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Rimming
Hey all....want to know if any of you who have done rimming of can offer me something to think about while I am getting used to it....we've done everything that was suggested...shower....tasty stuff....all that good sh**....but my mind keeps getting stuck on what I am doing and I can't perform as well as I'd like to.....he's dying for me to get into it....and so am I....suggestions on what else to think about...other techniques to try.....HELP
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| August 16, 2006, 19:27 |
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nykitten
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Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Rimming
I hate to say this, but first, if your going to have a negative attitude, or outlook about it to begin with, (and I don't mean that in a mean way) your never going to be able to enjoy it!....
You HAVE to like what your doing for it to be worth doing!... Great sex comes from the heart....Comes from the act of wanting to please someone....If you look at it in a way that you are pleasing your partner, and believe me, it is something that if your doing it, it feels incredible!......So you will be doing something that turns your partner on....That in itself should turn you on a bit more to see it as a satisfying thing as opposed to a negative thing!.....
Its all in the mind!.... 
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| August 16, 2006, 20:30 |
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Re: Rimming
Funny you should say that...and no...I didn't take it in a mean way...truly appreciate it when I get a response to my posts....the strange part to me is that I LOVE anal both giving and receiving...so it's not that I am against the pleasures of the back door....so what is my hang up then? I really don't know....good advice though NYK...thanks so much....I really like the way you said to think about the fact that I am giving him pleasure....I'll be sure to try that....guess when that first moan escapes his lips that will be my reward..... 
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| August 16, 2006, 20:40 |
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Re: Rimming
It's all about feeling comfortable with each other with your sexuality , openess, and what comes from your hearts. Using breathing and relaxing techniques do help, and everything else will fall into place, trust me on this. Just be yourself, and enjoy!!
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| August 16, 2006, 21:30 |
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Re: Rimming
Thank you...I'll try those also....
Really appreciate the help
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| August 16, 2006, 22:34 |
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funlovingpair
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Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: Rimming
QUOTE (nykitten @ August 16, 2006, 20:30)I hate to say this, but first, if your going to have a negative attitude, or outlook about it to begin with, (and I don't mean that in a mean way) your never going to be able to enjoy it!....
You HAVE to like what your doing for it to be worth doing!... Great sex comes from the heart....Comes from the act of wanting to please someone....If you look at it in a way that you are pleasing your partner, and believe me, it is something that if your doing it, it feels incredible!......So you will be doing something that turns your partner on....That in itself should turn you on a bit more to see it as a satisfying thing as opposed to a negative thing!.....
Its all in the mind!....
Couldn't agree more. It's not about the fact of where you are, but of what you are doing and why. Like Kitten says, its your frame of mind. 
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| August 16, 2006, 23:34 |
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Re: Rimming
QUOTE (Westendgurl @ August 16, 2006, 19:27)Hey all....want to know if any of you who have done rimming of can offer me something to think about while I am getting used to it....we've done everything that was suggested...shower....tasty stuff....all that good sh**....but my mind keeps getting stuck on what I am doing and I can't perform as well as I'd like to.....he's dying for me to get into it....and so am I....suggestions on what else to think about...other techniques to try.....HELP
You're doing fine here, you're moving at a comfortable pace for you.
If you enjoy porno, then maybe spend a little time, check out some "rimming" sites or vids once in awhile and if some positive feedback from your spouse/bf is important to you, as you indicated in your posts....try just talking about it first, let him tell you in detail just how great it feels, etc...
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| August 17, 2006, 03:54 |
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Re: Rimming
I wanted to report that I was successful this morning....got a call from my sexy friend....told him I had a surprise for him....got there....we fooled around a bit and then.....WOW...he never knew what hit him and I was very surprised by my reaction also....got off getting him off....this was probably the best one yet since he's a difficult one to get to that point....so THANK YOU all you wonderful Web Naughty people who responded and offered advice....I got it now and plan on using it often!
Now....what to try next........hmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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