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tuscanverve
38 / male
kolk, India
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how to shake off a girl....
this girl i've been good friends with through the internet... 1st we started mailing then chatting then finally she got my no. and started calling a lot. It was Ok with me as long as she wanted to be friends... but things were a little stuffy.....
our discussions ranged from studies to sex... virtually everything... it was pretty close friendship and we had a kind of emotional bond too.... but i wasn't overstepping it....
She finally said she liked me...
no it was actually me who "prised" it out of her... but I NEVER liked her that way.....
Anyway , after she told me taht I obviously refused...
It's after that she went berserk....
She started calling up at 2 in the night.....
She started asking abt. my ex-s, and all wierd questions... then she started chatting up with virtually every person who might know me.... any boys from my highschool.. just any and she starts talking to them abt. me and my "exploits"... she picks out names from my emailing list wehn i sent her and starts mailing them... u can imagine.....
worst thing is i told her abt. this girl i really like... she's quite young and innocent and I want her to be that way and I'm not planning a move or anything....
But this bitch knows abt. her and from her actions i was worried she might go and talk to her.. MAN I was so shit scared that she might drag the poor baby into this... then I'm going to hv to murder her...
Now she goes abt. telling ppl. that I'm her bf and she also claims I like her.. coz the "way" we talked and the things we talked abt. are "romantic allusions" (eg:- sex [remember this is INDIA] ) and I "actually do like her".
I want to get her the hell outta my life.. I FEEL like saying "BACK YOUR ASS OFF SLUTBAG!" but I'm too much of a gentleman to say that.... no way. taht's against my image....
right now, things are calm coz I BEGGED HER not to contact me till my exam results were out.... you know? she wouldn't even wait for them!!!... she always found some excuse to call me up and then start yabbering...
My exams are over now, but THANK GOD she hasn't contacted me yet.. i'm wondering... but ppl. are asking who's this girl.. that means she's active and bitchin'...
I'm too scared too disturb the calm.. coz i NEED my rest... PRE engineering in india IS THE MOST DIFFICULT IN THE WORLD.. and I made it...
Or should I confront her?
Or should I KILL HER?!
Pls help.... just get her the HELL OUTTA MY LIFE.... she's a disgusting bitch anyway....
PS:- We haven't met, though she's been trying to... i'd rather go and jump infront of a TUBE TRAIN than meet her....
HALP ME PLS!!!!
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| June 6, 2006, 15:15 |
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
Killin' her is a last resort! You'll go to prison for that, ya' know. Ask yourself this, "Do I want to spend the rest of my life in prison because of this slutbag?" As you so eloquently put it.
Ignore her for a while..... see if things mellow out a bit. If she keeps up her psychotic ranting to your friends, pay to have her killed! You're less likely to get caught that way 
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| June 6, 2006, 15:31 |
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tomboy6978
46 / male
Florissant, Missouri, US
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
do not kill the slutbag i would hate to see you go to prison for killing her just ignore change your phone number and email addresses whatever it takes and move on with your life as i paid careful attention to what you gone thru and plus 9 times out of 10 she will get what shes got coming sooner or later any way
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| June 6, 2006, 15:35 |
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
as beavis and butthead often says...
FIRE, FIRE, FIRE!!!
alright, seriously. Don't kill anyone. Not worth it. Just ignore it, ignore her, don't answer when she calls, don't email, message, etc anything to do with her. Although it may take a while (sometimes they get the hint right away, sometimes they don't).. and if it's like going on for let's say more than 2 months, then I'd tell her, if you're not gonna leave me alone... I will take you to court (for like a restraining order if that's the case).
Keep your cool. Don't show her that you're getting under her skin. Some girls that are like that, seems to like to be able to do that to a guy.
That's my 2 cents anyways. Good luck. 
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| June 6, 2006, 19:28 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: how to shake off a girl....
QUOTE (bikerchick69 @ June 6, 2006, 19:28)as beavis and butthead often says...
FIRE, FIRE, FIRE!!!
alright, seriously. Don't kill anyone. Not worth it. Just ignore it, ignore her, don't answer when she calls, don't email, message, etc anything to do with her. Although it may take a while (sometimes they get the hint right away, sometimes they don't).. and if it's like going on for let's say more than 2 months, then I'd tell her, if you're not gonna leave me alone... I will take you to court (for like a restraining order if that's the case).
Keep your cool. Don't show her that you're getting under her skin. Some girls that are like that, seems to like to be able to do that to a guy.
That's my 2 cents anyways. Good luck.
I agree with Bikerchick. DON"T kill anyone, very bad idea, don't even talk about killing anyone. Just do what BC says, hope for the best.
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| June 6, 2006, 22:11 |
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
Oh hell. Just tell her you don't want to hear from her. Tell her to leave you alone. then make sure you ingnore her. Do not return calls e-mails nor anyting else.
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| June 6, 2006, 22:27 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: how to shake off a girl....
QUOTE (MoonHowler @ June 6, 2006, 15:31)Killin' her is a last resort! You'll go to prison for that, ya' know. Ask yourself this, "Do I want to spend the rest of my life in prison because of this slutbag?" As you so eloquently put it.
Ignore her for a while..... see if things mellow out a bit. If she keeps up her psychotic ranting to your friends, pay to have her killed! You're less likely to get caught that way
Don't worry, we know your only kidding.  
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| June 6, 2006, 23:43 |
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
This is the kind of thing that can happen when you chose to meet someone online and then get to know them offline.
I don't recommend giving anyone you meet online your primary personal email or messenger ID, since email accounts and messenger IDs are free and plentiful, create accounts just for the purpose of "filtering", by that I mean open these secondary accounts solely for the purpose of continuing contact with someone you feel your are interested in getting to know better, but if things take a wacko and/or stalking turn, you won't have to go through the hassle of notifying friends and family of your primary email address change due to the unwanted attention of just one person.
Break off all contact with her imediatly, and be prepared to change your phone number if she doesn't leave you alone.
I'd never recommend being too quick and free with your phone number.
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| June 7, 2006, 00:33 |
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absix
40 / male
Web Naughty
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
I don't know any instant messangers who don't have BLOCK/IGNORE feature. Click, done.
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| June 7, 2006, 00:40 |
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doneff
41 / male
Sayreville, New Jersey, US
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
Push'er off the bridge 
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| June 7, 2006, 01:11 |
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Re: Re: how to shake off a girl....
QUOTE (absix @ June 7, 2006, 00:40)I don't know any instant messangers who don't have BLOCK/IGNORE feature. Click, done.
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| June 7, 2006, 09:21 |
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lizonya
64 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
i'm confused...you say you like her but then you hate her. could you be inadvertantly leading her on. well, stop that! 
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| June 7, 2006, 13:03 |
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
just tell her that you have got a 2 inch cock and you were just diagnosed with herpes and the HIV...
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| June 7, 2006, 18:49 |
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doneff
41 / male
Sayreville, New Jersey, US
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
Noone listens to me, push her off a bridge, end off story 
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| June 7, 2006, 20:52 |
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
OK, this is very easy. First of all you must arrange a meeting. When you see her you will approach her in a friendly manner and put your hands on her shoulders and then you start to really SHAKE her back and forth, left to right, up & down, anyway you please, sky is the only limit. You can also shake her if you hug her, but this could like you're fornicating her so that's bad. 
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| June 8, 2006, 03:06 |
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
Doode, do what absix says...block and ignore! Hopefully, any friends of yours she chats with are willing to block and ignore her as well, block her out from emails and instant messages. Completely erase her, if she does try to continue contact, you may have to change your email and your phone number, that's a inconvenience I know.
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| June 8, 2006, 06:22 |
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Re: Re: Re: how to shake off a girl....
QUOTE (funlovingpair @ June 6, 2006, 23:43)
Am I? 
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| June 8, 2006, 08:03 |
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nojnivek
53 / male
Pensacola, Florida, US
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Re: Re: how to shake off a girl....
QUOTE (doneff @ June 7, 2006, 20:52)Noone listens to me, push her off a bridge, end off story
Or take her hunting, or fishing!
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| June 8, 2006, 09:31 |
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tuscanverve
38 / male
kolk, India
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
thx for all the help guys.......
look i've already blocked her on the messengers.....
the 1st thing i did when i found she was getting sticky was that I told her to break all contact with me....
THAT my friends was the biggest mistake i made..... HELL hath no fury like a woman scorned..... get me?
thats waht made her extra psycho..
now things are cool, i'm letting them be... until it explodes again, I will ask u guys again......
meanwhile, tell me, since she accused me of this...
SHE CLAIMS that since I prised it out of her (ie the fact she likes me.... i kinda forced it out to make sure). Was I wrong there? should I hv let it be? u know i kinda forced it out to make sure and then refused her..... kinda clinical.
Anyway, she wasn't even a good friend........ all the girls i've gone out with or been friends with, there's always been a level of respect between us...... and thats what i'm known for.
This is kinda ruining my that image, the reason why I cant say "BACK OFF SLUTBAG!!!" (did i invent this phrase?)
I'm fun frank guy..... easygoing and cool.... i hate sticky situations.
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| June 12, 2006, 07:49 |
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
I think she's a bit delusional, ya just can't reason with delusional people.
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| June 13, 2006, 08:31 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: how to shake off a girl....
QUOTE (MoonHowler @ June 8, 2006, 08:03) QUOTE (funlovingpair @ June 6, 2006, 23:43)
Am I?
And I thought you miss sweet and innocent you little you.
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| June 13, 2006, 11:59 |
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longsilver
78 / male
Beaverton, Oregon, US
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
Hey , send her my way, after 38 nice requests for a response I got only 2 in 2 days. I guess gals forgot how to type. 
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| July 1, 2006, 16:29 |
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lizonya
64 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: Re: how to shake off a girl....
QUOTE (longsilver @ July 1, 2006, 16:29)
i haven't!
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| July 1, 2006, 16:58 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
Before you act on revenge, remember this... vengence is a entree best served cold. In other words don't act on it while you're mad. think about it first. Just my opinion, & i have lots of them
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| July 2, 2006, 09:59 |
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Mystyqs
59 / couple
Houston, Texas, US
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
Very simply tell her that you didn't mean to lead her on...and yes it sounds as if that's what you did. You asked her if she "liked you" because you wanted to let her know before things got out of hand that you don't share those same feelings for her.
Tell her if she can't accept a friend only relationship it would be best to end the friendship altogether as it's disrupting your whole life and hers.
Good luck....
if that doesnt work the bridge option is still on the table LOL
I am just kidding about the bridge 
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| August 6, 2006, 04:32 |
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
Listen to Baller!!! Thats sound advice!
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| August 6, 2006, 17:20 |
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Re: Re: how to shake off a girl....
QUOTE (SurferDude71 @ August 6, 2006, 17:20)Listen to Baller!!! Thats sound advice!
Might not be such a bad idea but it could backfire on you. For instance, if this guy took baller's advice, told the girl, and she actually stopped and thought about it for a moment or two, she could be really "intelligent" and go spread the rumors around.. because it'd be TRUE to her knowledge, correct? Then after a good number of girls find out, they're not gonna want to have sex with you regardless how much the guy may deny having the actual 'complications' such as HIV, Herpes, etc. So then you could be stuck having sex with a blown up sheep for the rest of your breathing days!!!
I'd reconsider that one. 
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| August 6, 2006, 17:49 |
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Re: how to shake off a girl....
It simply sounds to me that this girl is obsessed with you. And that can't be good if you met her on the internet. B ut the real question is did you give her any indication that you had an interest in her that your no relizing? Women work weied we take things much different then men i think maybe thats why same sex relationships are best off. I think what everyone else is giving you for advice is very true. Good luck .
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| August 8, 2006, 22:28 |
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