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??? for the girls
OK this ?? is for the girls
by reading my profile and got to know me
what would u say i
be best at
just a one night stand
Shag Buddie
guy u take home to meet u family
guy u get marry too
reason i ask because
lately i been think about what do girls really want
do they still want a Nice's caring romantic typed of guy or what some one to treat them like crap so
that why i have post this ??? to the girls and see what every one thoughts of the matter is
i been having no luck as a late and need to know
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| July 31, 2006, 02:46 |
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Re: ??? for the girls
I just wanna know why you need to know "what girls really want".
Do you want to pretend to be what they want so you can get laid ? Are you looking for ways to get NSA, or is this a self-esteem thing and you feel you need to change yourself?
Everyone has things they want to improve or change about themselves...but no one should try to be a whole different person, you have allot of qualities, hon....don't beat yourself down!
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| July 31, 2006, 04:20 |
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Re: ??? for the girls
I'm not supposed to post here since I'm not a girl (last time I checked at least), but I can't help myself...
Why do you care so much about what women want? They don't all want the same thing, and most of the times they want different things depending on... the weather. So don't get into that. I'd think of what I want for me, how I'd imagine the ideal girl next to me and then try to find it. Chances are that I won't find it, but at least I'd find something close to what I want.
Don't get so stressed my friend, just relax, it's a whole game if you think about it, find out the rules and play by them. Experiment, see what works and what doesn't in different occasions, I think you'll be amazed by the findings and the results.
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| July 31, 2006, 05:00 |
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Re: Re: ??? for the girls
QUOTE (PeterPan73 @ July 31, 2006, 05:00)
Don't get so stressed my friend, just relax, it's a whole game if you think about it, find out the rules and play by them. Experiment, see what works and what doesn't in different occasions, I think you'll be amazed by the findings and the results.
What he said! 
  
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| July 31, 2006, 06:23 |
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Re: ??? for the girls
well chazz i dont want o get laid as u said i just want to fine some one to love and be in love with i had a rocky path with girls i just want to feel what every one easl feels
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| July 31, 2006, 06:49 |
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Re: Re: ??? for the girls
QUOTE (muffinman @ July 31, 2006, 06:49)well chazz i dont want o get laid as u said i just want to fine some one to love and be in love with i had a rocky path with girls i just want to feel what every one easl feels
You've got some very good qualities, you just need to find quality minded women!
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| July 31, 2006, 06:54 |
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Re: ??? for the girls
well if u fine some pass them this way
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| July 31, 2006, 08:17 |
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Re: ??? for the girls
EVerything takes time. Especialy finding that special woman.
Relax, be yourself and keep looking. Being yourself is most important. 
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| July 31, 2006, 08:19 |
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Re: ??? for the girls
I agree with what everyone else says honey. You need to stay true to yourself. If you change for someone else it might work for a little while but eventually the stress will hurt the relationship. PP is right in that "what women want" changes all the time - depending on what is going on that day. For example, I know that in the morning I need someone who can get up and move with me to get stuff done, but by the end of the day I need someone who is winding down, holding me close and ready to do the cuddle thing. So if you try to be different you won't be able to keep up, be yourself - so that when you do meet someone you know - they love you, not someone that doesn't exsist
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| July 31, 2006, 10:50 |
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Re: ??? for the girls
Muffinman...my opinion for what it's worth is that sometimes we get caught up in the not so real world of sites...believe it or not not everyone is honest here or on other sites so what you read may not be close to what or who that person is really like ...have you tried meeting ladies in your area in person...like someone in a store, a restaurant or anyplace you hang out...broaden your horizons
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| July 31, 2006, 16:54 |
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Re: ??? for the girls
yeah i try that i start gym hopeing to fine soem one going to a single group i am think of starting up danceing again and try every were night club pubs and all
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| July 31, 2006, 20:43 |
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Re: ??? for the girls
mm.. youre trying too hard. You just gotta relax, and let the good times roll. If you look too hard, its never going to find you.
I know its easier said than done. Deep down, I know the same thing and I try a bit harder at times too in which i know why now too. Just gotta tell it to someone now is all.
Good luck.
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| July 31, 2006, 23:20 |
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Re: ??? for the girls
muffin you knpw im blunt so ill come out and tell ya, just like i always do. and actally ive told you this before.you are marriage material so you can take it as a bad thing or a good thing 
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| August 1, 2006, 05:30 |
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Re: ??? for the girls
i take it as a good thing sweet anie and u know u all way have a spot in ym big heart becaused u that dam drop dead beautyful to me and u every think what a guy want in a girl
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Re: Re: ??? for the girls
QUOTE (wyldnsexy @ August 1, 2006, 05:30)muffin you knpw im blunt so ill come out and tell ya, just like i always do. and actally ive told you this before.you are marriage material so you can take it as a bad thing or a good thing
She's right...and take it as a good thing. Value yourself and keep a high standard and some girl will be taking you home proudly to meet her parents soon enough!
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