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Spin off
lets say the guy last the perfect amount of time etc. I've heard more than a few girls saying they get to a plateau where things feel great but they never actually orgasm.
as a male i just cant comprehend the idea of something feeling awesome yet not cumming. guess its one of those topics that just piques my interest.
any girls dare try explain how things work for you as far as orgasm.. what ever kind you do or dont have?
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| July 21, 2006, 19:21 |
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funlovingpair
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Re: Spin off
I think its more like it takes much longer for a woman to reach climax than do men. That's why foreplay is so important for women. It would be rare for a man and woman to reach climax at the same time, when both start together. 
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| July 22, 2006, 02:49 |
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Re: Spin off
Somedays it is just not happening, somedays it is happening in multiples, and somedays the squirting gods bless us. A huge part of the difference between each time is level of relaxation on my part. There are days when I am worried about kids/parents/money/etc. that I want sex but just don't get into it as much. Then there are the other times when everything just clicks, I feel sexy and want to grind!!
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| July 22, 2006, 09:30 |
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Re: Re: Spin off
QUOTE (CKTC @ July 22, 2006, 09:30)Somedays it is just not happening, somedays it is happening in multiples, and somedays the squirting gods bless us. A huge part of the difference between each time is level of relaxation on my part. There are days when I am worried about kids/parents/money/etc. that I want sex but just don't get into it as much. Then there are the other times when everything just clicks, I feel sexy and want to grind!!
I know exactly what you mean,, May the gods bless you and give you more Grinding days than worry days 
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| July 22, 2006, 10:44 |
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Re: Spin off
when i know for sure, i'll definately tell ya... although i've come to notice when i get to the 'feeling good' sensation to where i get real sensitive down after a good lickin or fingerin, whatever goes... then i stop because i .... you know, dont really have an explanation on that, on why i stop when it starts to feel good.
Odd I know. Why I do this? Someone tell me.
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| July 22, 2006, 13:20 |
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Re: Re: Spin off
QUOTE (funlovingpair @ July 22, 2006, 02:49)
so take the man out of the picture entirely.. what I've been hearing over time is some women orgasm, some dont. what ever circumstances exist. some say it can be a matter of minutes or hours or never. just curiosity, wondering if there might be some little things a partner can do to enhance things even slightly (as in non sexually) before or during.
BC, because you're afraid of the dorky face you'd make. 
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| July 22, 2006, 14:27 |
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Re: Spin off
LMAO
Like you havent seen any other kind of dorky looking facial expressions yet?! 
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| July 22, 2006, 14:31 |
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Re: Spin off
last post  Interesting topic
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| July 22, 2006, 15:25 |
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Re: Re: Spin off
QUOTE (bulrfush @ July 22, 2006, 15:25)last post Interesting topic
Did I catch what you said? Or am I reading into it too much that I don't know what you're referring to of "last post"?! LOL
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| July 23, 2006, 02:41 |
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funlovingpair
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Re: Re: Re: Spin off
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ July 22, 2006, 14:27) QUOTE (funlovingpair @ July 22, 2006, 02:49)
so take the man out of the picture entirely.. what I've been hearing over time is some women orgasm, some dont. what ever circumstances exist. some say it can be a matter of minutes or hours or never. just curiosity, wondering if there might be some little things a partner can do to enhance things even slightly (as in non sexually) before or during.
I think its a package thing. They/you need it all to complete the package. You need to keep exploring all the different possibilities, audio, visual, smell, touch, even taste. I believe that some woman, just plain have not yet learned how to climax. They may know what feels good to them, but have yet allowed themselves to totally go for the gusto. You just have to work at trying to bring her to total climax by doing different things, maybe in a different order, don't limit one self to a particular routine. I believe that every women is different and ya just have to keep trying and working at it. But once they do reach that total climax, for the woman its going to be almost an earth shattering experience.
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