it has come to my attention that some members may be offended if the chat room gets a little risque. i have made a lot of great friends there and have had a lot of fun role playing, as i am sure most of you have too. it's a form of entertainment and this is an adult site. risque is to be expected, no? however, every once in a while you'll come across a dickhead or two - how do you handle it? do you take it privately or do you talk behind ppls backs? how would you handle a not-so pleasant situation and when does it need to be escalated to a moderator?

I do try and get along with everyone. However, when there is something in chat I do not care to be part of, I simply leave. No sense in staying if there is no interest, right? I should not have to explain this either. Should I?

We are all here to have fun and should not be part of something we do not care for.

i am in chat regularly...and have come across the "asshole" ppl only twice i think...

they were extremely rude both times...but fortunately the Lobby got more passionate and they didn't stay on for long..

so for the most part, we are self-managing the Lobby.

since over time it will reflect and represent the WN culture, which is imperfect, (really,)

chatroom etiquette is adhered to the vast percentage of the time...

I vote for bikerchick as the "WN bouncer"...she'll kick their ass!

LMAO...


How'd I get thought of to be a wn bouncer??

while we do welcome everyone to chat, please remember that we do mostly have converstations ongoing. This is similar to tuning into a tv show or movie part way thru.

Feel free to join in and enjoy.

Also when entering chat, we say hello to everyone. It would be nice if you at least recognize this.Yeah, and ;et's not gloss over this chatroom etiquette of saying hrllo to everyone new who enters. It's a nice way of creating a pause in ther chattroom that isnt the result of awkwardness and that practice helps to personalize a new poersons' entrancenhelps to out the bew operson at easre and learn some new names. But some peoplke have taken it a butt too dare and when I enter, sometimes I am assaiked and then subjectedto a barrage of kisses from strangers and all of this I find vcery upsetting because I
m saving myself c fofor my 4th wife wherever she may be. I don'r believe she has yet witnessws such outright lust demostrated so freely in public!

I'm certain it would just break her heart to know that I was unfaithful even back way back now when it' easyto resist temptation and the associated evils! So, pleasee try to have some consideration fgor others and respect their wishes to she qouod not apopreciate that were she to witness itm byt she hasn;t yet Thank God. ...,and you kissers out there, you know who you are! know who you are!!!!!!!!

Thank you.

Just a reminder....the best way to let someone know that their offensive and rude behaviour is not acceptable here, is to right click on thier name, then select "ignore"...
Of course, for a repeat offender, please contact a moderator to really get the point across to them!
Ya'all have been doing great with helping us keep abs's chatroom clean! It couldn't be done with out ya and we all try very hard to be here for ya when you need us.

At anytime, that an "asshole" or rude person enters the chat room and displays offensive behavior, they will quickly learn that their behavior is unacceptable if all or most of the other chatters will just use that "ignore" feature. This could be the best deterrent, seeing that a few of these "asshole" types might leave chat when a mod warns or freezes them, but just return with much of the same when there is no longer a mod in the room to reprimand them.

(To ignore a specific person, right click on thier nickname on the list on the right side of the chatroom screen, this will get you a pop up menu,look for the "ignore" selection, to "un-ignore" someone, just click the same selections again.)