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Your choice of weapons....
What do you take into combat with you?
Whether it's a lover's spat, or a heated confrontation, are you a "button pusher", a name caller? Do you bring up a bunch of stuff from the past during every current argument or do you exert much effort in trying to keep an argument on track and focused on the current issue?
Do you sit down face to face and discuss, or stand in a defensive pose, ready to battle toe to toe?
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| July 24, 2006, 07:24 |
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Re: Your choice of weapons....
I take every single flaw in her personality - every single instance of any slight, every thing I can remember and I drive her into the ground with factoid after factoid of trivial complaint. she does the same to me - then we have sex and forget the problem.
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| July 24, 2006, 08:36 |
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Re: Re: Your choice of weapons....
QUOTE (kbateman @ July 24, 2006, 08:36)I take every single flaw in her personality - every single instance of any slight, every thing I can remembver and I drive her into the ground with factoid after factoid of trivial complaint. she does the same to me - then we have sex and forget the problem.
Now that's a good definition of "pure passion"!
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| July 24, 2006, 09:15 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Your choice of weapons....
Haven't had a argument in so long, I can't remember the last time. Now its just fighting with the damn kid, mainly about his bitchy whinny ass girlfriend, that breaks up him about twice a week. MA and I don't fight, argue at all. If there is a problem brewing up, we will discuss it a normal rational adults, then the clothes come off and its wild sex again.   
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| July 24, 2006, 11:18 |
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Re: Your choice of weapons....
 I bring my 12 gauge and an extra box of shells
Not enough arguments for this topic..... usually stay with what it's about...
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| July 25, 2006, 08:32 |
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Re: Your choice of weapons....
It's useless to argue in this house because at the mere hint of a conflict, my husband will turn into a 5 year old.
If I disagree with anything, his first words are "If you don't like it, leave!"
If I have angered or annoyed him in anyway, he'll repeat over and over, sometimes for several hours, one single word or one single phrase...how childish is that, I ask ya?
But I know when it's starts getting close to meal time, and he's getting hungry, he'll come around to make up just so he doesn't have to fix his own meal.
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| July 25, 2006, 10:13 |
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NRG4U
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Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: Your choice of weapons....
I confront it head on, if I am at fault I apologize, if not will give a verbal assult about how childish & thoughtless they are acting. If it gets dropped then I'm not mad after a hour or so I don't stay mad. But it they wish to keep it up, well I don't think you want to get inside my head, I don't think you'd like what you find.
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| July 25, 2006, 22:13 |
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Re: Your choice of weapons....
I'm bad at things like this. Very bad. Can't add anything more to it.
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| July 25, 2006, 22:59 |
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Re: Your choice of weapons....
Diplomacy is my main weapon against disagreements and arguments and has always worked very well for me...unfortunatly, it's totally lost on my husband....
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| July 26, 2006, 08:18 |
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Re: Your choice of weapons....
I eldom hae arguments, but on the very rare occasions I do, I only use the current issuses.
Aything else is irrelevant.
However, if the other person or people involved do bring upi thing from the past, then all is fair. 
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| July 26, 2006, 18:26 |
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Re: Re: Your choice of weapons....
QUOTE (justchange @ July 26, 2006, 18:26)I eldom hae arguments, but on the very rare occasions I do, I only use the current issuses.
Aything else is irrelevant.
However, if the other person or people involved do bring upi thing from the past, then all is fair.
Except with myself when I do not type well 
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| July 26, 2006, 18:31 |
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GG317
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Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Your choice of weapons....
I used to take notes weeks b4... So when I got blasted, I could point out whether or not I really did those things...I wouldn't recommend taking notes...It's more trouble than it's worth... 
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| July 27, 2006, 01:17 |
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nykitten
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Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Your choice of weapons....
I try really hard not to fight.......Just adds to the headache I have everyday....Although when I do get angry and open up......I am a true BITCH! .......But thats only because I keep it in for so long, and if Im at that point where Im going to explode.....Im beyond help!....It does take me a lot to get there......But I only get nasty because I have been put in a corner with no way out, and at that point I can be real tough!..
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| July 27, 2006, 10:45 |
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Re: Re: Your choice of weapons....
QUOTE (nykitten @ July 27, 2006, 10:45)I try really hard not to fight.......Just adds to the headache I have everyday....Although when I do get angry and open up......I am a true BITCH! .......But thats only because I keep it in for so long, and if Im at that point where Im going to explode.....Im beyond help!....It does take me a lot to get there......But I only get nasty because I have been put in a corner with no way out, and at that point I can be real tough!..
I see how you are! For me I'm just get really quiet till I can't stands no more! then I open my mouth and say something stupid and really get in trouble. From now on I'm going to reach for my trusty Colt 45.
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| July 27, 2006, 14:01 |
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Re: Your choice of weapons....
Colt 45? Is that a gun or a malt liquor? I could see where either one would work...
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| July 28, 2006, 05:16 |
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Re: Re: Your choice of weapons....
QUOTE (Chazzy @ July 28, 2006, 05:16)Colt 45? Is that a gun or a malt liquor? I could see where either one would work...
Fist one then the other 
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| July 28, 2006, 07:56 |
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