...) 
i am lucky enough to have found ryan. he does everything for me. when he touches me, (sexual or not)i can feel the love he has for me in his touch. when he looks at me i can see it. there is no part of my life that i feel the slightest bit unfulfilled in. i have no need to look elsewhere to find "something" that i am not getting from him. when him and i first got together, i never knew it would turn out like it has. but i am glad that it has. 
people say that things change when you have a child. they do, to a certain extent. but we have been able to adjust just fine. i told ryan the other day that we used to stay up all night long to have sex all over the house. but now, we sleep all night so we can have "nap time" sex all over the house. (lol) 
-leeuh 
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| September 14, 2006, 09:12 |
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it is really nice when you find someone special
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