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Set in your ways?
Do you resent changes, or adapt to them? Do you like waking up everyday with the comfort of seeing the same things in the same place, or do you like to rearrange and reorganize once in awhile? If your favorite chair or recliner starts showing wear, do you start shopping for something newer and better, or slap on some duct tape and keep "your old friend"?
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| August 28, 2006, 06:22 |
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Re: Set in your ways?
I like some changes in things but not all. Some change is good other changes can be uncomfortable. I like furniture to remain mostly in the same places. I do like changes in methods and routines though and especially when it comes to sex.
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| August 28, 2006, 08:31 |
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Re: Set in your ways?
I am a Virginian. Nothing that has changed since 1863 is worth a damn.
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| August 28, 2006, 08:44 |
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Re: Set in your ways?
I'm a big believer in change. I think change is a great way to give your life a bit of a boost. I think you can avoid depression if you don't fall into a rut. Life is good, the one thing you can depend on are the forces of earth changing it...with you or without you. If it is your choice to resist change, your life could be a roller coaster, if you embrace it, you can ride the roller coaster. Have a happy day!!! 
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| August 28, 2006, 08:47 |
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nykitten
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Pawling, New York, US
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I have learned that change can be very good for you!......I love change!....I am one that has to move all the furniture around frequently!.....Love to see all the possibilities!......I guess that also falls under the category that I can see good in anything!.......I can look at a house that is about to fall down, and yet see the incredible potential ....To me, to do the same thing day in and out can only lead to a boring life....To have nothing to look forward to can't make life interesting!....
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| August 28, 2006, 09:44 |
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I love a change of scenery, and will often wake up extra early, and spend the whole day changing a room, sewing all new curtains and pillow covers,moving furniture, sprucing things up with a little paint, etc...
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| August 28, 2006, 10:04 |
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Hey this is great we are all online at the same time. I find that most change is very good. Change is something that is going to happen throughout life so we as people must adjust. Some of us adjust more willingly than others. The big change in my life is having to go without sex. My wife only offers sex about once a year, if I am lucky, and it is when she is in the mood, usually on a night when she is unable to sleep. As soon as she has an orgasm she turns over and goes to sleep. Most of the time she leaves me hanging. I go to sleep with the same erection and wake up in the morning to find that it is still up and she is snoring away. I am tired of bringing myself to orgasm with my hand. A big change for me that I hope to see happen is to find a woman who will not only let me please her but will also please me sexually.
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| August 28, 2006, 10:14 |
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I don't mind change as long as it doesn't affect me too much. Ok, yeah yeah, I'm set in my ways. It's my dad's fault, the old coot! 
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| August 28, 2006, 10:50 |
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Re: Re: Set in your ways?
QUOTE (kbateman @ August 28, 2006, 08:44)I am a Virginian. Nothing that has changed since 1863 is worth a damn.
I'm afraid to ask . . . . what happened in 1863? Shall I just save us all some time and repair immediately to the Dungeon of Stupid Yankees? 
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| August 28, 2006, 11:01 |
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Re: Set in your ways?
But, to answer Chazzy's question . . . .
I am quite open to suggestion.
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| August 28, 2006, 11:03 |
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Re: Set in your ways?
I do welcome changes in my life, but also like the consistancy that the established ways have. Nothing makes a life more relaxed than knowing how everything will work.
This is why I hate changing companies. However this was a necessary change.
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| August 28, 2006, 11:31 |
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Sometimes I may not like the changes that come my way...but I do adapt if that's whats needed...
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| August 28, 2006, 11:32 |
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I am a lot better than my dad at adapting to change, I must admit. Depends on the type of change, though.
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| August 28, 2006, 11:35 |
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Whoever said change is good blows...new and improved, just means made cheaper and someone here lost a job. Guess I'm kinda of old fashioned, but I've always looked at things as..If it ain't broke...don't fix it !!!
M Lev...
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| August 28, 2006, 16:41 |
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funlovingpair
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Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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I keep trying to tell them that at work. But they keep wanting to try and fix it.
Ma
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| August 28, 2006, 16:45 |
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Re: Set in your ways?
i am all for change as long as it is progressive
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| August 28, 2006, 18:00 |
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40something
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In the Sun, Arizona, US
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Okay so I am set in my ways, mostly it is that I am used to being in charge, and it is difficult for me to step down, but believe me I am learning how to take a back seat and sometimes - I even enjoy it.
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| August 28, 2006, 19:05 |
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change is an improvement...if its not an improvement...dont change! 
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| August 28, 2006, 19:29 |
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