|
| AUTHOR |
MESSAGE |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Dumper or Dumpee ?
Were you usually the dumper or the dumpee in your past relationships?
|
| July 14, 2004, 17:32 |
|
hardrock1955
69 / male
McGaheysville, Virginia, US
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
The only one I've ever dumped was the last one ,after 3 years ,3DUI's and numerous lost jobs,too much of an alkie
|
| July 14, 2004, 17:45 |
|
bawbie
63 / female
mesa, Arizona, US
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
dumpee. after 2 years with not so much as one argument or anything.
|
| July 14, 2004, 18:16 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
can't answer this one, only had three girlfriends.... i dumped the first, the second one graduated a year before me and moved to texas and we just grew apart before i graduated (college) so i didn't make the move, and just a few months back i had the privelege of being dumpee. 
|
| July 14, 2004, 19:07 |
|
backfromaustintx
66 / male
Burlington, Ontario, Canada
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
I just had to dump someone to make room for a new interest. Feels like S**t doing it. She hasen't taken it well and won't talk to me. She didn't deserve to be hurt, but I was feeling guilty about her expectations and my inability to meet them.
Of course the big dumpee experience was care of my EX. But, she was an immature child who only thought of herself.
As for ladies dated multiple times where no physical intimacy developed its about 50-50 or so.
|
| July 14, 2004, 19:13 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
I usually am the dumper. Usually when the (sweet, generous, kind, loving, warm, sincere) man starts wagging his tongue at the waitress at some restaurant, or flirting with the clerk at the local grocery store. I don't tolerate my dates pretending that I don't notice their straying eyes and hands. If they want to play with the waitress, I am happy to give them the opportunity!
|
| July 14, 2004, 19:14 |
|
backfromaustintx
66 / male
Burlington, Ontario, Canada
|
Re: Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
QUOTE (kbateman @ July 14, 2004, 19:14)I usually am the dumper. Usually when the (sweet, generous, kind, loving, warm, sincere) man starts wagging his tongue at the waitress at some restaurant, or flirting with the clerk at the local grocery store. I don't tolerate my dates pretending that I don't notice their straying eyes and hands. If they want to play with the waitress, I am happy to give them the opportunity!
OK, thats fair notice to all the men here! Keep your eyes wandering up and down K and nowhere else!
I could acceot that!
|
| July 15, 2004, 07:29 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
QUOTE (backfromaustintx @ July 15, 2004, 07:29) QUOTE (kbateman @ July 14, 2004, 19:14)I usually am the dumper. Usually when the (sweet, generous, kind, loving, warm, sincere) man starts wagging his tongue at the waitress at some restaurant, or flirting with the clerk at the local grocery store. I don't tolerate my dates pretending that I don't notice their straying eyes and hands. If they want to play with the waitress, I am happy to give them the opportunity!
OK, thats fair notice to all the men here! Keep your eyes wandering up and down K and nowhere else!
I could acceot that!
must be some damn hot waitresses in virginia 
|
| July 15, 2004, 08:59 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
It isn't that the waitresses are hot, it is just that all men are like cows! The grass might be greener on the other side of the fence so they take a look. I don't care if I am not there to see it, but when we are together on a date other women are out of bounds!
|
| July 15, 2004, 14:46 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
whats wrong with looking, long as it isn't in the middle of a proposal or something? kinda like when you see a nice truck roll by, go ahead and take a good hard look and as long she gets back in mine at the end of the day its fine by me.
|
| July 15, 2004, 15:38 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
QUOTE (kbateman @ July 15, 2004, 14:46)It isn't that the waitresses are hot, it is just that all men are like cows! The grass might be greener on the other side of the fence so they take a look. I don't care if I am not there to see it, but when we are together on a date other women are out of bounds!
i watched some stand up comedy by ron white.he said once a man see`s his first set of boobs,you naturally want to see them all.probably some truth to that
|
| July 15, 2004, 17:20 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
QUOTE (24694u @ July 15, 2004, 17:20) QUOTE (kbateman @ July 15, 2004, 14:46)It isn't that the waitresses are hot, it is just that all men are like cows! The grass might be greener on the other side of the fence so they take a look. I don't care if I am not there to see it, but when we are together on a date other women are out of bounds!
i watched some stand up comedy by ron white.he said once a man see`s his first set of boobs,you naturally want to see them all.probably some truth to that
You may have already ordered, but you can still look to see what the other guy is eating!
|
| July 15, 2004, 18:14 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
and when you are sticking your dick up the tailpipe of a nice looking truck, I'll bet your truck gets jealous of you looking at others too.
I don't expect 100% faithful, 100% honest, or 100% attention. Just don't expect me to sit with you while you ogle some other girls boobs.
(ps - don't take me to Hooters for a date either, their wings are not that damn good)
|
| July 15, 2004, 19:27 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
QUOTE (kbateman @ July 15, 2004, 19:27)and when you are sticking your dick up the tailpipe of a nice looking truck, I'll bet your truck gets jealous of you looking at others too.
I don't expect 100% faithful, 100% honest, or 100% attention. Just don't expect me to sit with you while you ogle some other girls boobs.
(ps - don't take me to Hooters for a date either, their wings are not that damn good)
Hooters is for wedding receptions only! No dates at fine establishments like that!
|
| July 16, 2004, 04:56 |
|
allon
63 / male
salisbury, England, UK
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
in meaningfull relationships, been dumped twice that broke my heart, and i was a dumpee once and that hurt me like hell also, but knew long term it was for the best.
cant go anywhere near anything like that again and wont be in those positions again.
love hurts - hurt hurts
|
| July 16, 2004, 12:35 |
|
bawbie
63 / female
mesa, Arizona, US
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
as a vetran dumpee, i feel your pain. (i can't believe i said that.) the only thing youcan do after being dumped is to go to your room, close the doors and curtains, lie in the dark and listen to blues, the music of pain.
or whack off.
|
| July 19, 2004, 16:31 |
|
allon
63 / male
salisbury, England, UK
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
whack off. ha
brings a strange thought to mind.
although have masturbated in front of a partner and vice versa, which is good of course. if alone i dont think of anyone i really cared about in the past, always use an erotic image of a partner who passed by without any second thoughts. must be a subconcious hurt thing, i must be really fucked up guilt wise, and im not even a catholic.
|
| July 19, 2004, 21:18 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
this is just a llttle post to finally shove the "ohio women" thread down on to page 2
|
| July 22, 2004, 12:12 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
laughing! 
But I am sure that DEye will get it back up. (in a manner of speaking)
|
| July 22, 2004, 12:22 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
probably he will, but if I just keep up with these little posts, sooner or later it will be history!
|
| July 24, 2004, 17:59 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
QUOTE (backfromaustintx @ July 15, 2004, 07:29) QUOTE (kbateman @ July 14, 2004, 19:14)I usually am the dumper. Usually when the (sweet, generous, kind, loving, warm, sincere) man starts wagging his tongue at the waitress at some restaurant, or flirting with the clerk at the local grocery store. I don't tolerate my dates pretending that I don't notice their straying eyes and hands. If they want to play with the waitress, I am happy to give them the opportunity!
OK, thats fair notice to all the men here! Keep your eyes wandering up and down K and nowhere else!
I could acceot that!
Gawd yes! Flirt and be an asshole jerk on your own time, when you're with a women, she should be the only existing woman in the universe during that time. Behave like you have some damn sense and show some class and every woman in the room will think your woman is the luckiest woman in the world.
|
| August 3, 2004, 03:18 |
|
hardrock1955
69 / male
McGaheysville, Virginia, US
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
and if you are with Chazzy ,every man will know you are the luckiest man in the world. there would be no need to look any further. 
|
| August 3, 2004, 03:25 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
What a smooth talker, we could all take lessons from you hardrock
|
| August 3, 2004, 13:20 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
Yes, Rock is smooth, the women, in my opinion, should flock to him and be knocking on his door. Also, he could not be more right about Chazz. Any man who is fortunate enough to have any time with her at all, in any capacity, should automatically know that she deserves respect and gentle love. If they do not, they are idiots.
|
| August 3, 2004, 14:54 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Dumper or Dumpee ?
thats a nice new banner photo euge!
|
| August 4, 2004, 15:47 |
|
|
