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Are we men always in a hurry?????
Do you women think we (men) are always in a hurry to just get "ours"??? I'll admit, that in my younger days, I was guilty of the old "hit and run", when it came to sex. I couldn't wait to "plant it", "fertilize it", and get the hell out of there!!!!! I had this "giant" between my legs that ordered me around 24/7. At that stage, you women were just facilitators to me.
Hey, since then, I've evolved!!!. Now I love to "smell" the roses in the garden, treading lightly, intead of "running" through the garden, trampling the flowers. Now I lick it before I stick it!! I control the giant and not the other way around.
If ocassionally, I'm in a hurry to get mine, I go in the corner and rip one off by myself......lol
What do you think of my evolution?????
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| June 10, 2006, 07:34 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Are we men always in a hurry?????
Nobody controls this "Giant" but me... 
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| June 11, 2006, 02:48 |
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Re: Are we men always in a hurry?????
QUOTE (voyeurbill @ June 10, 2006, 07:34)Do you women think we (men) are always in a hurry to just get "ours"??? I'll admit, that in my younger days, I was guilty of the old "hit and run", when it came to sex. I couldn't wait to "plant it", "fertilize it", and get the hell out of there!!!!! I had this "giant" between my legs that ordered me around 24/7. At that stage, you women were just facilitators to me.
Hey, since then, I've evolved!!!. Now I love to "smell" the roses in the garden, treading lightly, intead of "running" through the garden, trampling the flowers. Now I lick it before I stick it!! I control the giant and not the other way around.
If ocassionally, I'm in a hurry to get mine, I go in the corner and rip one off by myself......lol
What do you think of my evolution?????
I'm not
stayhard43756
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| June 11, 2006, 06:39 |
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nykitten
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Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Are we men always in a hurry?????
That's interesting, because you see that what happens to most of us as we age......Through out your ups and downs in life we tend to learn what becomes more important......Our likes and dislikes, and we learn to enjoy life!.....When we are 21, most of us have no clue what its like to "live Life".....Work, money, marriage, kids, all add up to stress that can't be imagined without actually going through it!.....There is a big difference when your living life constantly for others, that when we are to the age when the kids are finally out, and we should be set, we have learned that slowing things down can be so much better!.....
I guess what Im trying to say is that when we are young, there are no worries, and life is fast......When we get old, we have been through it all, and can't wait to slow things down!.....
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| June 11, 2006, 12:03 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Are we men always in a hurry?????
By the way, that's one of the reasons I enjoy being with an older man !.....They tend to appreciate all of what you have to offer! 
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| June 11, 2006, 12:05 |
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40something
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In the Sun, Arizona, US
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Re: Are we men always in a hurry?????
There is something to be said for "I want you now hard and fast", but I have never been able to get there without the "getting to know you" part first. Part of the slowing down for me is learning about someone. Exploring what turns him on, and how that turns you on --- from the first look across the room, to the gentle touch as you pass the salt. Taking time to enjoy leaning against him in line for the movies, and stroking his hand as you sit next to each other in the dark, watching another story unfold on the screen. Those little things make the anticipation grow and grow so that although it may seem like "fast and hard" by the time you get there, but it has been growing from the first moment you laid eyes on each other- weeks ago
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| June 30, 2006, 15:24 |
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Re: Re: Are we men always in a hurry?????
QUOTE (nykitten @ June 11, 2006, 12:05)By the way, that's one of the reasons I enjoy being with an older man !.....They tend to appreciate all of what you have to offer!
Applause for kitten well said  I want to know where the hugs are on here 
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| June 30, 2006, 22:53 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Are we men always in a hurry?????
Kitten and 40something said it all. Every once in awhile, it can be enjoyable to just throw her down and let rip, so to speak, especially when they least expect it. But for the most part it's slow and easy taking time to enjoy every thing. Here's the hugs for the both of you ladies.   
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| July 1, 2006, 11:10 |
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Re: Are we men always in a hurry?????
It's always good to smell the flowers.
Especially beofe tasting them. 
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| July 1, 2006, 14:57 |
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lizonya
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lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: Are we men always in a hurry?????
quickies are good and naughty but women love being appreciated. thank God for the evolution from boyhood to manhood.
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| July 1, 2006, 15:26 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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QUOTE (lizonya @ July 1, 2006, 15:26)quickies are good and naughty but women love being appreciated. thank God for the evolution from boyhood to manhood.
So true.
Ma
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| July 1, 2006, 18:09 |
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Re: Are we men always in a hurry?????
depends how soon puberty kicks in?? 
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| July 1, 2006, 23:16 |
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Re: Are we men always in a hurry?????
It all depends on the situation... at times I can be in a hurry, but there are times when I take it reeeeeally slow
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| July 3, 2006, 02:07 |
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Re: Are we men always in a hurry?????
omg: someone mentioned puberty! in the context of the natural evolution of sexual maturiy..(geesh, this got "deep" in a hurry).. 
btw ny kitten: im 45..." older man " ...does that qualify?
im in agrrement with several of others comments posted here..that we do learn appreciate wht life is as we grow older...whatever age that is...
and sex just being a facet of that which is appreciated..but quickies have their place too...
i think i'll pour that glass of wine and ponder this one a bit longer.
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