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the bi-sexual single female
It seems to be the most popular reason for couples joining adult personal sites, and so many can get so impatient in their search for what must seem to them to be, the "mythical single bi-sexual female".
Any comments, questions, and insight here would be invaluable to so many.
To the single bi-sexual females, do you prefer one on one dates over dating a couple?
To the single bi-fems that do like to date couples, what do you look for and find, that gives you the clear decision to be their "third"? What turns you off when approached for a threesome with a couple?
And the couples who seek a threesome with a bi-female, what has your success rate been? How many invitations have you made compared to how many have been accepted?
Any questions, comments, and insight on any aspect of this topic is more than welcomed!
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| July 5, 2006, 09:32 |
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Re: the bi-sexual single female
Bisexual females are "in". Everyone wants to be one, 50% or more of high school girls are 'bisexual' - this drops to about 25% in college and back to less than 10% once they find hubby and get partnered up.
I cannot say how many of the new-bisexual actually act on their newfound status, but it has grown from nearly zero to a fair number in the last few years.
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| July 5, 2006, 10:17 |
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Re: the bi-sexual single female
I can only assume that most bi-sexual single females must be looking for other bi-sexual females?
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| July 10, 2006, 13:59 |
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Re: the bi-sexual single female
I always see tons of couples seeking bi-females, and tons of single bi-females all online here, all the time...I was hoping we could all learn what the major obstacles are for everyone hooking up for those much sought after threesomes !
Couples, any experiences or thoughts to share about your searches, sucessfull ones or failures...single bi-femles got any insight to share with couples about how to approach a bi-fem, what you are looking for in a couple?
Any comments at all?
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| August 9, 2006, 06:42 |
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PleasantNight
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Boston, Massachusetts, US
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The bi-sexual single female
The single bisexual female , I remember being one of those - it was funny because whenever I found a lesbian I was attracted to, she didn't want to be with a bisexual - because the bisexual wouldn't stay with her. When I found men - they worried that I would leave them for a girl (I eventually did just this many times), embarrassing them with all of their friends. When couples called - I was uninterested - because I never sought the threesome . I wanted just love, not just to be an addition to someone elses love and sex games - I could not find that in the ' threesome .'
Anyway - I have found that the majority of single Bi women , are of similar mind - they will sleep with One or the Other, but are unlikely to join in as the 'third' because when the sex is done - it isn't her fantasy that was fulfilled, it was that of the man in the couple.
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| September 5, 2006, 14:20 |
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Re: the bi-sexual single female
very interesting response and extremely true. Never thought about that from that point of view before
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| September 5, 2006, 16:45 |
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sex4meisgood
72 / female
Shawnee, Kansas, US
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Re: the bi-sexual single female
I'm single as far as my Bi-sexual life is concerned! I want a women for sex and great times together! But,because I've been married for 34 years I keep it to myself! My husband and I get along fine, but never have sex together! I dont want a bunch of other men! Just a few women for my sex life! 
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| November 29, 2006, 13:14 |
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Re: the bi-sexual single female
I have been approached by couples and found that this was not for me. I prefer a one on one encounter because in a past experience the husband seemed to want to control the situation even when the wife attempted to have some one on one time with me. But thought that it was fine for him to sleep with me at times without the wife being involved.
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| August 22, 2010, 20:35 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: the bi-sexual single female
You will never be able to solve the puzzle. The reason the Bi-female is so sought after and so hard to nail down(No pun intended) is because its much more complicated than the male female relationship.Women are more complicated emotionally.If you ever read my posts about why I have never done a threesome with another women this will be redundant, sorry.
In general women have to be emotionally into the relationship weather it be sexual or not. You put two women together it just makes it that more complicated to find a match that works well. We are not as easy to get along with as men in that type of scenario(Sorry to my fellow women but if your honest to yourself you know its true)Men aren't as worried about if they are better looking or fatter or better at that task, jealous, etc....Generally speaking men don't care if they are JUST the added PLAY TOY in the threesome and who's fantasy it was that put them there.
Everyone is different and If you keep positive and open you are bound to find the right person. You have be happy with yourself first and the person you are. You can't expect to think of yourself as poorly as I see so many people do and then expect someone to come along and say "Yes that's who I want to be with." No one is perfect but that doesn't mean they can't be perfect for you or you perfect for them.Lighten up and learn to laugh at life when things just don't go the way you expected.Weather your straight, bi, trans, whatever, you deserve to be happy . Now you just have to believe it.
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| September 26, 2010, 07:57 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: the bi-sexual single female
Ive said it before
Women are crazy
Men are stupid
Neither are overcome easily. A three way fling can be done to the satisfaction(or disatisfaction) of all. Something longer term you have to work around emotions that are hard enough to work out between 2, let alone 3.
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| September 26, 2010, 15:04 |
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Dutsji
64 / male
Ergens, Netherlands
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QUOTE (kamarel @ September 26, 2010, 15:04)Ive said it before
Women are crazy
Men are stupid
Neither are overcome easily. A three way fling can be done to the satisfaction(or disatisfaction) of all. Something longer term you have to work around emotions that are hard enough to work out between 2, let alone 3.
You are a wise man 
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| September 26, 2010, 17:26 |
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Re: the bi-sexual single female
Yeah, I know, I've said it a gazillion times over the years here...bringing someone else into a couples bed takes a stable strong relationship.
Sure some have claimed that is has saved their relationship, some will tell ya it ruined theirs, it's a risk, research allot and talk plenty.
For others, just exploring the fantasy by online playtime is enough.
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| September 26, 2010, 19:15 |
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