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Dropping hints...
Does your partner(s) know instantly when you're in the mood to "get to it"? Is there a certain look you give 'em, a certain smile, a certain caress or touch?
Does you partner give you any subtle horny hints...like being nicer than usual, wearing a specific scent or fragrance that you like, anything like that at all?
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| September 6, 2006, 07:34 |
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Re: Dropping hints...
I have a certain look that I use that my wife immediately knows means that I want to get it on in bed. It does me no good though. She tells me that I am too old for sex and besides she is too tired.
She does nothing except to reach into my pajamas for my cock while I am sleeping. She does this at least once a year if I am lucky.
I have not picked up on anything from any other women yet.
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| September 6, 2006, 10:58 |
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PleasantNight
50 / female
Boston, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Dropping hints...
When I want some, I generally just wait naked in the kitchen for my partner to arrive. It is kind of hard to mistake the message when it is delivered this way.
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| September 6, 2006, 13:13 |
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Re: Re: Dropping hints...
QUOTE (PleasantNight @ September 6, 2006, 13:13)When I want some, I generally just wait naked in the kitchen for my partner to arrive. It is kind of hard to mistake the message when it is delivered this way.
That is a very obvious sign. Any normal man would easily recognize this as a sure message that sex is to be experienced. What do you do when you are fully clothed and say in a restaurant and you have the desire. What sign do you give him that tells him that sex is to be had?
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| September 6, 2006, 13:19 |
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PleasantNight
50 / female
Boston, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Dropping hints...
I have always been one for straightforwardness. When my partner and I are in a restaurant and I am feeling "The Need", I tend to just say something demure and shy, like, "Take me home and bang my brains out on the kitchen table."
It usually works, although if the Scallops or Lobster has not yet arrived, we usually do wait to get a doggy bag.
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| September 6, 2006, 13:22 |
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Re: Re: Dropping hints...
QUOTE (PleasantNight @ September 6, 2006, 13:22)I have always been one for straightforwardness. When my partner and I are in a restaurant and I am feeling "The Need", I tend to just say something demure and shy, like, "Take me home and bang my brains out on the kitchen table."
It usually works, although if the Scallops or Lobster has not yet arrived, we usually do wait to get a doggy bag.
I like your approach. Straight to the point with no holding back. My wife doesn't even say a thing if we are home alone. When we were young she would not initiate anything unless I was asleep. There were times when I would nap on the sofa and within about 15 minutes after I was sleeping she would get naked and put her nipples to my mouth while stroking my cock through my pants. Now I am lucky if I see her naked. She won't have sex while it is light out or if the lights are on. The room has to be pitch dark. I like to look into my sex partner 's eyes and face during the action and I also like to see her pussy and nipples.
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| September 6, 2006, 13:35 |
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PleasantNight
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Boston, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Dropping hints...
You should make a point of telling her in a different way each day how much you like her body and how pretty you think she is. You should remind her of the 'good times' when you were younger. It sounds to me, as if she feels that your bodies are no longer attractive, you can only overcome this with repeated positive reassurance.
Or come to boston...
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| September 6, 2006, 13:40 |
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Re: Re: Dropping hints...
QUOTE (PleasantNight @ September 6, 2006, 13:40)You should make a point of telling her in a different way each day how much you like her body and how pretty you think she is. You should remind her of the 'good times' when you were younger. It sounds to me, as if she feels that your bodies are no longer attractive, you can only overcome this with repeated positive reassurance.
Or come to boston...
I would love to go to Boston some day.
My wife figures that I am too old to be having sex and whenever I try to initiate anything she turns me off every time. The one and only time last year that she initiated by disturbing my sleep I got up from the bed and turned on the overhead light. She would not uncover herself from the bed sheets unless I put the lights out. She has gained weight over the years but I have seen her naked other times while getting dressed in the morning and she does not object to it then. I am perplexed by all this. I don't understand why the sex act has to be only when she wants it [once a year] and why the room must be dark. It is not easy eating pussy in the dark. I like to see what I am eating. Sorry for venting my frustrations out on you all.
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| September 6, 2006, 13:50 |
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Re: Re: Re: Dropping hints...
QUOTE (nineforu @ September 6, 2006, 13:35) QUOTE (PleasantNight @ September 6, 2006, 13:22)I have always been one for straightforwardness. When my partner and I are in a restaurant and I am feeling "The Need", I tend to just say something demure and shy, like, "Take me home and bang my brains out on the kitchen table."
It usually works, although if the Scallops or Lobster has not yet arrived, we usually do wait to get a doggy bag.
I like your approach. Straight to the point with no holding back. My wife doesn't even say a thing if we are home alone. When we were young she would not initiate anything unless I was asleep. There were times when I would nap on the sofa and within about 15 minutes after I was sleeping she would get naked and put her nipples to my mouth while stroking my cock through my pants. Now I am lucky if I see her naked. She won't have sex while it is light out or if the lights are on. The room has to be pitch dark. I like to look into my sex partner 's eyes and face during the action and I also like to see her pussy and nipples.
That putting the nipples in mouth part and stroking cock... I should try that sometime to someone. 
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| September 6, 2006, 14:12 |
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PleasantNight
50 / female
Boston, Massachusetts, US
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There is always the reaching into my girlfriend's blouse and grabbing her right boob. Sometimes that works as a good hint that she had better get busy getting busy.
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| September 6, 2006, 14:14 |
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Re: Re: Dropping hints...
QUOTE (PleasantNight @ September 6, 2006, 13:13)When I want some, I generally just wait naked in the kitchen for my partner to arrive. It is kind of hard to mistake the message when it is delivered this way.
What did you say your address was????????? 
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| September 6, 2006, 14:52 |
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Re: Dropping hints...
Either just whip it out or tell her to get on it...who says romance is dead...lol
M Lev...
 
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| September 6, 2006, 17:49 |
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Re: Dropping hints...
all we have to do is give a look and say - "ya ready?"
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| September 7, 2006, 01:06 |
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funlovingpair
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QUOTE (CKTC @ September 7, 2006, 01:06)all we have to do is give a look and say - "ya ready?"
Works for me.. 
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| September 7, 2006, 01:49 |
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Re: Dropping hints...
the race to the bedroom follows!!
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| September 7, 2006, 02:04 |
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Re: Dropping hints...
I'll agree with all these direct approaches, but I also like the seduction process. If it's a relationship, sure you know you'll get it eventually, but I think that flirting is the best way to heat things up, build up the anticipation.
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| September 7, 2006, 03:00 |
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